Are lesbians virgin for life?

[Anonymous]

So I am a straight virgin woman asking this question and anyone can give their opinion

many straight kids start having oral sex very young and giving head or receiving/being eaten out from as young as 12 or 13 and are still technical virgins. They are virgins because their penis has never penetrated a vagina or anus or because their vagina or anus has never BEEN penetrated by a penis.

The definition of a virgin is someone who has never had penetrative sex. The only people who have penetrative sex with sex organs are heterosexual people and homosexual men.

Lesbians only have two holes and so their sexual acts are restricted to oral sex, fondling or using strap ons. So technically a lesbian will be a virgin forever as she will never be penetrated by a penis.

[TallAnon]

It really depends on your definition of virgin, I disagree with the one you gave. I would define it as someone who has not yet experienced a sexual act. A blowjob, fingering, etc. to me means you're no longer a virgin.

[Dargil]

I consider virginity to end only with PIV or PIA. If they have not had that, yes.

[PrudentGuy]

Oh yes! Great Observation! And I think you're right.

If indeed, the lesbian never tried penile intercourse, then by definition, she's a virgin, although physically her hymen could be broken by a finger or a toy.

This is the "religious loophole" concerning sex. If oral and anal are not sex by the Catholic definition of Consummation (which defines "conjugal act in a human fashion"), then yes, a lesbian who never slept with a guy is by definition a virgin.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

The reasons that women become lesbian are too numerous to express here. Sometimes it’s because they were traumatized by a man but still need intimacy and sometimes it’s just because they don’t find men attractive. Whatever the reason it doesn’t mean that she will never have intercourse with a penis. I am transgender (MTF) and have had sex with many women that consider themselves lesbian and not bisexual.
When I ask them why, they tell me it’s because they trust me. Many have never had sex before with a penis and Doubt they will with any other man. But nothing is absolute meaning that you aren’t either straight or gay, but have a range in their sexuality.
Feel free to PM me if you have any other questions.

[Asker]

How can one become lesbian? Sexuality is nature and inbuilt. If a woman “became” lesbian she probably always was or is a bisexual. A fully straight woman can never become lesbian as she is only wired to be attracted to men. I would feel physically sick to be with a woman sexually just as straight men would to be with a man sexually so I do think some people are 100% but most people are definitely on a spectrum of bisexuality that’s for sure. I think it is probably confusing to others when a bisexual who has a preference for the opposite sex calls themself straight which does happen a lot.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Please remember that being gay doesn’t mean you engage in sex with another man, it means you are attracted to and/or looking to have a relationship with another man. It is The same thing with a lesbian. Being a lesbian means you seek a relationship with another woman. There are many guys that seek me out because I am what they are looking for. I look like a girl but I have a dick. These men are straight but enjoy anal sex. They think that if they enjoy anal sex with a man that will mean they are gay. But it only means they enjoy anal sex. Just because a woman enjoys giving pleasure to another woman by sucking on the clitoris of another woman and tasting the lovely juices that flow from her vagina doesn’t mean she is a lesbian. It just means she enjoys giving other women pleasure.

[Asker]

I very strongly object to this because a straight man would not have anal sex with a man. They would only do it with a woman. If he does with a man then he is indeed part gay. If a woman can go near another woman’s vagina she is also at least a little lesbian. The men seeking you are not 100% straight and I can vouch for that as I know men who are mostly 100% straight and the thought of it would make them puke. The thought of touching a woman’s vagina even would make me vomit. While attraction to the same sex is what makes someone gay the act of sex with the same sex is a homosexual act in and of itself and a heterosexual person is in no way attracted to the same sex which is what makes them hetero so they would never want to involve in sex acts with the same sex because it repulses them. If they get turned on my the same sex then they are gay and if they involve in acts with the same sex they are performing homosexual acts.

[Wade8888]

Not true.

Only THE True Creator can judge a person's heart, but you are NOT a virgin if you've ever had oral sex or fingering one another. You're also NOT a virgin if you've ever penetrated your own vagina with a Dildo or ruptured your own Hymen with a dildo, etc, and you are not a virgin if you've ever had sex with an animal. So sayeth the people who invented the word "Virgin".

In the Bible, if the woman's Hymen is broken before Marriage, the would-be Husband has a legal right to call off the marriage, because she is assumed to be a WHORE... and Priests are commanded NOT to marry a whore or a divorced woman, while a lay-person was allowed to marry a whore or divorced woman if they so chose.

