Is it weird to like color contrast during sex?

OP is self-explanatory, but iv kinda started to just accept that i just like color contrast during sex. Its not fetishizing someone based off their race more so then just enjoying how different our bodies are (manly, dark vs light and feminine) and it just makes me feel so pretty seeing darker skin work against my light skin. Is this messed up?
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  • No, it's not weird, it's your personal preference. I think it's nonsense anyway to say that someone is weird because of their sexual preferences. It's only a problem if someone watches too much porn. A lot of porn consumption can demonstrably change the sexual preferences one has, so that one develops more and more weird kinks. As long as this is not the case with you, everything is good 👍.

    What I also want to tell you is:
    Don't listen to people who insult you as a slut or BBC slut and want to convince you that as soon as you are 30 or 40, no man wants you anymore. There are men like me who don't care if their girlfriend used to be promiscuous. I prefer to have a kinky girlfriend than a prude girlfriend.

    I'll let you in on a secret:
    The men who tell you that you are a slut are just jealous of women like you because they can't get sex so easily. For most men it is not as easy to get sex as it is for women.
    What kind of insult is slut anyway? Even if it's that you like to live promiscuously, so what? what's wrong with that? Nothing! Live your life the way you want and be glad that you have a functioning sex drive!

    • i'll just say, straight up race does not matter for who i date, its just like a thing i feel myself into because i feel like everyone's just boring so i have to make my own "erotic circumstance" to get into since i'm very narcissistic irl and i have an extremely hard time being interested in people which is why i'm a loner.

    • Do you sometimes feel sad for being a loner?

    • Thanks for mho

  • question would be why? Do you know if you assaulted, molested, sexually imposed upon (even if over the internet) by someone with dark skin?

    In general, I've seen a pattern of "opposites" often draw, so may be nature mixing up the gene pool. My point above is if you were... then that is you now acting out of a wound, and that should be fixed. You are now getting to the age where childhood stuff is done.. prerecorded learnings... mating season has kickd in, but you are wondering and observing yourself and asking "whys". some of those why's are burried in the past in the emotional learnings as a child. Some of those learnings may be "traumas" and those should be corrected.

    You can mate with who you want, I don't care. It's too bad people don't focus more on how to build a family and raise kids and be good partners, but the natural drive is what it is.

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  • This makes sense really, colour contrasts are used for visual stimulation in interior designed and clothing and painting and all the beautiful things humans are drawn too.

    • Maybe makes sense... besides black clothes trendier than ever ever right now like 1920s prolly... white folks

  • Invest in a latex catsuit?

    Is it weird to like color contrast during sex?
    • ... wow holy shit, i never thought about this, i actually can get into this, holy shit actually yea i can completely get into this instead of race shit, lmao thanks anon!

    • Or goth too js

    • Can you actually have sex while wearing that? Or would that be for foreplay only? It seems like it would be very restrictive when it comes to moving around during sex.

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  • Not messed up a bit. I share the same fetish, esp for big and black on small and white.

  • Yeah, pretty messed up what with fetishizing some one for their skin color. I mean what ever, you do you but its definitley weird and clearly a taboo thing for you.

  • Not messed up at all @emokate97

    I love being sexual with Asian girls and they find it sexxy being with a caucasian guy because of the different body shades and also because the pns size is considerably bigger than the average Asian ones

  • Why would that be weird? It may be something different from what "most" people turn to, but that doesn´t mean it´s weird. We all have our little things and quirks when it comes to sex - honestly.

  • You sick in the head white girl

  • Not weird at all. I'm biracial to me it feels hot during unprotected sex, sliding in and out, between light and darker skin.

  • not messed up as each is their own but this is new to me tbh

  • Completely messed up. Bizarre even.

  • I love the various shades of pink

  • I never specifically think about skin shade. Over the years I've been with women that were all sorts of shades. An attractive woman is an attractive woman, period.

  • No, that's not messed up at all.

  • How you explained what you like about it and why is quite sexy I would say..👍🏾

  • I don't think it's messed up. People are entitled to liking anything they want as long as it's legal. :)

  • well you can rationalize it all you want but it is fetishizing someone's race

  • Nope. I like it too, but not only during sex.

    Even when me and my boyfriend hold hands or touch each other (not necessarily in a sexual way)

  • I feel sorta the same but I have a thing for how my skin looks against every skin type even my own

  • Ha very nice! And no I think I’m the same way but as a white male, I would like seeing darker skinned tone women against mine. 😎

  • Nope cause I'm the same way its a major turn on just watch it can make me orgasm

  • Not at all, you know what makes you wet and that’s hot.

  • yes, ure a slut thats into BBC

    • .. I don't care about size fyi, i do enjoy the color contrast, its a minor detail that makes a big difference fyi

    • i read abit of ur bio, ho boy, can't u scream more im not like the other girls?

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      i think i posted about it, fuck I don't know what i was doing. i think i was like 21 or 22 and he was like 34 so 12 years. it was fetish shit and i hooked up with him from an online forum (maybe criegslist?) and i just wanted a really big black dick and he was the biggest one out there. FML I don't know why i did it looking back, i think i was just bored and being slutty''
      What is the biggest age gap you had sex with? ↗

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