My mom boyfriend wants to discipline me is this allowed?

[esmeraldagomez2]

[robertKugler]

Nope it's gonna get weird does your mom know if he dicipine you it should be with your mom present if your fam is kinky might be you do what feels right for u
He might have a thing for u thats common... if you don't like it don't encourage it.. in any way dress full covered and avoid him.. I admit I could get pervy I have a vivid imagination.. I've had a older girlfriend with a young daughter.. n I was very triggered n I broke it off cause it could of gone very wrong... it's wrong on him... if your sexually active it should only be with your age group...

[AndyOh]

Oh really?
Depends on a lot of factors - what are the laws in your state or country concerning an adult disciplining a non-related minor. Is this something your mom will support? Will your mom back up her boyfriends idea of discipline?

The other question I have is why do you need to be disciplined? Are you that much of a problem child that you need to be disciplined?

[AndyOh]

Thanks for the MHO :)

[Anonymous]

Depends on the punishment.
He can't touch you.
But cutting allowance, turning off Wi-Fi, stuff like that he can do, because those things are not rights they are privlages that can be taken away.

[Tamera952]

Depends on what you mean by "discipline" and other variables, like how old you are, and the nature of your mom's relationship with this boyfriend.

[WindAtMyBack]

Need more detail. What did you do? What kind of discipline? Does your mother allow him to discipline you? Is this something that your mother would have disciplined you if she knew about it and was there?

[Jasmin0701]

No, it's not allowed and a crime.

[Wade8888]

No, a man has no business disciplining a girl unless he's a single Father with custody.

This is NOT okay, and is more likely to create more problems than whatever you MIGHT be doing wrong. Half the stuff I got punished for when I was younger, my parents were over-reacting and ended up abusing me anyway.

[Sarahr123]

No because he is not your biological father.

[SarahP080102]

Depends on what type of discipline and if your mom is ok with it

[Mamaganja]

Taking pictures like the one you’re showing as a 13 year old, I’d hold you down while he whooped you. Definitely yes. Is it allowed? Depends on the punishment and the state laws.

[esmeraldagomez2]

What wrong with my photo?

[Mamaganja]

You’re thirteen. ACT LIKE IT.

[esmeraldagomez2]

I do act 13. 30 year old dont take selfies

[Mamaganja]

I’ve been taking selfie’s since you weren’t even a thought in your parents minds. Thirteen with middle finger and stomach exposed? You’ll be pregnant by 15 if you’re lucky and don’t get sex trafficked before then. You better shape up before you lead a long and miserable life.

[esmeraldagomez2]

Shape up how?

[Mamaganja]

Listen to your PARENTS AND OTHER AUTHORITY FIGURES IN YOUR LIFE.

[esmeraldagomez2]

My mom doesn't care how i dress as long as i got good grades.

[JoyGirl]

Dress like your age, act like your age, and be respectful. Then come back again with your question. :)

[esmeraldagomez2]

How does my age dress? Act?

[JoyGirl]

You can start by getting a longer shirt and putting your middle finger down. :)

[andreasderjuengere]

That depends on your home's 'arrangements'.
I'd say that to enforce physical discipline is not right in any case.
But further below here I was reading a little more background and it looks more like a lack of cooperation from your own side here.

[andreasderjuengere]

One of my exes had once brought along a pretty lazy and useless daughter: I kicked them both out in the end

[Angelo75]

Well the question is very simple.
Is he paying for the roof on your head, your food on the table and the clothes on your body?
If he is, well he's doing a "dads" job.

And with discipline you mean just giving you advice, or spanking you?

[Angelo75]

@esmeralda21gomez yikes. Well once things get to physical contact, this discussion will go towards a point that no matter what I say, there'll always be some smart-ass that has "a better opinion". So I will not comment further. I do stand by my remark earlier. "If he pays for the food, the roof on your head and your clothes, he's entitled to have a saying". Otherwise I guess you'll have to move in with ur biological dad. I'm not picking sides or so, because simply said... you haven't provided much information about what happened. And I'll be honest. If someone (whoever it is) ... even the daughter of my girlfriend is living with me, and I walk into the living room to find that daughter/son jumping on my couch or my TV or breaking stuff, no matter who it is... i WILL do something. But that's an extreme example. Apart from that, I'll take a step back from this discussion.

[MarkyMark77]

@esmeralda21gomez i dont think thats ok at all. did he spank ur naked butt? this is concerning

[chriscdi]

depends what type of discipline he is talking about

[pleasestopthis]

She is not your parent so it's out of her bounds, unless you do something she doesn't like while you're at her place. In her home you must abide by her rules.

[middleagedwoman]

your mom should be the one. he is not your father and sometimes " mommy's boyfriend's " are creepy.

but in case u have a good daddy daughter relationship then its probably ok. but i would be careful if i were u

[Iknowbestgirls]

Discipline you how?
Ground you and take away your stuff, or physically discipline you like spank you or something?

[esmeraldagomez2]

He took me off the wifi and doesn't wanna put me back on.

[Iknowbestgirls]

@esmeraldagomez2 hmm does he pay for the wifi? Like is he in charge of it? If not he has no right to take you off it. What did you do to cause him to punish you?

[DiegoO]

Your mom should step in. He's not even your step dad, and even if he were, he's not your dad.

[cnhinton]

Well, if he disciplines you in a dirty way, you need to call the cops.

[Wise4myage]

And what's his idea of disciplining you?

[MountAverage]

Nope, that is abuse. Report them to the authorities ASAP.

[Mamaganja]

Yeah taking away a spoiled entitled brats wifi is totally abusive 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[MountAverage]

@Mamaganja What?

[Mamaganja]

She got her wifi taken away for not listening...

[MountAverage]

@Mamaganja It didn't say so in the question, how the fuck was I supposed to know? She only said he's gonna "discipline" her, which usually means spank/beat.

[Mamaganja]

You assumed. You don’t see the child pornography? She’s a fast ass little heifer who doesn’t listen to her parents. Even an ass whopping below the belt would be justified and wouldn’t be considered abuse. Though the mother should be the only one whooping since that is not her father.

[esmeraldagomez2]

My mom doesn't care. She works two jobs so she never home. And her stupid ass boyfriend came to ruin my life i was happy before him.

[Mamaganja]

Do what you’re TOLD.

[esmeraldagomez2]

Im not gana wash dishes u didn't use.

[MountAverage]

There was literally no other information in the question than the phrase "discipline me". Of course I assumed. And no, I didn't look at her profile picture. But I'm reporting it now. But I disagree with your comments on "ass whopping". Because that IS abuse. And you can fuck right off with that shit. Violence against minors is NEVER okay.

[Wiredone]

Having your WiFi taken away is not much of a punishment. If your mom gives him permission to discipline you since she is busy working 2 jobs he has a right to discipline you.
I'm my house my children have chores to do every day. If they don't do them they get punished. It's time to grow up and be a little more responsible

[skittles2017]

What type of discipline and why is this question on sexuality category?

[blondfrog]

No he is not your real dad.