Am I wrong to be annoyed?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend asked for sex last night and everything was going good i give him a bj he only touched me for about 2 mins but as soon as we went have sex he went soft and he asked me get him hard again so I give a bj and whenbhe was hard I went try have sex he asked me suck but longer he just came
Then he just laughed but didn't even do anything for me just annoyed me because he should at least want me get something out of sex not just himself
And now if I suggest sex within next couple days hell most likely say we just had sex when we most definitely didn't
I was just left turnt on and annoyed

Would u be annoyed by this
Should I say something I just feel it start an argument I dont care he came I'm happy he did and i love giving him a bj but if u come i think he should have made me

[JPrez]

No, you have every right to be annoyed. He definitely should have taken the time to take care of your needs. Guys lose interest for sex immediately after having it but as a man you have to disregard that and step up to the plate and take care of your woman. There are two ways to approach it. You can try the direct confrontational approach and you will most assuredly argue (but your point will be made) or you can bring it up in a relaxed setting maybe over dinner or jump on him, tickle him a little and then bring it up _ "Hey, you remember the other night when we had sex?" Why did you not take time to do something for me? This is a two way street". Something like that.

[AustinMan]

You're right to be annoyed but you need to talk to him in a way that won't immediately promote a fight. Is this helpful?

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[Gwenhwyfar]

I totally agree!!! I hope u masturbated right next to him afterward.

[PrudentGuy]

Oh in this age of gender equality, yes, you not only can get annoyed, you can even choose to end the relationship should it repeat.

One more thing, its courtesy to warn when we about to cum in our partner's mouth. As simple as "I'm near" is good enough.

Finally do communicate. Tell him you're annoyed. Insist on an orgasm next time before allow him to enter you, anywhere. He needs to know.

[OlderAndWiser]

There is no point in saying anything to him. A few words from you will not change his selfishness. Want a boyfriend who is also concerned about your pleasure? Find a new boyfriend.

[boggboss]

Sounds like u are with a selfish lover lol yes u should talk about this unless u want it to be the norm and that does mean talk dont accuse or belittle just say how u feel with the current situation

[LiamSawyer]

He is a selfish lover, next time have him give you oral first. I don't understand why some guys are so selfish like that, giving a woman oral and hearing her gasps and soft moans and groans of pleasure is a huge turn on for me.

[art84]

You have every right to be annoyed at him. Sounds like he just wanted a bj from you then after you did. Bet he was thinking "Well I got what I wanted from her". "No use to give her anything in return."

[Farmer_Phil]

It's great that you like giving him a bj but sounds like he is being lazy and selfish in bed. He should be trying to please you as much as you please him or what's the point?

[Board_Tennis77]

Omg This is so bad

[Anonymous]

No you're not wrong, that's selfish and rude.