Im tired of my sex life and my partner isn’t open to new things. What now?
Im having trouble with it in my relationship. I’m tired of our sex but my boyfriend hasn’t the same interests as I have and is not open for something new or exciting. My boyfriend is traditional and old fashion. I’m at a point where I like 5min on my own time better than an hour with him.
I realized it when I was attracted to a colleague and I asked myself: would I want to have sex with my partner right now? And I thought “no”. But would I want to have sex with my colleague if I could? The answer was “yes”. I didn’t act on it.
And hypothetically: even if I could have sex with my colleague, I know I that I would become bored again as soon as I know his spots and wishes.
How can I overcome this? I’m definitely the problem here. I have no libido at all, unless it’s “new”. And my boyfriend just wants predictable sex..
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