How it ended Up like this So quickly?

[Anonymous]

There is a Guy who is My Sister's Senior in her college and he is like her Boyfriend but he was quite Aggresive and short tempered Guy, Almost 3 Weeks Ago, One day he Came to My home and he Started heated Arguments with My Sister over Some their Personal issue !!! And they both Started insulting each other like Cat & Dogs !! So I decided to Go out of the home for Some time and I stepped-out of the Room but Soon I realized that I had forgot My wallet in the house, So I Came back and When I Pushed the door, I saw my Sister standing fully topless and her torn blouse and bra were lying on the table and this all was happend in almost 7-8 Seconds !! I was Baffaled and Surprised to see how he had taken her blouse and bra off of her in Just 7-8 Seconds? and What Could have been the issue in between they two Which ended like this?

[MV12345]

Wow, man. That doesn't sound right at all. If I was in your position I would be proper fuming. I would do a bit of sneaky digging to find out the score with this guy in general. Your sister being older than you and not sharing things might also have the affect that if you say something against him and against their relationship, that she would dig her heels in more to go against your advice. Just human nature, I suppose. Get some advice from your friends too, perhaps. And try to speak to her again about it, let her know you care for her and are just concerned and worried. It's a shame that your folks aren't in the same town. If you tell them it will worry them and possibly make your sister angry with you, because they will obviously confront her about it. It's a difficult position for you to be in, but get your Magnum P. I. shirt on first and see what you can find out. Then you might be in a better position to speak to your sis about it with some more info. That's what I would do anyway. Hope it all works out.

[Asker]

@mv12345 Yeah, I don't like him from the begining and the way he torn her blouse and bra off in just few Seconds, he Sounded me like a Criminal or having Some Criminal tendency but When i asked My Sister about this incident She didn't tell me what was the issue between them !

[ioan12]

I don't think it's OK... First of all, and second you should talk to your sister about this issue. I don't find it normal to have an argument with your other or anyone in someone else's house. And if you really are a man you shouldn't be aggressive (if needed, be defensive) because in some cases it can back-fire.
And just to be sure, have you listened the guy's story? I mean you should listen to both sides of the problem. There isn't only one's fault.

[Asker]

@ioan12 Hmm... I don't like this Guy from the begining but he was a Senior in My Sister's College So i was unable to stop him coming to My home ! He is quite Aggresive and Stubborn, I had Some dispute and tiff with him Couple months ago Since i don't talk to him, but at that day he had taken her blouse and bra off of her in just few Seconds ! My Sister was standing topless and was looking upset and Scared, So it made me baffaled to know what was the issue? I asked from My Sister later on but she didn't tell me much about it and I have not talked to him about this !

[ioan12]

Ummm... I think she should be open about this subject. And about him... Maybe will sound repulsive and sly but try to get on his good side, try to see what's up in his mind (do not ask direct questions about what happened) try to get on some bridge so you will find out if your prescriptions were right or not. It's not easy, not pleasant, and not 100% sure, but it's worth a try. (just what I think I would do in this kind of situation)

[ioan12]

Presumptions not prescriptions

[Asker]

@ioan12 Hmm... I Can give it a Try to know the matter but its not going to be easy, My Sister usually don't talk or discuss her personal issues with me, So she didn't reveal Anything about at that day, That Guy is short tempered and Aggresive So grilling him or poking him up with questions Can Annoy him, When he get Annoyed or Angry then he starts Fighting physically, he had beaten many Guys in My Sister's college... So usually i just Avoid him ! But Since at that day he very aggresively had My Sister half naked in My home, her blouse ( a kind of top) was torn in pieces So it shows his Aggresion towards her and this is a Concern for me about My Sister's safety... I didn't know if i had not returned back in the room then what he further would have done to her !

[ioan12]

I don't mean disrespect to you my brother. I get what you say... In this case, you better talk to your parents too. This can go out of hand easy. Try to make her talk. And make her see what he is and what can go out of this situation later. I think talking to your parents too may get some support.

[Asker]

Well ! My parents live to a other City and it is very far from here, they can give advise to My Sister over the phone but My Sister always do what she want ! She hardly takes My advice too, I had asked her to stay away with this Guy but she didn't listen me, My Sister thinks that I am a timid and chicken hearted boy So i get scared easily ! I know a Guy who is friend of him... I might approach him to intervene into this matter.

