Is It A Turn Off If Your Girlfriend Refuses To Swallow Your Cum After A Blowjob?

[George1992]

Good day Secret6620In my opinion now I don’t mind although this is a tricky one, the thing is I have been in a situation where she did not want to but she did with all of her ex-boyfriend now sure what made it different with me and she didn’t tell me in that case I was a bit offended but not angry or mad. The thing is she already when as far ass that to pleasure you and you must always respect the boundaries of you partner.

Hope this helped and have a lovely day

[Andres77]

Sometimes my wife kisses me with a mouthful, she's says I shouldn't expect her to do anything that I'm not willing to do myself...🤔...😝.

It's between the couple. Everyone has a past and shouldn't be expected to comply with every whim or demand of their partner. It's cooperation, not competition.
You gotta work it out. It's work. Not always easy even though you love each other. There should be no obligations on each other. There certainly will be expectations but if the other doesn't know what they are... they're not mind readers so... it's work.
Good luck.

[desidoll]

My boyfriend and I usually decide where will he finish before we have sex lol so if I agree to swallow but didn’t do it, he told me he would feel insulted. I like swallowing anyway. Makes me feel submissive.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I have never let a guy cum in my mouth.
And sure, some would have loved to get to, they have accepted and respected it.

[Anonymous]

I don't accept that. I like things my way and the only time that is okay is if we aren't together. It can be a safety thing if we are just hooking up. But if you want to be mine, girlfriend status, you need to swallow my cum whenever I want you to. Its such a simple thing to do and the connection gets stronger for me when I see her willing to swallow it. Shows me she wants to please and be submissive to me, and I LOVE that.

I have been with hard headed girls in the past but it has been years since I've put up with that in dating. My long-term ex changed that for me - one of the most submissive women ever and she would swallow me almost whenever, wherever I wanted her to. I could randomly start jacking off in the kitchen and she'd get on her knees to swallow immediately. I like sneaking in public too and it's annoying to have to always bring a towel with you. When she swallows, it takes care of the mess!

[TonyV]

I don't know, I'd preffer she swallow I geuss. Where is she gonna spit it? Like have to run off to the bathroom? Have a little trash can in bed? Either one would kind ruin the "ombionce" lol.
Letting git run out her mouth and then rubbing it all over her boobs and stomach could be a sexy mid ground lol

[Jjpayne]

Nope although having her spit it out depending how she does it might feel degrading. I think it depends overall if she is respectful and nice when she does it instead of disgusted. While I don't like the idea of fluids in my mouth either, simply being disgusted by me can be a turn off

[Dargil]

No, it is not. What she does during the run-up to ejaculation and during ejaculation itself is what makes or breaks a blowjob but once ejaculation is complete, the event is over. What she does with my payload is what is most comfortable and convenient for her. I get no lift from her swallowing.
However
Girls that have blown me have spit my payload in to the palm of their hands and showed me how well they did. I find that... charming.

[Eeyore18]

If I had a girlfriend, if she spits or swallows it doesn't really matter to me. It's whatever she's comfortable with doing. Either way, just to look at her sucking my dick is a total turn on for me. Whatever she does after I've cum, that's up to her and it's not going to change my mood. 🤗🤗🤗

[nevernevernever]

... if i put someones genitals in my mouth and make them orgasm and they get pissed cause i didn't swallow their nasty ass semen I would kick them out of my house

[Advantage2]

I like the intimacy of not only her tasting and swallowing me... but sharing it with me afterward in a french kiss... so, yes, I would sort of be less excited about receiving oral sex if she spit the result out. LOL. I guess I've been lucky... all of my relationships were with someone who thought of it as "their reward" for a job well done. :-)

[Likes2drive]

Not exactly a turn off but for some reason when they spit it out it makes me feel like I was disgusting even though that’s not why they are doing it but I definitely prefer they swallow, it shows they are really into me and I’m not afraid to kiss them afterwards either

[Floppy2112]

After I am done with it, I don't care what she does with it. It all depends on the person who is providing the service. If I love her, I don't begrudge her. After all, I don't want that shit in my mouth.

[UrBrotherCain]

I had one girlfriend who liked exhibition and insisted on *training* herself, so oral was more common than hugs. never had a girlfriend that wasn't willing to swallow, never knew its that rare.

[Barry88]

Whatever she prefers... If I can cum, I don't care that much about what happens with my load. It's nice if she swallows but frankly, I couldn't care less if she spits.

[KingOfDoriath]

I mean it would be kind of redundant to not swallow after sucking on a mans penis, Because you have already worked your mouth to get that far and then just spit it out. It seems pointless and a waste of time to do so in my humble opinion.

[pinkiepotty]

Maybe, i mean id probably feel offended at first but i gotta understand that people don't have to do everything id do

[j792999]

Depends on how she reacts. Idc tbh but if she has to like run to the bathroom to spit it's kind of a turn off

[vampireelf]

Turn off? Actually that is a turn on! I am turned on by woman who refuse to swallow. It would be even hotter if she refuses to have me cum at all from the blowjob 😍

[jsincal]

Call me old fashion, cum belongs in the pussy. Swallowing my cum feels like a waste, as long as I cum inside her pussy I'm a happy camper.

[william_wizard]

Hey if she doesn't wanna swallow she doesn't have to swallow. She already sucked my dick, not my place to tell her what to do with the result. XD

[pajamasam]

Not a turn off. Ejaculated is the peak of the orgasm for guys. So by then wether she swallows or not is basically just a bonus.

