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What does a guy feel when a girl says “it’s so big”?

If a girl were to see your dick for the first time and she says that. What thoughts go through your mind? Like it?
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  • Oh my god I have a story about this. So I'm trans (female to male) and when me and my last partner got together we went to an adult store to get a strap-on because he wanted me to be able to top him. We decided to split the cost, so I picked out and bought the harness, he picked out and bought the dick.
    Anyway, the first time we used it he said "you feel so big". And I don't know why I found it so funny but I just kept thinking "You picked it! You chose the size! You had dozens of options, why are you surprised by the one YOU picked?"
    Anyway we aren't together anymore and when we split he kept the dick because he paid for it. So now it's a running joke with my friends that I lost my penis in the divorce

Most Helpful Guy

  • I was worried with my size (even though I objectively shouldn't, I should be rather happy) but I've seen how relationships don't care about it unless you're having some issue like having a micropenis, which is pretty rare. I've met top girls which had no problem and were happy with smaller penises than mine and I talked with then about it.

    I've been said that all the times (lucky me, I guess) because I've been the biggest of all my GFs or the first. At first it was great for my ego, but now I just feel like "okay, that's fine". This is because I know there are many many things to focus on sexually speaking, so I'd rather be happy at the end when I'm told "I've enjoyed a lot with you" and not just "it's so big" at the beginning.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He could be disappointed or he could be overjoyed-- it depends on who they are. loool. Clearly, they want maximum pleasure.

    • @bella_iris why would a guy be disappointed by this?

    • @MarkyMark77 If it doesn't fit-- or hurts their partner.

    • @bella_iris oh have u ever had this? what did u do?

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  • Haha 😂 my first thought is, “well, we’re gonna have to figure something out, cus I want in!” 😂😂


    But seriously, it’s a compliment. It’s a blessing. Sooo many guys will never experience that. And I feel sorry for them.


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  • It's a huge ego boost for me. I remember after I got divorced and started dating, the first time I got the OMG reaction. It was great. Still love to hear I'm too big.

  • Naturally, yeah; I do enjoy hearing a woman say that.

    It's flattering, if course, and an ego boost, despite the fact that I had absolutely nothing to do with the size of my dick. It's just genetics, but it's still nice to get the compliment.

  • I'm average, I know I'm average, I have no problem with being average (average is the optimal size otherwise it wouldn't be average). So her saying it would be seen for what it is, an attempt to boost my ego, so while I appreciate the sentiments, I would disagree with her. My ex said that I was "thicker" then other guys and I told her outright no, I'm average but thank you (she seemed upset at this so I'm not sure if she was being honest or not).

  • Guys unless they're naïve or vain, recognize her remark as the female equivalent of being told: "You're SO beautiful..." A transient flattery... to soothe insecurity.

  • She must just being really nice. Mine's only slightly bigger than average.

  • Feels like getting a diploma, having a promotion, winning $10k all at once 😂

    If I can suggest your next question, I would repeat the same one but with "it's *too* big".

    That could show interesting answers, it's a mix of emotions 😂

  • I get that here where I live in Asia.. Asian men have comparatively small sizes sexually (under 5 inches hard on average) so my 7.2" gets a wide-eyed look and 'soooo big' response from Asian girls everytimeHow does it feel @Hannah_Ann_Linge? It's an especially exciting extra dimension of sexual turn on tbh !!

  • Just took it in stride despite the fact each woman I have been with has said that. Honestly feel it is just used as an ego boost most of the time instead of being genuine.

  • It’s a huge (pardon the pun) ego boost and makes us want to satisfy her even more.

  • i think, like most guys, i like being told that

  • That she's lying or just saying it to stroke my ego. I don't tend to take it seriously.

  • I've had a couple girls say that and I thought they were just being kind. That's because my penis is average size which I'm fine with by the way. So maybe they didn't really know average from above average but they probably did. Anyway it was fine if they wanted to say that.

  • We take it as a compliment if we really like the girl and can”t wait to stick it in her so she can feel it

  • " I hope she can take the whole thing then".

  • It blows up his ego of course

  • Nothing anymore, but it used to make me feel more confident.

    • My penis, 23 cm l am Lgbt

    • Aight, gl hf with that I guess.

  • It's a huge stroke for the ego. I never thought I'd care for it but one has to admit it feels nice.

  • Like a champion 😂

  • I would be flattered. Some guys may worry that she's seen a lot of dicks up close for her know that theirs is big.

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