Why would my boyfriend say he’s not ready for baby rn but he will have sex with me without a condom knowing I’m not on BC?

[ohshee]

Because he's not ready for you either it means he only care about him self you really need to stop and think about this and be 100 % honest. BE SMART THIS IS MOT ABOUT HIM THIS IS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR BABY BECAUSE HE won't BE THERE , YOUR PUSSY YOUR BODY

YOUR RULES IF YOU MAKE THE MISTAKE OF ALLOWING HIM TO GET YOU PREGNANT,, ITS ON YOU YOUR THE BOSS NOT HIM I DONT CARE WHAT ANY GUY SAYS OR DOES THE MOMENT HE SAYS FUCK YOU IM NOT WEARING ONE THATS WHEN YOU SAY AND YOUR NOT FUCKING ME EITHER IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL WEAR ONE

IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WILL ALWAYS WEAR ONE UNTIL THAT DAY COMES AND HE SAYS MERRY ME,,, AND WHEN THAT DAY COMES AND HE SAYS I BOUGHT YOU A HOUSE , AND WHEN THAT DAY COMES HE SAYS WE HAVE MONEY IN THE BANK WE ONLY HAVE VERY Little bills. Lets have a baby thsts the guy you want to be with

[SirJeffers]

Sounds like you let him. Birth control is free here (not sure where you're from) and condoms are readily available. There's no reason why you can't take precautions. Otherwise you're just playing Russian roulette and it's going to happen sooner or later

[Anonymous]

Because he's an absolute idiot who will abandon you as soon as you're pregnant and who likely doesn't even know how pregnancy works.

Especially if you're American, it's likely he doesn't know if he cums in you that you'll get pregnant. Most Americans don't know how sex works.

[Anonymous]

Because he likes the feeling and doesn’t care about consequences since he can just walk away and leave you to deal with that. Duh.

[AustinMan]

He thinks you readily get an abortion?

[Guffrus]

Because he is male and therefore has no say in his reproduction.

You are going to try to tell me that he could wear a condom and yes, he could but statistically speaking if you have sex once a day it will fail every 3 months.

If you want to understand just put yourself in the males place its not difficult to understand really, what you want doesn't matter, its not up to you.

[Madhatter920]

Because he's really not ready for a baby, but he really likes the feeling of raw sex and that's more important to him than being responsible. And his being irresponsible actually supports the argument that he's not ready for a baby right now.

[bowenw]

He's probably immature and only cares about himself and his own pleasure. It's your body so you make the rules. If he gets you pregnant I suspect he will disappear.

[slatyb]

Because he’s hapoynfor you to have his baby and raise it all by yourself. Do you want a baby? Can you support a child?

[hellacray]

Lol well why are you letting him?

Cause it sounds like of you end up getting pregnant he's just going to get up and leave.

[Makeushiver]

Thoughtless and stupid comment. Men are great at thise

[Anonymous]

I'd say your boyfriend gets aroused by the thought and risk of pregnancy as our brain registers arousal and anxiety often as the same thing if that makes sense.

[Anonymous]

That's absolutely reckless. If he's not ready then it should be condom or nothing.

[DaddyDevn]

Seems like he’s just willing to take the risk just to enjoy you more... I did the same and now I have a 2 y/o! Be careful

[LiamSawyer]

Because he's immature and selfish.

[Celtero]

Because you two are stupid, why else?

[chriscdi]

he's lusting thats all

[okeydoke]

Because he’s an idiot you shouldn’t be dating.