So I have a dilemma... should I just do it or be faithful?

[Anonymous]

So me and boyfriend been together 3 years, but I don't know why for the last couple months, he has been lacking when it comes to sex, i know sex ain’t everything but it is important. Every-time we have sex he comes fast and i get pissed cuz dang c’mo its always when im about to get mine. I try to b understanding but its just getting me more and more aggravated. So I had this guy who basically do w. e and he actually know how to get shit down. So i wanted to just have sex with him just this one time but I feel so guilty. Ps I had sex with him before when me & boyfriend decide to take a break and see other people but then we got back together so i cut tht guy off but til this day even if i was to call at 5am he will pull up. But again I don't know, i know its wrong to even think about it. What you guys think? Please don’t judge me, on the comments at least i haven’t act on my desire, rather just ask lol just keeping it real

[Danish87]

See sex is one of requirement in relation and if it is not available other one is going to get frustrate and will fight or look outside to satisfy him/herself.

As you are back on relation with ur boyfriend, it's giving you feeling of cheating him. Just talk with your boyfriend regarding sex issue and try to resolve. And if can't look over permanent solution.
Else you will do such act in future (may be) and will regret.

[sakshamsadana]

Sex is an essential ingredient of a happy relationship.
You need to discuss this with him.
Also, please don't compare him with any other guy cuz that's only gonna make you sad.
Sex is something you need to learn and explore.

[NoGamePlan]

this is really difficult to read, maybe add some more commas and periods. Just talk it out with him. Literally just say "I want sex to be longer so I can enjoy it too"

[Asker]

Sorry, i was writing it as if i was speaking. Also English its not my first language. But i have tell him and we have talk about it but its the same issue. & now i just feel bad for even asking to have sex. I know he feels embarrassed so i just stop asking.

[jspl90]

okay girl how do you have sex with your boyfriend?

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[jspl90]

is just him pounding away at you or is there foreplay and/or different positions

[Asker]

there's deff no foreplay, and change of positions its sometimes most of the time same position

[jspl90]

well there is your problem have a talk with him about the need of foreplay etc and maybe try being on top and grinding untill you achieve orgasm and then maybe switch into doggy or something

[Andres77]

It's too bad ur boyfriend is so selfish and lame in bed but if you don't work with him on your pleasure... ur fucking up. Ur going to have to tell him that ur pleasure is important and see if he steps up. If he doesn't then ask if he's willing to let you get ur pleasure from someone else.

[JesterRose]

Unless your relationship has room for such activities (meaning both parties agree) than either break up or stay the course. Breaking that bond is only going to hurt you both. My wife and i have an open relationship but have a very strict set of rules to go with.

There is no excuse for breaking the trust your partner has with you that would be anything more than blame shifting. If you can't honor their trust in you, break the relationship off.

[jl25sc]

End the relationship right now and move on. You owe it to your partner for that.

[Yourman89]

Fuck it. Do it. You only live once. No regrets

[Anonymous]

I think you would be better suited for an open relationship where you can fuck other guys.

[Anonymous]

In my experience cheating sex can be the best most exciting and fulfilling sex you can have i say go for it but don't limit yourself to just once

[Anonymous]

Just break up and then do all your thinking with your vagina.