[ioan12]

Yeah that's a good idea. Try to hang out with this guy and then try to befriend this dude of your sister, but do not recall anything about that episode or what happens between him and your sister. Keep it casual. But inform your parents.

[Asker]

@ioan12 I will inform to My parents but i know it won't be much helpful ! Here in this house Me and My Sister lives for our Study and Since this house belongs to My parents So I can't Stop My Sister's friends from coming to home, being a Girl My Sister didn't ( to that much) feel offended when her boyfriend ripped her clothes off... but being a Boy and being a Brother i felt much offended and even humiliated ! But I feel very helpless even at My own home, I Can't do anything legally ( police ) until My Sister is quiet and I can't fight him because he is physically much stronger than me.

[ioan12]

You said it yourself. "it's YOUR PARENTS" house. I don't know but I have a similar situation (with the house) and yet my parents still want to know if I bring good people inside. Tell them and use the words"i don't actually like the guy" or "seems fishy to me" (if you don't use such expressions will certainly bring some questions to your parents, and try some way to find out, probably will notice that you don't know how to handle the situation and try a different approach) you could also place some secret cameras. Delete what's not ment for others to see and keep evidence of aggression.

[Asker]

Yess, This house is not belongs to My Sister but to My Parents ! But Since My Sister is 4 years older to me So She is like Care taker of me here and My Parents listen to her more than me, if i have to bring My friends to home for a Party then i have to ask from My Sister first ! But My Sister can bring anyone in the house and That Guy ( her boyfriend) treats me like i am house Maid ! Even at that day When he had her topless and I came back in Room Coincidentally then he had Scolded me infront My Sister and She didn't stop him.

[ioan12]

See? Tell your parents

[Asker]

I will try again to make My Parents understand about My problems and what is going on here ! But You know If My Sister got to know that i have complained about her to My Parents then She can get me thrashed by her boyfriend !

[Wickd]

unfortunately, there is a lot of women who allow this type of abuse from men who *they think they are so deeply in love with * i personally haven't had a relationship like this but family members have. she obviously likes the guy, but if he is doing stuff like that , it could lead to far worse, and she would be brainwashed into thinking it's ok. get rid of him.

[Asker]

@wickd Very True ! I have witnessed the Aggresion and abuse Myself Still She is With him ! Not Sure if She is Mad ( blind) in love or She is Scared of him or both ! I am saying in general, I have also seen Girls sticking up with Rowdy Guys and they ignore Simple Guys who adore them !!!

[Wickd]

i think it is both, she loves him but is scared to leave him, when i asked my family member why they had let this go on, their answer was: because i love him, no that isn't love thats control.

[keenmind2007]

He seems like he has some real anger issues he needs to work on and fast. Next time, and hopefully not, her shirt and bra won't be the only thing she loses.

[Asker]

@keenmind2007 Personally I don't like Him at all and I had some dispute and tiff with him Couple of Monts Ago, he is quite Aggresive and Stubborn ! At that day When he was having heated Argument with My Sistet So i thought to move away So that My Sister Could get him Calm Down but instead he tore her blouse and bra off of her and don't know if i had not returned back then What else he was going to take off !

[cxepali]

He is like pervert or it is okay for your sister?

[Asker]

I don't like him from the very begining and i had some Altercation witn him Couple months Ago.

[cxepali]

Talk with your sister about it with serious tone

[Asker]

I am already serious and She is being Stupid and One day She will regret for it even more than that day !

[cxepali]

So let it be like this and then you will say "I SAIDDDDD YOU!!!"

[PrudentGuy]

Two possible cases:

1) they are great actor and actress. Did that drama to get you out of the house LOL!

2) made out sex is ATOMIC.
Ya. I know. Experienced before.

The worst quarrel led my ex and I to one of the greatest sex in our lives.
Funny right? But studies shown that heightened emotions is the cause for such powerful and sensual experiences.

[Asker]

May be if you have any prior experience then you know better but i am. virgin So for me it was really really Shocking ! Also i was baffaled to see how come he removed her blouse and bra off in just 7-8 Seconds ! And When i asked from My Sister to know What was the issue and Why this happend? She didn't give me any Answer like she just ignoring it !

