Girls: When you have sex with men, do you actually enjoy his penis and other body parts, or is it the full man himself you enjoy?

[MCheetah]

Straight girls only (no lesbians/queer women):
When you have sex with a man, do you genuinely enjoy his penis and other parts of his body? Or do you enjoy the man and who he is, more?

As in, if the man was an amazing, decent guy, but had a small penis, could you still enjoy sex with him? Likewise, if the man was a jerk and rude to other people, but had a large penis and was an expert in the bedroom, would you still enjoy his body?

For most guys, sex is purely physical, although sex with someone you love makes the experience twice as special. But most men could still have sex with someone they might not like as a person, but physically get turned on by (Kim Kardashian, Megan Fox, Ariana Grande, Cardi B, etc).

Personally, I can't imagine why ANY woman would like a penis. To me, they're gross and disgusting. I mean, one could argue that for vaginas too, as well, but lots of guys like oral sex. (Not me, even though I've been told I'm good at it.)

So women:
Do you genuinely enjoy the sight, touch, and feel of a penis? Does the size TRULY matter? Or is the penis just an attachment to the man, and you really enjoy the man its attached to, more?

[DizzyDesii]

When you have sex with a man, do you genuinely enjoy his penis and other parts of his body? I’m more into his smile, kisses, moans/groans. As in, if the man was an amazing, decent guy, but had a small penis, could you still enjoy sex with him? I did with my second ex but i was a bit unsatisfied that it couldnt go deep enough. Still it was fun and passionate. Likewise, if the man was a jerk and rude to other people, but had a large penis and was an expert in the bedroom, would you still enjoy his body? As long as he wasn't rude to me.. but yea i did with my 1st ex. Do you genuinely enjoy the sight, touch, and feel of a penis? Yes, if its long, same skintone as the rest of his body, not too thick, hardly veiny and circumsized. Does the size TRULY matter? I like to see and feel length. Anything under 5 is good for oral but mot enough for me in terms of deep penetration. Anything 8+ is too much. Or is the penis just an attachment to the man, and you really enjoy the man its attached to, more? I enjoy the man more. The dick is just fun to play with. I squeeze it like a stressball when its soft and then love to feel it harden in my mouth

[MCheetah]

I don't agree with the thing about accepting small penises (less than 7"), but this was still a pretty detailed and thorough answer.

[DizzyDesii]

Anything less than 7 is easier and more possible to deepthroat. Anything over 7 is harder for me to take in both sex and oral. It goes too deep and hurts my stomach

[MCheetah]

@dizzydesii So you genuinely like small-bois only because of oral?

[DizzyDesii]

I’d love the guy for who he is. If thst comes with a small dick, it is what it is. My second ex was like 3-4 inches when hard. It was good for oral but sucked in terms of deep penetration. Shit his finger went deeper than his dick

[Nazgol]

For me it matters, I need to get pleasure or else the sex would not be an enjoyable experience. If he's a jerk elsewhere but good in bed I do not mind but I wouldn't date him

[MCheetah]

Thank you for sharing.

[Nazgol]

No problem

[northerngal]

All of the above.

[JosyJosy]

I enjoy it, giving oral too, sometimes I'm in the mood just for that honestly, I call it the joystick

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao i used to tell my first ex the same 😂 i wanna play with your joystick 🤣 My second ex was too young and picky and like “babe no one says joystick anymore” 😂

[JosyJosy]

@DizzyDesii pogo stick works too ;)