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My husband gets turned of if I want sex or initiate it, what can I do?

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* he has anxiety issues e. g. if he has bad day at work he can't have sex
* He always uses excuses like he's sick, tired, upset etc. I understand his work is stressful and long hours.
* He doesn't like it if I masturbate infront of him, it's a major turn off he said. He makes me feel like I'm a monster for doing that.
* He finds it annoying if I ask for sex
* He finds it a turn of if I seduce him
* He is 32m, I am 29f, been living together for 6 years
* What I find the most weird is he has a erection and he still doesn't really want to have sex sometimes
* He has rarely initiated
* I am always initiating but he does give me sex eventually but it's like pity sex when I ask. Like here you go, have it, kind of thing.

It seems like some kind of control issue, I really don't know what to do, any advice would be helpful, thanks x
My husband gets turned of if I want sex or initiate it, what can I do?
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