[PrudentGuy]

And yes, sex is a very private thing. And as a virgin, I can't fully explain it to you much like you can't fully explain the color "blue" to me. Hence my suggestion is, accept it for what it is now and give your sister the privacy she deserves. You'll understand when you lose your virginity. (Much like a color blind suddenly able to see colors.)

[DoctorCupid]

You have to be careful in these situations, because if she’s strongly attached to him and you try to pull her away, she may completely turn against you and take his side.
Try having a conversation with her about it, but be very delicate and friendly/sisterly.
Worst case scenario, you may have to get your parents involved, or someone else with authority.
Keep in mind that if she truly has feelings for him it’s going to be very hard to get her away from him.

[razelove]

It's possible if she was helping him. Make-up sex is a thing. Though that candle may burn half as long, it will burn twice as bright. Just be sure your sister knows if she needs help she can always talk to you and let her enjoy her manly man for as long as it lasts. And how do you mean torn, like top to bottom, or just missing a couple buttons and snaps? It seems like you observed a whole lot of the situation with your topless sister and this very aggressive guy kinda passively sitting there, all of you.

[Asker]

@razelove So many facts i forgot to mention in My question... 1. My Sister is 4 years older than me 2. This house belongs to My Parents and they live far from here 3. My Sister and me lives in this City to Study 4. That Guy is quite tall and physically strong and he is also a Senior of My Sistet where She is Currentely doing her Graduation. I don't like this Guy from the begining but I can't stop him to coming to My home, he is quite Aggresive and furious Guy and he has beaten Some boys in My Sister's college Who tried to mess up with him... So Tbh.. I am also Scared of him ! Okay, At that day when i returned back to room to take My wallet, I saw My Sister standing topless ( naked from up her waist) her torn blouse was lying on the table in 2-3 pieces along with her bra, that Guy was standing close to My Sister grabbing one of her boobs in his hand... I got Baffaled and Scared to see the Scenario of the Room, I took My Wallet and i went out quickly ! I came back after almost 2 hours and by then he had gone out, In the evening i asked from My Sister about What was happend in the afternoon but My Sister didn't tell me about the issue and just avoided My Questions So i didn't grill her but she was looking upset !

[razelove]

Well, just keep that door open so she can talk to you. Don't grill her about it anymore and let her talk about it when/if she feels ready. My relationships have all been very different, and some women wanted their clothes ripped off. Try to think positive, that they just wanted you gone and you'll have some strange moments sharing a house together. Your sister will definitely have some of her own when you start bringing women home, just saying.

[Asker]

I am Just trying to help her but My Sister is 4 years older to me So she still Consider me quite young and She don't share her personal issues or Matters with me ! I have heard Some young Couples do sex very Aggresively but i don't know if My Sister also like to get her blouse/bra ripped of during Sex ! Kinda weird but It is her life and I have a limitions too but What made me baffaled is how come he removed her clothes off in just 7-8 seconds, He Sounded me like a Criminal or he has some criminal tendencies Apart from being Aggresive and Violent !

[razelove]

... You do realize young women are often turned on by that, again, before being all judgy mc judge judge, give your sister space. To forget that her brother saw her topless with her clothes strewn across the ground, and process what happened, good or bad. The worst way you can try to get people to communicate with you, or be someone they can rely on is try to pressure them into anything, especially communicating. Turn it around if she was asking the same of you, just open up, come on, tell me what's wrong, let me judge you...

[Asker]

I am not trying to judge My Sister, I just don't like that Guy and because of his Aggresive and furious Attitude I am worried about her Safety... When I asked from her about What was happend between they both... She could have told me that, She likes it ! ( End of this Chapther ) !

[Flower7]

Have you tried asking your sister what happened? Maybe she would be willing to talk about it with you and explain.

[Asker]

@flower7, I talked to My Sister about what was happend at that day but she didn't tell me what was the issue? I have asked My Sister that he should not come to home Again to meet her ! But it really baffaled me how did he take her blouse and bra off of her in just 7-8 Seconds? Is it not possible for a Ordinary Guy ! Does he Sound like a Criminal?

[Flower7]

That seems like a normal amount of time to remove a blouse and bra.