[johnieohm2]

I wouldn't say turn off, I would ask why they are blowing then. Swallowing has many benefits, health wise, and if they dont I have heard that after spitting you still have the lingering taste in your mouth

[JoshMacDonald]

No. I wouldn’t do it so why should I expect her to do it? If she does though it is a little more of a turn on but she already has your dick in her mouth so I’m thinking if she says no, you’re already lucky.

[comrade1027]

Not necessarily a turn off but I do prefer when my lady is more submissive and open to exploring mutual sexual fantasies and kinks.

[max337]

She should be honest and tell if she love it or not if she don't its ok np cause i am haveing sex with a girl that i love not a slut that i am gonna pay here to do only what i want

[Wiredone]

It's her body. I'd never force a woman to do something that she doesn't want her to do. If she doesn't want to swallow it I'll be fine with it. There's plenty of other things to do with it.

[aus_explorer]

I like it when she does, but I wouldn't call not doing it a "turn off" for me and it wouldn't stop me from having a great relationship. Basically it's just differentiating between preferences and turn offs.

[Farmer_Phil]

I'm OK with it and just happy to have a blow job with a woman thag can get me to come. A lot of women can't they just don't turn me on or their technique isn't good. So if you get me to come it's your choice and no offence taken.

[DevikaButts95]

Sorry, that cum is going straight into another dude's mouth to swallow instead lmao.

[Anonymous]

Not at turn off at all, and nothing I would ask anyone to do. Besides, at that point I already came so what happens after that isn't really that important anymore ;-)

[douchecannoue]

I mean it's not a deal breaker but its definitely a plus if she dose swallow lol. I don't know why but it's just so nice seeing her swallow lmao but if she dont I get it it's her mouth like

[JesseCraft07]

If she doesn't swallow my cum she doesn't deserve my cum lol 😉

[gangster123]

It’s two sided... cannot be one side. If one of you doesn’t like it- it doesn’t happen. That’s it.

[Sublime45]

Big turn off, like to the point where I'd feel disatisfied

[Zeke98]

Who am I to complain? I just came in a girls mouth right? Im already super lucky that she likes me enough to go down on me.

[Mr1derful]

Nope. That's totally up to her. A lot of girls don't like that. If she doesn't like it I let her know when I'm close so she can pull off.

[NightOwl8801]

It is not a turn off , it is a choice for some to not swallow...
I like and appreciate when one swallow after going down on me , more intimate and a huge turn on as well

[AlexDeLarge]

Its her choice but my ex always swallowed except in the last few months we were together. Then she would spit it in the sink. When I found out she cheated on me I read this was a sign of rejection

[Deathly_Pheonix]

doesn't meter to me at this point cuz nobody has gotten me off before, I have to do the work. Lol

[The_Sal]

doesn't bother me
it's sexy and all but if she doesn't to I respect it

[lukeedmonton]

Not a turn off.
But kind of silly, unless a guys jizz is nasty then I don't see why not.

[paraXaraq]

Absolutely not, im sure sperms doent taste sweat, same way my girl can't get upset if I dont want to go down on her 🤷🏿‍♂️

[colivares878]

Prefer she swallow but not gonna complain if she spits after all she did just have my cock in her mouth

[BenD1986]

No, it's not a turn off necessarily... but when she does swallow it makes us men feel pretty good. When she swallows, it shows me that she is devoted to ME... in a way. Like that's MY p*ssy! Lol

[MissCurious6541]

If you don't want to swallow then don't. He can't be turned off but he came

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If I had a girlfriend I would be fine with her spitting out my semen and not swallowing it

[Jonnywayne]

I like it if she swallows, but if she doesn't want, I would accept and won't complain. I would be glad that she doesn't object to give me head.

[Nigjt]

I really do not like when a Women spits out my cum I like them to swallow mine every time.
God Bless

[Maspolomas]

It would not make a difference to me I’d rather cum in her then in her mouth because she might want a kiss after 🤮

[gaguser2021]

no it would never been a turn off for me i never saw the point of a guy or girl swallowing cum

i'm sure it taste nasty like nastya_nass_ lol jk but for real it seems like its nasty

[Tzxker]

Yes I could never be with a girl that won't swallow my cum

[Dayman343]

Not really, as long as she takes my load in her mouth I don't care what she does with it after.

[dudeinohio]

As long as I cum in her mouth. It is fine. What she does with it is her option.

[rustymopp]

No, I much prefer not to cum in her mouth anyway,
Always ask her to stop when I get near to cumming
So I can cum inside her..

[Footballplayz]

It's not a turn off but I'd rather she did. It's healthy for her gives her vitamins, you know

[CharlieDMX]

No. It's a turn on if she does. If she doesn't there are other turn ons she can do

[Zygum]

I do not like to force my girlfriend to swallow my cum after blowjob

[Jerre]

No, not at all. Actually I would rather shoot my cum on her faces and tits rather than her mouth.

[Atrocity]

Well i think it is cool if she does, but i do understand if she doesn't, so really a turn off no, i bet she can turn me on in a lot of other ways too.

[Dman19]

Definitely a turn off but that that point he's already came and will be turned off shortly after anyways

[divalessi]

I think guys do get upset with it.. but differs from guy to guy

[Blaine999]

Not at all, I'm not going to force her to do something she doesn't want

[bigdock91]

She can do whatever she wants. I’ll still kiss her afterwards