Is this strange I feel this way?

[JessieBellll]

I hate female pedophiles a lot more than males because I feel they are more perverted as they seduce the boy in most cases while the man wouldn't dare and is approached by the girl.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

No, It's not strange. You have a stated reason for that belief. nothing weird about that

[JessieBellll]

Thanks

[nodnol32]

Nope. As long as you hate paedophiles and acknowledge that its wrong.

[JessieBellll]

Agree

[AndriaAlex]

Wow, agreed.

[JessieBellll]

SUPER

[DaisyM23]

I think both female and male pedophiles are disgusting. And it’s pretty stereotypical to assume that girls would approach the men when plenty of boys have crushes on older women and approach them. Both are equally hateful for me

[Olivier-628]

Both are wrong but i dont know actually what pedophiles do and how they work. I'm just guessing as a guy your punishment will be worse than if you were a female.

[JessieBellll]

But what about how I feel

[Olivier-628]

I don't know if what you say is true. But if so. Yea i guess you are right.

[JessieBellll]

Thanks, yes I know tons of cases and this is what happens

[OlderAndWiser]

". . . the man wouldn't dare and is approached by the girl." I don't think that is true.

[JessieBellll]

Yh I got that wrong but I keep to my stance.

[JessieBellll]

At least it happens way less often than women who approach boys

[OlderAndWiser]

"Nearly all of the offenders in sexual assaults reported to law enforcement were male (96%). Female offenders were most common in assaults against victims under age 6. For these youngest victims, 12% of offenders were females, compared with 6% for victims ages 6 through 12, and 3% for
victims ages 12 through 17. Overall, 6% of the offenders who sexually assaulted juveniles were female, compared with just 1% of the female offenders who sexually assaulted adults."

https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/saycrle.pdf

[JessieBellll]

Reported is the key word here. Most female pedophiles don't get reported

[OlderAndWiser]

And how do you know that?

[JessieBellll]

From experience and how media is biased against men. Especially law enforcement

[OlderAndWiser]

You have experience with female pedophiles not being reported? You think law enforcement has a female pedophile come to their attention and they don't bother to report it or take action because they don't consider it to be serious?

[JessieBellll]

Maybe. I know people and media wouldn't take it seriously. Law enforcement doesn't care about female pedophiles. Very few reach the courts anyway.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are making guesses and representing them as facts.

[AndyOh]

You are entitled to your opinion.
I think you are wrong that men would not dare approach a girl and she approaches him. In some cases sure, the girl approaches, but many other times, the guy approaches the girl to get on her good side and get her trust.

[JessieBellll]

I don't believe men approach girls as often as you think

[Jjpayne]

I've personally never thought about something like that but you do bring up an interesting point 🤔

[JessieBellll]

So you think I am strange?

[Jjpayne]

Not necessarily

[JessieBellll]

Okay

[ThisDudeHere]

"while the man wouldn't dare and is approached by the girl."
You have to be kidding, right?

[JessieBellll]

I was probably wrong there But you didn't answer the question

[JessieBellll]

I know I bother you It makes me happy

[JessieBellll]

Actually I take it back. Far more women approach boys than vice versa. It's disgusting

[wittymilf]

Um all sexual assault victims I know definitely didn’t approach there tormentors

[JessieBellll]

Maybe those who did aren't victims?

[JessieBellll]

Anyway what about the actual question?

[wittymilf]

I also don’t believe seduction is assault 🤷‍♀️ I think I feel the opposite to you, respectfully of course. That being said I abhor both gender of pedos... the dudes just loose extra points for the mostashes 🥸

[JessieBellll]

Seduction of a minor is disgusting and taking advantage because they don't know what they are doing and the adult does. That's why female pedophiles are worse to me.

[wittymilf]

But just straight out molestering a minor isn’t worse? I don’t see the difference

[JessieBellll]

Of course but I haven't seen such cases often.

[wittymilf]

I don’t understand what your saying. So women seduce their and men do what to there victims?

[JessieBellll]

Men either seduce, force or get seduced. I know tons of girls who done it, they may be in the minority, but it affects my perception. Women seduce and manipulate their victims

[wittymilf]

So little girls.. such like my three year old neice who was raped... were asking for it?

[JessieBellll]

I am talking about teenagers...

[wittymilf]

I’m really confused right now 🤔

[wittymilf]

Oh well that makes more sense... but it’s also a bit insulting to guys right. Like we’re saying girls know what they’re doing but boys are really stupid 🤷‍♀️

[JessieBellll]

Kind of. I do believe girls are more mature and smarter though

[Anon621]

I don't think it is strange since you gave a proper explanation to allow people to understand why you feel this way specifically.

[SphynxUK]

The man isn’t approached by the girl.
Predatory men and women groom the children they are interested in.
Show an interest, give compliments, care, gifts, until the child trusts them.
Some kids don’t even know they have been abused as they love the abuser, and don’t question things until they get older, realise it’s wrong or have it pointed out to them.

