Would you try BDSM?

This is my #1 fantasy! Just the thought of a guy absolutely dominating me turns me on like crazy. I’d be into doing blindfolds, spanking, choking, hair pulling, edging, feather tickling, candles, and pretty much anything else! Would you try this if a girl wanted to try this?
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  • That's how I roll.

    I got my start by mouthing off at a party in high school (and I couldn't believe the words actually came out of my mouth!), but then I had to put up or shut up, so I pulled this girl over my lap and gave her a healthy spanking. And even though I did it, at the time, I kind of felt it was "wrong" - having not completely left behind my parent's Puritan religious attitudes about sex yet. To my shock, not only wasn't the girl upset, but it later became clear that she was very turned on by it (I was too stupid to realize this in the moment). But the next party, another girl mouthed off, and then did the "what, are you gonna spank me too now?", and, since I'd already done it once before, I did it again to her - and then to a couple of other girls later that night. And then it just kind of became a regular thing at those band parties.

    I only really had one other BDSM experience until my late 20s, when I finally accepted that being a Dominant was not a bad thing, and I gained the confidence to accept that about myself, and since then, it's been some fun and interesting times...

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  • Tried it, even the top end sadism end of it. Not my thing.

    Looks good on camera, but you've really really really gotta have the personality for it. You can't just put your hands up and go "nope, I'm not doing that!" and walk out the dungeon.

    You can bet your sorry ass, your ass is going in for some extra hurt.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've done lots of things with girls and guys both as the dominant and submissive. Start off with the lighter things like feathers and work your way up to the harder stuff.

    Just the feeling of being restrained can be a bit overwealming at first. Do you mind if I ask whether you've ever been tied up before (even if just for a prank or something not neccessarily for sex or BDSM)? If not you might need to take a while to get used to it before you do anything else.

  • Bdsm is pretty common now.
    Not everyone is into it. But we as a society seem to have acknowledged that a lot of people love being dominated or dominating and its a pretty well accepted kink.

    Like I think if any guy or girl tells their partner that they want to be tied up its not really a big shock these days.

    So I think most people are willing to give it a go in some form.

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  • Think most people are into some degree of bdsm today. I also think most people, to some level, incorporate it into their sex life. Regular or not.

    To be frank, I would be more surprised if a partner did not have some sort of power-play kink. On either or both sides of the blindfold.

  • Yeah its really fun, but in the beginning it can make you feel nervous and anxious. Trust and communication with your partner is important so it helps build those too.

  • Hell no. That's literal simping, with the ball-gag and all.

  • You sound amazing tbh

  • I think I naturally got put into bdsm. Guys just wanted to immediately dominate me.

    • were you against it?

    • @swettannie no lol

    • hah, no problem then

  • trying to get spanked in a couple of hours.

  • I'm not sure. Id be really worried about actually hurting the girl, especially when it comes to choking. So Im not sure.

    • Wouldn't that be something that you'd be afraid of? Accidentally being strangled to death?

  • I would love to, and in fact, I am thinking of finding a sub to play with.
    I have the equipment.

  • Have done. Had one girlfriend who loved very strict bondage.

  • i'd try, but it's not my thing so i'd probably fail

  • Absolutely , that’s very hot

  • Absolutely! I'd want to tie her up and she could do the same with me if she wanted to... I'm a switch so, of course I'd be okay with it either way. 🤗😈

    • Would you want to tie a guy up and do whatever you want with him or would you prefer being tied up yourself?

  • I love it.

  • Don't like pain but live being dominated in bed

  • Who knows. 🤔

    • @brainsbeforebeauty like mother like daughter, NAUGHTY! 😂 I'm a cannibal, does that counts in the bdsm section 👹

    • @TonyMetal___86 Why did you bring mother into this? I will be grounded. 😭😭😭

    • @JoyGirl👀👁️👁️

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  • I have absolutely no interest in abusing any female, even if "pretending".

  • I never thought about it but my current partner loves it and they encouraged me. They say I'm a good Dom but sometimes I can't help but feel a little out of place. I'm not a very sexual person so thats probably why. But it is enjoyable to see the control of pleasure I have over her.

  • I can imagine very specific case when my curiosity could make me to try it, but I see very little change ever ending up in that situation. Although never say never

  • Yes, definitely. I've done it and like it.

  • yea id try these youve mentioned specifically cause its more of a hardcore sex but I've heard shit even more hardcore, like a strawberry shortcake, its when the guy cums on the girls face and punches her in the nose and the blood mixes with the cum, search it on the urban dictionary, it pops up, im not into shit like that, thats mutt lol

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