Is this a normal kink for a girl?

I really enjoy rough sex. Not normal dom/sub sex, but more like dom/dom sex. Where both of us try to be rough. All the guys I've been with and my friends don't think it's normal.
Is this a normal kink for a girl or am I weird?
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  • I've been with girls like that. It pissed me off. STFU! And then seemed to like it when I got over-the-top, which doesn't make it quite feel like dom/dom... more like they are playing with me to get the most dom out of me. But I never liked that personally because I have to get angry to unleash my most dom side like that. Then I want to suffocate them with a pillow and have my way with them, but at the same time, I don't really want to hurt them. Do you really like being dom or do you like just playing the role do get a superdom outta your guy?

    • I really like to be the dom

    • That means the guy has to bend to your will at the end of the day -- probably you already know that but just wanted to check in case. The women I was with who were like that felt like they were testing me -- escalate and escalate and escalate and then I come over-the-top each time until they give in. I dunno what I'd do with a girl who never gave up on being dom... cause I'm never giving up either!

Most Helpful Guy

  • Kinks by definition aren't generally normal and people are so secretive about sex that identifing "normal" is pretty much impossible. I believe the best thing to do is to A) embrace, explore, and enjoy what you like and B) communicate with your partner so they know what to expect and enjoy it as well.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You're fine, and it's normal to have kinks or interests that your friends don't, you don't have to listen to them. It's not a common kink but that doesn't mean "not normal".
    Though that's not my cup of tea I do understand what you're talking about and trust me you're all good.

    • Thank you

    • No problem

  • Its less common but nothing in this world is "weird".

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  • I think it's a less common kink, but I don't know that the word "normal" (or "not normal") is really the word to use.

  • Yeah of course it's normal for some girls. They like the feeling of it and it gets them off easier. They think it's weird but they probably have kinks you find weird.
    I love a dominant girl

  • You're perfectly normal. Question: do you want him to "win" eventually? Over power you?

  • If you have to ask the internet, the answer's gonna be "No." And no, rough sex isn't normal at all, but lots of men enjoy it, so I think you'll be fine.

  • It's totally normal. Let him know. It will enhance the experience.

  • whatever works for you... unusual maybe but not ''not normal''

  • Sounds like shit u see in the movies

  • Normal.

  • so in other words you want it so rough it really hurts?

    • Yeah kinda

    • its kind of common and called masochonist (sp). so if the guy (aasuming you are into guys) wanted to spank your pussy really hard before fucking, you would like that right?

  • It sounds pretty normal. I think power exchanges are one of the most enjoyable parts of sex, and double doming is fun, though one eventually needs to submit, I feel. But the journey is more fun than the destination.

  • I think Dom/Dom sounds fun.

  • I think its normal
    but then again I also like it rough so I could be biased lol

  • It’s normal maybe not way common but there is nothing abnormal about it

  • No I’m like that too.

  • I dont know if this is normal but I definitely want to try this (I'm a switch) sounds fun

  • Do you mean like rutting?

  • That sounds awesome!

  • Hard sex 👍👍

  • I would like someone like you

  • fuck you sound choice

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