[JessieBellll]

In my experience, girls approach men lot more often than boys approach women

[SphynxUK]

Your experience doesn’t represent the masses.

[JessieBellll]

Well but it influences my views

[callMeNeel]

I think you feel so because female pedophiles are "unheard" of, and thus you might feel they are worse.
However, i think we need to normalize female pedophiles too. because they're not punished by law as they're supposed to be. So, in a way, you're okay with having a stronger feeling against female pedos

[JessieBellll]

Exactly

[Lynx122]

I don't know there's some pretty messed up male pedophiles. But I do think female ones are seen as too harmless.

[JessieBellll]

It's not that much about harm to me. But how they typically go about getting through to the victim.

[jshm2]

You're claiming that. But really you're probably just jealous they get more guys/are more confident than you.

Everyone rational hates crime. But it's only those who have an insecurity/weakness/secret to it, that harp on about specific crimes.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I see it the other way. Men tend to be more violent and dangerous. I've not known of any female pedophiles who dismembered or murdered their victims.

Just a thought, but perhaps you hate them more because you understand better how a woman thinks, and identify with them more for it. And since you identify with them, it greatly disturbs you that someone you can identify with could do something that you see is disgusting and appalling. Hope that makes sense.

[JessieBellll]

What pedophiles murdered and dismembered kids? You realise those are in the minority and only a few? Most pedophiles use mental manipulation to get their victims.

[JessieBellll]

Very few get physical

[JessieBellll]

But the real reason I hate them more is because there are men who defend and support these women. You don't have people doing that to pedophile men.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

It happens more often than you think (extreme physical abuse) - how many little girls get abducted and raped dozens or hundreds of times over months of being chained up in a basement. I've never heard of ONE older woman doing that. My only point was that at least the victims are on average 'less harmed/damaged' again- on average. Yes, I do however acknowledge that most just use mental manipulation on both sides. Men defend them because after a boy hits puberty, his sex drive is already in high gear, and growing daily. You do realize that teen boys wake up almost every single day with an erection that is both long lasting and extremely embarrassing. They pop random boners all day long. Especially when a pretty girl is near. It does get painful after a while. Sex is all they can think of. What I'm saying is the music video "hot for teacher" may be the most accurate interpretation of what teen boys want. Any hot teacher willing to break them in is just awesome in their eyes. Even as men, we still remember those feelings and perspective. I get that you hate that it seems more acceptable for women to get away with it, and in a way I agree with you too, but I also believe society is a bit too triggered to deal with it rationally. Too much law&order SVU (in america at least) has triggered a tsunami of pedo-fear in this country, to the point that people can't be rational about discussing it's causes and solutions.

[JessieBellll]

Girls get horny too and gay gays too, but they still don't defend pedophile men. It's just a low thing to do. And I have to see the cases where little girls get violently abducted and hurt. This definitely doesn't happen as often in the UK. I might as well start supporting young girls and boys with male pedophiles, so many hot male teachers I would have fucked. I guess it's harmless. Wonder how many men get triggered lol

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I'm just a little confused over your concerns. I try to treat this particular topic with reason and logic, because most everyone else approaches it with emotion, and a flame-thrower, figuratively. There's a few people on here who've pointed out the science of sexuality, but often the responses are so emotional and violent that they just end up ghosting out. I do too. You seem to want to discuss it rationally, but your emotions are seeming to cloud your message, if not mostly craft it.

[JessieBellll]

Why do you think so?

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Because you seem to have trouble articulating exactly why, or what about older females sleeping with minor males bothers you more than older men sleeping with minor females.

[JessieBellll]

I guess my bias. I was into older men Isn't that the same with how men are bothered about males having sex with underage females but they don't care about females doing it with minor boys?

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I would say yes from that perspective.

[JessieBellll]

So you contradicted yourself as you said I am emotional, but then agreed I am not.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Partially yes. It's okay have contradictory feelings and beliefs, the world isn't black and white.

[Sessy]

Girls approaching grown men? What you say is shameful

[JessieBellll]

But also truthful. But that doesn't answer the question?

[JessieBellll]

You sound like you live in a bubble

[Sessy]

@jessiebellll Yes it is strange because it's not an accurate reflection. Adult men should be held responsible for approaching children or "being approached by children" as you are claiming. Why do you hate female pedophiles and not males pedophiles? They're both equally a disgrace. You seem to be very biased, I don't know if that's because you hate women in general.

[JessieBellll]

I hate both

[MecheD]

It’s not strange especially seeing how you’re a woman. So you know more of women antics then guys. With that being said though the act itself I feel no matter who does it is wrong simply because you’re taking someone’s innocence away from them.

