If I'm with a girl for casual reasons and she starts falling for me I always pull out. Because I've been on the other end of this mirror and I know it's hard when you have feelings for someone that they don't for you. It's okay to fuck someone, it's not okay to fuck with their feelings.

Is this a friends with benefits? If you were this from the start then it's fine to continue, he should stop if he feels like it's best for him

I wouldn’t, I’d want to find someone that excites me.

Would you keep sleeping with someone who you know has feelings for you if your feelings weren’t mutual?

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MikeTheBartender Yoda
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If I'm with a girl for casual reasons and she starts falling for me I always pull out. Because I've been on the other end of this mirror and I know it's hard when you have feelings for someone that they don't for you. It's okay to fuck someone, it's not okay to fuck with their feelings.
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virgin20 Yoda
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Is this a friends with benefits?
If you were this from the start then it's fine to continue, he should stop if he feels like it's best for him
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I’m my case we stated as a couple but after we broke up we kept having sex. Eventually I realized I couldn’t keep doing it bc I still had feelings for him and I was the one who ended the arrangement. But then he confessed to still having feelings for me. However, afterwards he must have got cold feet or something bc he just ditched. If he had done it earlier it wouldn’t have been nearly as hurtful but to do it after saying he still had feelings for me just to sleep with me again was extremely hurtful
- virgin20
  +1 y
  Yeah that's a bit dickish of him to not follow through, was it down to the sex being good? It sounds like he missed it all and said that to make you come back just for sex rather than you
- Asker
  +1 y
  The sex was good in my opinion. I tried my best and I was a pleaser but I was a virgin when I met him and he as the only guy I had ever been with so I didn’t have anything to compare it to. I honestly always wondered that too. Like I tried to have a good time but I always wondered if something like sex was that deep to hurt me over. I didn’t think I deserved that and even if the sex was as amazing to him as I thought it was I still didn’t think I deserved to be lied to over something like sex. There are people who will be okay with just having casual sex and if I changed my mind he should have been cool with that
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- virgin20
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  Everyone has different morals in life. If he said he had feelings for you, just to have sex and leave again, that shows he wasn't the one for you. I'm a virgin so I don't know how much you can miss sex, but I think the main thing here for you is to recover from him treating you like that to being ready for the next person in your life