Are some pussies too ugly to fuck?

This is an ugly pussy but this question is really not asking about cats!
This is an ugly pussy but this question is really not asking about cats!
I answered a question from a female user who complained that her friend with benefits told her that she had an ugly pussy. I can't really relate because in 50 years of dating and sexual relationships, I've never seen an ugly pussy. I have a notion of what the ideal girl would look like, including what she would look like between her legs, but I've never met the ideal woman and I've been very happy with many women who were not like that ideal at all. When their panties came down, I was glad to see it. "Hello, lovely pussy!"

Have you ever rejected a girl because of the appearance of her pussy? If so, what was it about her pussy that was so disturbing?
I've never seen a girl's pussy except in porn
Vote A
I've seen girl's pussies and never saw one that I thought was too ugly to fuck
Vote B
I've seen girl's pussies and seen at least one that was less than ideal, but I still had sex with the girl
Vote C
I've seen girl's pussies and seen at least one that I thought was ugly, I still had sex with the girl, but did not want to fuck her again
Vote D
I've seen girl's pussies and seen at least one that I thought was ugly, I still had sex with the girl, and would have been happy/was happy to fuck her again
Vote E
I've seen girl's pussies and seen at least one that I thought was so ugly that I wouldn't have sex with the girl
Vote F
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  • It isn't about the way it looks, it's about the way it *feels*.

    Also, my cat </b>totally resents your use of that photo even though it isn't one of him, lucky for you. You will receive a DCMA takedown letter from his attorneys.

  • when we are exposed to pussies it is too tough to think about its beauty because that time we are super excited.

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  • Based on my experiences, many men do judge us harshly based on what our pussies look like. While men are undoubtedly entitled to their preferences, their judgements can be considered downright body shaming at times. For example, if our outer pussy lips are thicker than average and/or our inner pussy lips stick out the outer lips and hang down, many men would be disgusted and start comparing our pussies to roast beef, sandwich meat, "meat curtains," or whatever other hanging metaphor they might find abhorrent. For example, when I was searching different types of porn on Google, my browsing led me to a message board topic about ugly pussies. Of course, all the pictures had pussies that fit the description I gave. I believe that how a pussy looks shouldn't matter, but rather if it's hygienic, disease-free, and how it feels when you're fucking it.

    I had a few ex-boyfriends that weren't fond of how my pussy looked. With one in particular, when he slid my panties down and saw my pussy for the first time, he commented that I had big pussy lips and long lips that stuck out. I asked him if that was bad, and he replied, "It is what it is." When I asked him what he meant by that, he simply repeated himself. I took it as him either being neutral about it, or being disgusted by it, but not wanting to hurt my feelings. His reaction made having sex with him kind of difficult and we eventually broke up later.

    I had another ex-boyfriend that frequently complimented on how great my pussy felt during sex, but he would never eat me out. I constantly gave him head, but when I finally asked why he never returns the favor, he told me he refused to eat me out because my pussy "looked weird." When I asked him why he thought that, he said it was because my inner pussy lips hang out my outer ones. That was devastating. When I'm aware that a guy is disgusted by how my pussy looks, I no longer feel comfortable having sex with him. I stopped having sex with him and we eventually broke up afterwards.

    No feeling is worse than being with a man you love that claims to love you in return and supposedly accepts your body for what it is, only for him to talk about how disgusting your pussy looks behind your back to his friends. One of my other ex-boyfriends did this, but his friend ended up telling me what he said. I knew that he was truthful because he described my pussy accurately and detailed the sex that my ex and I had the night before. Of course, I felt like shit and broke up with him after that. It bothered me so much, I even considered getting labiaplasty, but I couldn't afford it. Overtime though, I did learn to slowly accept how my pussy looks, but I'm still not 100% comfortable with it because I know it has an appearance that many men find disgusting.

    • I appreciate your very thoughtful and detailed response. I know that some men can be jerks about such things (just as women can he horribly insensitive size queens) but I hope that all men are not that way. If the results of my poll are accurate, most guys are NOT that way but there is a sizeable percentage who are exactly as you described. I have an ideal for what turns me on with a woman's body but I have never met a woman who met my ideals in any way. And I have become attracted to women who were far from my ideal. I prefer a woman with a simple slit but I married a woman who had a "full bloom." I engaged in oral sex with her on many occasions, routinely fucked that pussy, and had great and glorious sex. We eventually divorced, not because of the shape of her pussy, but because she was sharing it with other people. If I had not already selected MHO's, this opinion would be MHO.

