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But isn’t that what flirting is? Isn’t flirting basically just being fun and light hearted and joking around like that?
To me, flirting is a means to an end. You're hoping for an outcome. A joke is nothing but a joke. But since I wasn't there, I can't say which it was. A girl I used to work with said she loves blow jobs. But she said this at the bar at the country club we worked at. She was just making a joke.
If she says it to a guy, it’s pretty flirty is it not?
It's hard to say. It's all about if she wanted a certain outcome. Do you think she did?
I don’t know.
See, that's the problem. You would have to be there to judge the moment. Did she say this to you?
Yes. She’s a friend who a few people says likes me.
I'm going to give you some good advice, and whether or not you take it, is up to you. We have plenty of free time on our hands nowadays, so use this time to come up with answers to questions. In other words, I'm guessing she caught you off guard and you didn't have a comeback. So fix that. Make sure this never happens to you again. Create comebacks for every possible scenario, and be locked and loaded for the next event. Her: Would you like to have sex on the beach?"You: No, I'm afraid of sharks. I'd prefer a slow comfortable screw against the wall. (Another drink)
Haha. That’s hilarious.
That's what you need to start doing. Put you mind to good use and come up with this stuff in advance. You'll be well received and girls will like you.