He couldn’t get hard, does that mean I wasn’t attractive to him?

I was drunk he had only 1 whiteclaw and he kept trying to have sex but he literally couldn’t get hard and I’m like it’s ok it’s ok- and he’s like well it’s because we just had sex twice so I have to wait for it but we didn’t have sex twice we had sex for like 5 mins before that
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  • Maybe 5 minutes was not enough time for him to recharge. Alcohol, being tired, smoking, and drugs all have an effect on men and how long it takes us to spring back into action.

  • i believe it is him , not you.
    erectile dysfunction among men nowadays are much more common than most people think

    • Even for 22 year olds?

    • yesss

    • it caused by many things , unhealthy food , unusual way of masturbating , smoking , addicted to porn , etc

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  • In the UK we call it brewers droop or drinkers droop try meeting up without any alcohol involved and you will probably have a much different experience!

  • That's why, he needs more time to recover from the first time 5 minutes previous.

  • No he has that dysfunctional pronlem


    How ever i might disappoint a girl if i don't get hard for her imma tell you I'm done with you

  • Nope. Not getting hard happens when he's tired, just recently orgasmed, or has something else going on. Even if he doesn't find you that attractive getting hard isn't hard with a little bit of self stimulation.

  • I don't drink often so I don't know but I'm of the understanding that it can make hard ons more difficult, and some guys have erectile issues already. I think he probably did find you attractive but couldn't get hard due to other reasons.

  • He might need a longer recharge time

  • Could be either you look not sexy or he’s big problem in getting hard

  • sometimes it may happen due to anxiety, you need to hit the ground regularly.

  • It could be the drink but more than likely he just needed more time

  • Insufficient information to say for sure.

    But if he a healthy young guy, then it's likely psychological or refractory period. Easy fix. Wait!

  • Try having sober sex.

  • No, I happens from time to time in men.

  • This is called erectile dysfunction, a disease.

  • He's got a hardening problem.

  • All I can tell you is, its nothing to do with you. I've been in situations were a guy just wasn't attracted to me but he was an asshole and there was no denying it. But with my boyfriend usually after the first time or even the second time, it might be hard for him to keep it up I usually just suck it for a bit and it perks back up.

  • Not at all. Don't think negatively

  • Alcohol reduces the ability of a guy to get hard, as does low testosterone, and most guys have to wait after cumming before they can go again (on average 20 minutes). Then there is also the psychological aspects that can reduce a man's ability to get hard. So you have all of that to consider before the attractiveness of the girl even comes into play.