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What do guys think of labia that peek out/large/small/innie/outie vaginas?

I have labia that show a bit and have never had an issue with any guy I've been with, however, one of my close guy friends recently said he hates "roast beef curtains" or anything of the like. I hate that nickname for labia but I understand that some men are grossed out by it. Please tell me honestly what your thoughts are. I'm considering having a labiaplasty to get mine removed and the only thing holding me back is that in Canada it's $6500. :( Mine aren't too big but I hate them... enlighten me please! Honest opinions!
Thanks loves!
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  • For the love of god, find something much better to spend $6500 on (your 401k would be a good choice!, or just an investment account). The last thing in the world you need to do is cut off your pussy lips.

    You are FINE. Your pussy is attractive, just as it is. You've got one shallow guy, who likely hasn't seen many women naked in real life, making a rude comment, and you're ready to pay to have body parts hacked off. That's insane!

    99% of guys DO NOT CARE, and so what if 1 or 2% of guys have some other opinion? You can't please everyone, so it's insane to get surgery to try. Please leave your body alone - it's great just as it is.

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  • I'm just gonna be very honest, I'm sorry if I don't sound nice. I don't mind any kind of labia. I feel an innie kind of looks prepubescent so a little turned off by it, but not a deal breaker.
    The only kind that grosses me out a little bit is the type where the labia is very thick. Not big labia, but the flap of skin itself is very thick. maybe cuz it kind of resembles a nutsack. But I guess i wouldn't mind it if I'm really into the girl. Moreover, at least it doesn't look prepubescent so that's a plus.

    • I really super appreciate this reply. That's honest and also kind. I am feeling so uplifted and literally SO ready to take on the world now! Haha! It's been weighing on me a lot and ruining my self esteem. Heating everyone commend my normal vagina is just so amazing. I feel great! Mine aren't thick. Just normal I guess. :) it's great to hear that someone thinks the prepubescent thing is actually very bizarre and strange to be desired. Thank you for saying that! It's true!

    • I'm surprised having a visible labia had such a weight on you. I think you should be proud of it. Having a visible labia is what makes it feels like I'm looking at a pussy in the first place. Otherwise it just looks like a slit that hardly resembles genitalia. Labia is the arousing part of the female genitalia according to me. Even while watching porn, I just skip the porn where the women have an innie

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  • Large labias are personally a turn on for me.

    Please don' get surgery. Any guy that is disgusted with what you are born with, doesn't deserve to be with you.

  • Ugh... Not a fan of "outie" labias. I don't want to see the lips, at all. I like women, but those are super gross to look at. I wouldn't even consider doing oral on a girl that had those. With that said though, I'm sure many other men enjoy beef curtains.

  • I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure you're pretty down there.

    • How very sweet! Thank you so much!! 🥰💖

  • I prefer those that stick out beyond the outer lips. Very erotic. Great to look at and suck between my lips. Love them!

  • I happen to be one of those men that LOVE large labia. Yours would be the perfect size for me.
    I don't advise the labiaplasty; I think it will detract from the beauty of your vagina. There are plenty of men out there that Love the large labia (like me). I think women have this weird idea that men just want a slit with no inner labia visible. Some men do, and some me (like me) want and prefer more features such as visible inner labia. There are a few sites out there that cater to the larger labia minora.
    So please think before you spend the money to take away something so beautiful.

  • 95% of guys don't worry about that but you seemed to have encountered a guy that did.

  • i love having something to play with down there so you sound perfect as you are

  • I've never thought about it. I don't think many men do. They are all perfect.

  • Your inner labia are perfectly normal and there's absolutely nothing wrong with them. Having inner labia that are visible through the outer labia is very very commonplace and is NOT a flaw that requires surgery. And I agree with you that there is no place among decent human beings for derogatory terms like you mentioned.

    • Wow!! This response is incredibly eye opening and makes me feel a lot better. Thank you so much! I can't tell you enough how much it means to me and encourages me that you classify what I have as "normal" and that I'm actually "ok". Bless you!! 🥰🥺

    • You're very welcome. My girlfriend used to be self conscious about her inner labia but she's not anymore. She educated herself (with my help and research) about just how normal and common her vulva appearance is. The vulvas seen in porn for the most part aren't representative of how most women's vulvas are in the real world. My girlfriend loves that part of her body now and I have always loved it.

    • Here is a link to a short summary of the results of a peer-reviewed medical study on inner labia length and whether the women in the study had visible inner labia. If you scroll down to the "Results" section you will see that 56% of the women examined by the gynecologists had visible inner labia, meaning that they extended past the outer labia.
      https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28369012/

  • I'm in Canada too and I love protruding inner labia, especially when they spread and look like a butterfly , it is so much nicer to give oral to as I can suck the inner labia into my mouth and because they connect to the clit hood you can make the clit hood slide back and forth on the clit stimulating it until the clit is fully engorged and aroused which is when I can start stimulating the clit directly with my tongue or if the clit is big enough I suck on it. There's very few innies that I've liked.

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