[Asker]

@flower7 Huh? 7-8 Seconds are Normal amount of time to remove both blouse and bra ! I am not Sure at least I Can't do this, Even it is enough time though My Sister was looking Upset and Scared and from the faces of they both I didn't feel like everything was Normal between them, Also her blouse was torn in 2-3 peices So he must have been Aggresive with her !

[George1992]

Good day Chemlan_

I think I have more question after reading that then you lol. I truly hope that it was not assault. If so please be sure to contact you nearest police station so that it is on file, you don’t want thing like that to get out of hand someday.

With that being said it might have just been a lucky shot where he ripped of her sirt and with the first touch got it lose or maybe she helped him. Remember she is doing it every day of her life, so she is trained in this. It might also be that it also felt quicker than it actually was. Remember during that time your brain was occupied by the troughs of them fighting.

I hope it helped mate but rather not try at think to much about you sister’s nude scene lol. (just kidding) remember dud some people have mad skills have a nice day

I hope you have a nice day

[JPrez]

Either it’s sexual assault or make up sex.

[Asker]

What is a make up sex?

[JPrez]

After a heated argument the couple just goes at it as a way of apologizing.

[Avicenna]

Only they know, but I hope you ban him from the house

[Asker]

I did I have asked her that he shall not. come to home Again.

[yofuknutz]

Time to get a dog, Turkish Kangal or Russian mountain caucus dog

[TessCasie]

Throw him out of the house next time.
sounds disgusting to me.

[comrade1027]

Could be she enjoys the rough sex like that. If not, get police involved.

[anja3]

You and your sister should do some investigation on him, he can be really dangerous.

[Asker]

Do you think he could have have a Criminal back ground?

[anja3]

I think that he has some angry issues and taking that out on people is dangerous. He may have criminal back ground or he just needs to go to therapy if he already hasn't.

[maryisbreathing]

They were probably just trying to get you out the house

[Asker]

Huh?

[Eliiiiii]

She's your sister dude go help her asap before it's too late.

[chubbycrow]

this sounds... crazy
I'd definitely go after him for it
sounds 100% like rape

[Asker]

@chubbycrow he Sounded me like a Criminal too !

[chubbycrow]

yeah also to do that that quickly and to have that type of temper suggests drug use

[Asker]

@chubbycrow No Sure about drugs, but he removed my sister's blouse and bra off of her body in just 7-8 seconds, Any ordinary Guy can't do this that quickly until he has done the same thing before with many other girls !

[chubbycrow]

or is so high he can speed through it

[Asker]

If he take drugs and My Sister didn't know then she is really Stupid !✨✨

[chubbycrow]

yeh true. I can get some guys having a "druggie girl" fetish but girls liking druggie guys is just... eek

[chubbycrow]

and thats one way to screw over a child

[Sagittarius_1204]

I think you should take her to the side and talk to her and tell her big reasons why she should leave him or If she fell in love with him he need anger management and counseling if she wants to make that work. If she doesn't just tell her you there and when she's tired of it she'll maybe come to you crying and want to end it. Good luck

[Kenneth14621]

Dude just run up and start hitting him as hard and as fast as you can. You are a full grown man. One full grown man is not that much stronger than another. He can't hurt you that bad. I have had doezens of fights and been hit hundreds of times and I am fine.

[Asker]

Huh? What do you mean?

[Kenneth14621]

HAve you ever heard of "Failure To Render Aid"? That mean if you see someone getting hurt and you don't do something about it you can go to jail. If he hit's her in the face he will break bones in her face. And if you stand there and do nothing you will go to jail. You have full right by the law to do anything you have to do to stop him from doing that. Even hit him in the head with a tire iron or shoot him.

[Mrobody]

What the fuck you talking about I don't get it what did you do then? did you tear his whole up to his mouth or not? well if you didn't then go change your something 😒 pssy

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't know what to tell you there, buddy.
But I wouldn't leave them alone in your house in the future, since you can't trust him to behave.

[Sebaciel2019]

Take the boyfriend to the anger management classes

[Asker]

He is very Short tempered and furious but Now i think he is kinda Criminal as well !

[yofuknutz]

What country?

[Asker]

@yofuknutz Myanmar

[yofuknutz]

Can't get a gun, damn..

[JamJam1]

oh nutz you are a special breed

[Sebaciel2019]

Thanks