If a girl says to a guy (referring to a cocktail she’s buying him) “do you want to have sex on the beach?” Is that flirty?

[Anonymous]

[DrunkAss]

I dunno. Seems like a plenty good opportunity to turn the tables though and get flirty yourself. This sort of question makes me think that some guys are sort of waiting passively for a girl to say she wants them. I don't think this way. I think of a way to turn the tables and make things happen. I think my way works better. Instead of guessing what every single sentence that the girl says means, look for an opportunity to seduce and make the situation advantageous for you. That definitely works if you're in the right mood to pull it off.

[JustinTheGreat]

Yeah. I feel if I said that to someone I wasn’t trying to flirt with, I would word it in a way that doesn’t sound weird. Like “do you want a sex on the beach cocktail”

but she didn’t even include “a” before the drink name which makes me think she did that on purpose lol

[NarutoUzumaki007]

nope

[Anonymous]

It's probably just a joke.

[Asker]

But isn’t that what flirting is? Isn’t flirting basically just being fun and light hearted and joking around like that?

[Opinion Owner]

To me, flirting is a means to an end. You're hoping for an outcome. A joke is nothing but a joke. But since I wasn't there, I can't say which it was. A girl I used to work with said she loves blow jobs. But she said this at the bar at the country club we worked at. She was just making a joke.

[Asker]

If she says it to a guy, it’s pretty flirty is it not?

[Opinion Owner]

It's hard to say. It's all about if she wanted a certain outcome. Do you think she did?

[Asker]

I don’t know.

[Opinion Owner]

See, that's the problem. You would have to be there to judge the moment. Did she say this to you?

[Asker]

Yes. She’s a friend who a few people says likes me.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm going to give you some good advice, and whether or not you take it, is up to you. We have plenty of free time on our hands nowadays, so use this time to come up with answers to questions. In other words, I'm guessing she caught you off guard and you didn't have a comeback. So fix that. Make sure this never happens to you again. Create comebacks for every possible scenario, and be locked and loaded for the next event. Her: Would you like to have sex on the beach?" You: No, I'm afraid of sharks. I'd prefer a slow comfortable screw against the wall. (Another drink)

[Asker]

Haha. That’s hilarious.

[Opinion Owner]

That's what you need to start doing. Put you mind to good use and come up with this stuff in advance. You'll be well received and girls will like you.