[Wade8888]

Do you want to know how AIDS first started in humans? A Homosexual had sex with a Monkey and then they had sex with another man, and then one of them had sex with a bisexual man, who had sex with a woman, and viola, AIDS crossed into humans and ran rampant around the world.. But it started with homosexuality and Beastiality, which is why the Disease was originally called "Gay Related Immune Disorder" or "GRID" for short. Then the liberal left decided "GRID" was politically incorrect, so they changed the name to "HIV-AIDS".

[Wade8888]

But anyuway, you don't get to "redefine" the word "Virgin" because you reject God or God's commandments. If your Hymen is rupturred for any reason, or if you commit any sexual act you are not a virgin.

[Asker]

I thought it started in Africa when they hunted and killed a monkey for meat and ate a monkey infected with SIV (SIVcpz) the short form of Simian Immunodeficiency Virus which came from a chimpanzee and attacked the immune system of apes and monkeys. Normally, the hunter's body would have fought off SIV, but on a few occasions the virus adapted itself within its new human host and became HIV.

[Asker]

Hymen is very much intact however I no longer believe in God and I have not involved myself in any indecent act prior to marriage.

[mrhappy69]

Lmao anyways hail satan

[harmon]

Not really, if she is getting fingered lol

[Asker]

Finger doesn’t make you lose virginity, neither do dildos or strap on. You must be penetrated by a penis in your anus or your vagina to lose your virginity. A boy needs to penetrate a vagina or anus to lose his.

[harmon]

Nope, that's not true. I don't think that a lesbian couple is seen as virgin after having 938484 times sex. If you're loosing your hymen during sex (doesn't have to be necessarily with a guy though). Then you're not a virgin anymore

[Asker]

Loss of hymen does not indicate loss of virginity as a virgin can break her hymen on a dildo. If I use a dildo all my life I would still be a virgin the first time I have penetrative sex with a man. It is a very big misconception that loss of hymen is equal to loss of virginity. Yes losing virginity does rupture the hymen but it isn’t the same as using other objects to rupture it. Because lesbians use dildos, fingers and strap ons and never a penis they are technically virgins for life (perhaps without a hymen!). Lol!

[harmon]

What did I say? During sex. You can also lose your hymen during sports LMAO. The way you think is just funny. Lemme guess, you also think that humans exist for 6000 years, right? dlldkswklaixisk

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Virginity is a made up concept. We decide what does or doesn't make someone a virgin. Oral sex is sex. Hand jobs/fingering is sex. Lesbians aren't virgins just because they never had a penis inside them

[COMMODOREII]

Depends on how you look at virginity.

[awanti95]

Virginity lost with penis penetration only

[Guardian45]

I hope not! 🙏

[Valnac]

The definition of a virgin is what your opinion is.
That seems to bother women more that men.

[bclbn77006]

yes.
For me they are virgin.

[Anonymous]

When a man or woman consensually penetrates a woman's vagina, whether it be with a penis or a vagina, she is no longer a virgin.

[Opinion Owner]

... whether it be with a penis or a *dildo

[Anonymous]

If you don't get fucked with an actual cock, you're a virgin. You can suck dick and be eaten out by either gender, and you're still a virgin.

[Anonymous]

Most women will try the dick at least once. There would be very few lesbians that have never been with a man.

[Anonymous]

Research shows that most homosexuals usually try heterosexual relationships. At least intercourse.

[Asker]

Then they are not 100% gay in my opinion because as a straight woman it would never cross my mind to try a man and a 100% straight man would be immensely repulsed by the thought of sleeping with another man. The gay men I know feel physically sick to think of sleeping with a woman. I think some of the people are on a spectrum of bisexuality and not actually 100% gay. Some bisexual people call themselves straight aswell when actually they may just have a higher preference for the opposite sex but they’re not actually fully straight.

[Opinion Owner]

As I read on one of the articles people just like to try it out, usually in adolescence. However, I do agree with you that not many people are 100 sure about their sexuality. I call myself straight, I wouldn’t sleep with a woman. But I kissed one when I was younger and it felt kind of nice. I do find women attractive just in a different way. Honestly, I think most of women aren’t 100 % straight. At least none of my friends.