25 and virgin, what would you do?

Ladies, would you have sex with a guy who is still virgin at 25? I know a lot of girls to whom it would be a total turn off
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  • I've been on this site for a while and reading a number of "virgin" questions and girls replies, my conclusion is: most girls don't mind or don't care if he's a virgin. In fact a number actually prefer virgins.

    If you like to know what you should do, my opinion is, learn to win a girl's heart, them lose it to her.

    Yes, not just any girl, but a girl whom you love/like very much and is certain that she likes you too.

    Girls are a lot more emotionally inclined when comes to sex. Hence when she feels in love, she won't care about you being a virgin. Instead she will be ready to give you a good first time.

    So work at it, win a heart, then lose it already. Good luck.

  • Tbh there are girls who don't mind, but probably best to lie about that unless she is very dominant. Most submissive girls want a man who is not a virgin.

    • Well, luckily I'm more into dominant girls

    • Although I now realize I'm not in a position to choose xd

    • Eh, in my opinion you're always in the position to be as picky as you like, it's your life after all, nobody can force you into a relationship. That said if you're too submissive to choose then that's on you, you can either try to become lore dominant or look for a woman who will accept you as you are.

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  • Same here.
    1) Don't sleep with a prostitute.
    2) Don't lie to your future partners. You don't have to say you're a virgin if you don't want to, but don't lie by saying you've done it before.

    What I plan on doing: not even talking about it until we are in a relationship. Once there, tell the other person I've never had sex before, but not when we're already naked.

    • That's fine, but for men I think it's typically a bit more dangerous to admit something like that. Some women are fine with it, some women even prefer it, but there are a lot of submissive women who are turned off as soon as they hear that he is a virgin.

    • @devilman666 Admit? It's not a crime... If a woman is turned off by that, it's a good way to find out she's not worth it.

    • I mean, I can see your point, but I can mostly understand why submissive women would want him to be experienced. Society views losing your virginity as a rite of passage for men, so men who can't lose their virginity must have a problem that makes them unattractive to other women (that's the assumption), plus these women view dominance, assertiveness and confidence as masculine, so if you're a virgin then you're less masculine and therefore less attractive. Tl;dr it is kinda shallow, but in my view everyone has the right to be at least somewhat shallow.

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  • Straight up, if you're 25 and haven't had sex i'd get a prostitute so you don't embarass yourself when you actually do meet your "true love" and i'd lie when it comes to my partners. I say this because as a girl, if a guy told me "iv never had sex before" and he's older then 21, i'd be like "ok, what social problems does this dude have to prevent him from having sex..."

    • I've thought a lot about losing my virginity to a prostitute but I've never taken the step, although I've been very close while having some confidence crisis. If I finally do it, do you think I should tell her I'm a virgin? I don't really have "social" problems, just "love" problems. I have lots of male and female friends and a normal social life but I'm just too shy to dare to try anything with a girl. Also, I'm not sure about lying about my partners, because, as if you say, I meet my "true love" I would have to lie to her during my whole life

    • That's cause your submissive af though lmfao. Wouldn't going for prostitutes be more dangerous becuse of STDs and the fact that it's illegal? True love? First of all what does that even mean? Second, if it's a true love (I'm assuming that implies that she loves you back) then wouldn't she be able to see past this flaw? Obviously you gotta lie to the suissive partners, if a submissive partner has more experience and has to teach/lead then it will be a huge turn off. His social problem preventing him from having sex seems to be the fact that he admits to being a virgin. Tbh my advice would be to lie, the vast majority of women will never be able to tell, especially if you have confidence.

    • Mojo, you can tell the prostitute if you want but it will probably not make any difference. Prostitutes typically don't care about your life story, they're just making a living.

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