[JessieBellll]

Great answer

[Dargil]

I just think we should leave underage to discover sex as we did. Let them discover together as I did. New and fresh and exciting.

[JessieBellll]

OK but that doesn't answer my question?

[JessieBellll]

Does it bother you how I feel?

[Dargil]

No, I respect it.

[Neko911]

I disagree. As someone who was molested and raped as a kid by a male pedophile I tend to find then worse. Women definitely go about it different yes, but men are blunt and tend to prey on girls related to them, and men seduce girls as well. Lots of cases of men grooming girls for this very reason

[JessieBellll]

Sorry to hear that. No wonder you are biased. By related you mean family?

[Neko911]

Yes. And it's not really biased. I've read a lot on this subject. Both are horrible in different ways. I just find men's ways worse

[JessieBellll]

You see, female pedophiles may do that as well, I know mom's who had sex with their sons. And thinking one side is way worse is bias honey. Its just a fact

[Neko911]

And I can name many men have done what you seem to claim only women do... so

[JessieBellll]

Okay, I am not trying to argue, just saying how I feel.

[Neko911]

As I did i. But you wanted to argue my logic, And I'm nearly stating I can do the same to yours of that's the case

[JessieBellll]

I just stated my experience. How did I argue your logic?

[Neko911]

You see, female pedophiles may do that as well, I know mom's who had sex with their sons. By that logic I can name men who's done the same as you claim women do. You just want for this women to be worse. Or you wouldn't have even felt the need to make that comment

[JessieBellll]

And what's wrong with it? It's my opinion

[Neko911]

And that's fine. But don't claim you weren't trying to argue when you were just because I stated after you said that I can name men who do the same as what u claim women do

[JessieBellll]

You literally argued against me with your whole response to my question here. You seem to be bothered by my opinion because you have a bias and you have the right to feel that way. I will always hate female pedophiles more, but it really depends on the person. I can change my mind easily.

[Neko911]

Wasn't really arguing. I was stating I disagree and why. Trust me of I wnated to argue you'd know

[JessieBellll]

I am really curious now... I love to argue

[Neko911]

And I don't. I already stated my opinion so. Both are complete pieces of shit

[goaded]

I don't think men are approached by girls.

[JessieBellll]

They are from my experience. But what do you think about how I feel?

[JessieBellll]

Does it bother you?

[goaded]

Yes, I think it's unreasonable.

[JessieBellll]

Why so?

[JessieBellll]

You are entitled to your opinion Hate people who think female pedophiles are not a big deal

[goaded]

I don't think it's no big deal, but you'll have to be more specific. A man assaulting a pre-teen of either sex can result in severe physical damage. A woman doing the same probably won't. Talking about teenagers, I don't know about girls, but I was a boy, and I'd have been chuffed to have had sex at that age. That's just my experience.

[JessieBellll]

As I said above those are my reasons and boys may enjoy it but they are taken advantage of and used as you cannot make any decisions like this at that age.

[JessieBellll]

That's common sense

[goaded]

What age? 15?

[JessieBellll]

12 to 16

[JessieBellll]

Female pedophiles are just bigger perverts to me. Also you claim you would like it as a boy which suggests you are biased. I am also turned on by men and wanted older men during my teen years, so that's my bias here

[goaded]

OK, so what about a 10 year old? 5? 2? Months? Why were you entitled to be turned on by men and wanted older men during your teen years, but boys weren't? Were you incapable of making decisions at that age?

[JessieBellll]

I never said boys weren't entitled. I am saying how I feel and I am only discussing ternagers

[JessieBellll]

It's wrong, I don't see your problem

[goaded]

OK, so you, as a teenager, could make that decision, but boys, as teenagers, couldn't? My particular objection to male paedophiles (who, incidentally, are interested in pre-pubescent children) is that they are more likely to physically, as well as mentally, damage their victims. Hebephiles, who are interested in teenagers, are less likely to physically hurt their victims, and, if some "victims" don't think they're victims, are they really victims?

[JessieBellll]

I couldn't make those decisions either, I never said I did. And yes, they are still victims because they are being used. Overall I HATE female pedophiles for the reasons I stated

[JessieBellll]

You seem to want to change my views when you think opposite of what I do. There's no need for that, but it shouldn't bother you how I feel

[goaded]

I'm not trying to change your views any more than you're trying to change mine. I'm just saying, when I was 16 years old, I'd have had sex with almost anything, and appreciated it!

[JessieBellll]

I am not the one who is bothered by someone's view

[JessieBellll]

I think that says a lot

[JessieBellll]

I think you are unreasonable, you are not thinking it from the adult side

[boombastik]

I can see that. I don't think you can seduce the willing in most cases lol. I'm kidding but there is something wrong in both men and women but women have it so much easier in finding a man that I just don't see why they would want to seduce a kid. Most teachers you see get in trouble for that are usually hot.

[JessieBellll]

What do you mean I can see that?