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I have never had an orgasm and I think I know why. I have plan. Do you think this plan is realistic?

Anonymous
First of all, I am a virgin but I do have a partner. I just can not see him thanks to the lockdown.
I started masturbating at a young age by mistake. I have however never orgasmed.
I think I know why:

1. I feel uncomfortable because I am afraid people might hear me
2. I have trouble concentrating and I rush most of the time
3. I can not seem to relax
4. I do not have a sex toy but I am planning on buying one once I live on my own (after the pandemic) and have enough money.
5. I was once really close to it, but I chickend out.

I have a plan:
1. First I need to learn how to relax. I have downloaded a meditation-app in order to help with that.
2. I need to accept the fact there might be other people in the house and masturbate when they are not around or when people are asleep.
2. I need to learn not to rush. I hope my meditation will hope with that aswell.
3. I need to experiment more (eventually sex toy).
4. I should pay more attention and not be distracted, but at the same time not fixate on getting an orgasm.
5. I need to talk my partner when I can see him again. I am easier turned on with him than without him.

Do you think this "plan" is realistic? Have you struggled with the same problem or do you know someone who has struggled with this problem?
What else could I do?
I have never had an orgasm and I think I know why. I have plan. Do you think this plan is realistic?
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