Would a guy that’s in “LOVE” with his woman, would it mean he doesn’t love her if they have a 3some FFM?

Let’s see for exploration purposes, if there was a 3some between a committed couple , as a guy, would it mean that he isn’t FULLY in love? Even if it’s with another girl, if you’re willing to share ur girl, with another girl, does it mean u don’t deeply love her? give me ur opinion.
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Superb Opinion

  • No, it wouldn't. People often try to force love and sex into the same category, when they simply are not. They are two distinct and separate things. You can have sex with someone you have no feelings for whatsoever. This is a purely physical act. Likewise, you can love someone with all your heart and never have sex with them. Love and relationships are purely emotional. So having sex with someone else or engaging in a threesome does not in any way, shape, or form mean that you care any less for the person you love, at all. Those are only physical acts, not emotional.

    However, jealousy, trust, and pain are also emotions. If your physical act betrays their trust, causes them pain, or makes them jealous and you're aware of this but choose to do it anyway, then you have proven you do not fully love them. You would not intentionally or knowingly harm someone you loved, physically or emotionally.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I can see where your doubts are and I'd think the same sort of thing, If he's suggesting it maybe he isn't totally satisfied. Or maybe it's a 1 in a lifetime thing and he just wants to try it.
    If both people are happy with another woman joining in then give it a go and you might leave it as a one time thing or try again

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think that sex has very less to do with love. 3some is just sex. Adventure maybe. If both are ok with 3rd person then good for them. Some people are really okay with it. And they still love each other.

    • Interesting. What about being territorial , and seeing your partner enjoying someone else?

    • Not every person is territorial. Maybe they are looking at it differently. Let’s say that 3rd person can spice up things. And both of them will be enjoying someone else but together.

    • True... true... good point.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • They can be very in love with each other and have a threesome.

  • Not at all.

  • Love and sex are two completely different things. My boyfriend and I do threesomes once in awhile, and it's just to be kinky.

    • FMF or MFM?

    • @minuteman12 One FMF and the rest MFM.

    • So I take it you prefer MFM over FMF?

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