    • People will always judge how they look. Pussy is not an exeption. Especially if its so sexual and intimate part of our bodies. If someone says that he's not judging he actually is but he keeps it to himself. Sometimes with good motives not to put shame on sb. But I prefer honesty. And it sounds so desperate when guy says he will f**k every pussy. What a liar. Rotten pussy of a dead body too? My friend (she's bi) once told me she was meeting a girl but relation ended up so quickly after she saw her pussy. She decribed it as "hard to look at" If you like how your pussy looks and it doesn't hurt, don't do labiaplasty for some man! I'm not against this surgery and I know some girls do it for medical reason. But if you do it you should do it because YOU want it, not to become more attractive to others

    • Sounds like that guy is a ass I love different shaped pussy lips I like them big long short fat it doesn’t matter I would never tell a woman she had a ugly pussy that’s crazy

  • Ugh, I blame porn and the expectation for women to look like the porn stars. Most vaginas don't look that way, and the ones that do are, well, kinda dull... not much labia to play with, searching like india jones for the clitoris, gimme that "ugly" vagina.

  • Some women are deformed down there due to congenital birth defects, vitamin deficiency, or multiple generations of incest. Some Island races have horribly deformed labia, for example, which is caused by scores of generations breeding too close to the family tree. Incest once in ten Generations isn't that big of a problem, but marrying your first or third cousin every generation for 20 consecutive generations becomes a problem.

    Some people are born "Homorphrodites" because a defective Ova or a defective sperm, which caused them to be born with two X chromosomes AND a Y chromosome, so they have both a penis and a vagina, or part of a penise and vagine and both testicals and ovaries, etc. Such people should choose which sex they resemble most, and have corrective surgery to fix the problem. It's not God's fault, this is usually caused by substance abuse of one or both parents, or toxic chemicals in the environment, etc.

    • Okay, but the question is "Have you ever rejected a girl because of the appearance of her pussy? If so, what was it about her pussy that was so disturbing?" Have you dated a hermaphrodite or someone from one of these islands to which you alluded?

    • No, but I've seen some of them in porn, and it's extremely disgusting and unnatural. I'm a virgin and I'm the one who said I'd never seen a girl's pussy except in porn.

  • There is NO SUCH THING!! You are talking about the lips, the labia, and how it looks, and every woman is different, and some have tiny, almost nothing for lips, but some others have these nice, large, soft ones, full of thousands, if not MILLIONS, of nerves, that makes them just that much more to tease, and love, and stimulate!
    Try it with the lights out, if you are embarrassed, and with the right guy, that ADORES you, and your delightful lips, let him show you how much you can feel!!
    If he, maybe she, knows what she is doing, you will feel sad, for the women with tiny lips, as they just can't have all the joy you can!

    • I have no bias against a full bloom.

  • Any dude that rejects a woman because of this is an absolute douche.

    • Either a douche or a closet homosexual.

    • Indeed

  • Using my best Butthead voice - Uhhhhhhh... no

    • 10-4!

  • If it's only from sexual perspective then yeah some can be smelly and hairy and ugly.

    But if you like the person and it's not just sexual thing between you , then it shouldn't matter how it is.

  • Honestly.. men expect a woman with an inside labia and to be perfect. I can honestly say... That is a stupid reason not to have sex

  • LOL, there's no such a thing as "ugly pussy"!

    • Agree!

  • As per me, all pussies look fucking hot..,

  • the only time I'd say yes is it had nasty looking liquids oozing out or looks really dirtty...

  • No pussy is ugly. All attract male attention.

  • I’m with you I have never seen a ugly pussy maybe years ago a little to hairy but not ugly

  • Big hanging outie
    Big clit
    Major contrast in color
    Hairy
    Put them all together and you have an ugly pussy to some people.
    Once for sure maybe twice I faked an injury or something to get out of having sex with the girl.

  • All pussies are gorgeous in my opinion! Each of my sex partners had different looking pussies because not all are the same!

    • Thanks for the upvote 😊👍

  • Some girls dont have a great looking pussy but their ugly personality pushes them over that edge to being unfuckable

    • Okay, but that really isn't what the question is asking.

    • if the pussy is ugly but the girl is pretty than i look at her and fuck her but I won't want to eat her out as much as if she had a nice pussy

  • Never seen one I wouldn’t have sex with but the last one was beautiful so it would have to be really bad to be ugly

  • What makes a vagina ugly?

    • Beats me!

    • That’s what I’m wondering!

    • @Anonymous It's "ugly" only when you are with some IDIOT GUY, that obviously doesn't care about you! I apologize for those Knuckle-Dragging ASS-BAGS, of my gender!! Sadly, there is little that I can do, as society seems to prefer them, and their sexism, their bias, and abuse, as they get away with it, over and over, maybe just because they are rich?

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