Is it weird that as a woman, I don't enjoy sex?

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SueShe · Accepted Answer

Against other opinions voiced here, it is not weird, strange or abnormal that people don't like or enjoy being intimate.

There are probably more negative sides to being intimate than positive. Here are just a few arguments against enjoying it.

* extremely high risk of STD/STI infection
* very high risk of being cheated on
* messy
* stinky
* unhygienic
* need to perform even when you are not in the mood for it
* need to have to deliver/be ready whenever the other wants it
* potential damage to your body (tears, rips)
* having to do things you are disgusted/don't want to perform but are imposed
* expensive (need to buy condoms and/or female BC with potential deadly risks like thrombosis)
* risk of unwanted pregnancies with associated abortions

There are certainly another number of associated negative issues that all speak against being physically sexual. You can achieve a higher level of happiness by just refraining from being intimate because you remove all those worries and risks.

Also, people place too much emphasis on that activity. While it represents less of one single percent of an adult's time spent awake, it takes up so much time and energy just for those few pathetic spasms. The entire life revolves around that activity and people murder and rape for it.

If you think of it, there are actually no major benefits to it.

cth96190 · Accepted Answer

Surveys have shown that about 50 per cent of marriages are sexless, which means that you are normal.
The figures show that about half the female population pretend to be interested in sex until after they have a man stitched up in a marriage contract, then the sex stops.
Men. . . stay single. At the first sign that a female is losing interest in sex, take her back to the lot and trade her in on another one.

MountAverage · Accepted Answer

If by "weird" you mean very unusual and uncommon, then yes. But what you said is very vague. What do you mean exactly? Do you only not enjoy the act have having penetrative vaginal sex? Or any sex? Even masturbation? Do you ever feel sexually aroused? Do you enjoy orgasms? Like I said, what you said is very vague and doesn't really tell us much.

AustinMan · Answer

A bit. Why not?

MCheetah · Answer

Don't worry; most women don't enjoy sex. Ever wonder why femcels literally aren't even a thing? If anything, you'd be strange if you DID want sex a fraction as much as the average man. Other women would be calling you "slut" and "whore" if you did. And as some pseudo-intellectual is sure to comment later on, "You might just be asexual. Hurr, hurr, hurr..." I mean, you're 30-35 though, so I think you'd know by now if you were or not.