Guys when having sex, why do you prefer a girl to get on top of you first before moving into other positions?

[Anonymous]

Is it so she can cum first?

[Anonymous]

I don't do that at all.

Usually I would have decided on the type of sex I want with her before I start doing the foreplay. The only time she won't be on her bum during foreplay is when I turn her around to touch her back, bum and rear of thighs.

During sex there are a few must haves that I want her to feel. The first is she must feel that it is me that pushed to insert my penis into her vagina. I don't really take into account what she likes or how she wants it. She must feel that I am putting my penis deep in her and finally she must get an orgasm because it was me that gave it to her.

[Asker]

I doubt women will a orgasm from not feeling cared about (unless it’s simply play).

[JPrez]

Multiple reasons. First, we want to see a woman satisfied so we know most girls like cowgirl. Second, the visual image of you bouncing and grinding is second to none and we can grab boobs and look at them. Third, for most of us, its a position that we don't typically premature ejaculate in. Fourth we like the position just as much as the woman.

[Asker]

Sounds about right. Thanks for sharing. 🙂

[Asker]

As for avoiding premature ejaculation, is that because it doesn’t feel as good physically as it doesn’t hit the sensitive spot as much?

[JPrez]

It’s more or less the friction issue on the frenulum which is on the underside of the D. That’s where all the nerve endings are. So what happens is when you sit in cowgirl and do the rowing action, there is not as much friction for us. We definitely enjoy it but can withhold better. Now that changes if you go more up and down as there is a bit more friction but it’s still less than say missionary or doggy.

[Asker]

I see, I figured as much. My guy prefers me to ‘row’ than go up and down haha now I know why.

[JPrez]

Definitely. Plus it is soooooo sexy to watch that rowing action and since we guys are visual creatures we love watching your facial expressions as you enjoy yourselves and we get to look at your bod so to speak. It’s a win/win situation. 😂

[Asker]

Haha we aim to please 😋

[JPrez]

No doubt. 😂. Happy Tuesday to you and I hope you guys have fun. 😎👍

[Asker]

Yeah the first time we did it I went so weak with orgasm that I started collapsing onto him and he was trying to get me to stay upright lol

[Asker]

Haha thank you! You too!

[JPrez]

Wow. That’s sexy. You’re welcome. 🤩😎

[AustinMan]

Yes, early, and yes.

[boggboss]

Honestly its just down to preference most guys dont have other motives beyond what they just enjoy or like lol

[Asker]

So... I guess he likes to see her get off quick then.

[boggboss]

Not necessarily he may like to see her onto or in a position where he can play with her breasts or may like it when she is in control I know i last longer when my girls on top so thats what I ptefer but we switch it up a bit

[chriscdi]

i prefer doing all the work tbh

[Asker]

Do you... why?

[chriscdi]

cause its my job to please the girl

[Asker]

Many women derive a lot of pleasure from cowgirl.

[chriscdi]

yea but why do cowgirl when i can give her more pleasure in missionary or doggy

[Jonnywayne]

I'm okay with both, the girl is on top or I'm.

[FakeNIK]

When she gives those expressions especially...

[Wiredone]

I never have her get on top right away. I usually get her off first by eating her. Then we do the g whiz position, missionary, doggy, backwards cowgirl, then cowgirl. We usually finish in the waterfall position because then she squirts big-time

[similartoyou]

So that I can see her boobs jumping and turn on me like hell.

[ND4SPD31]

I don’t. I’m perfectly fine with missionary. I can make her cum in any position 😉😊

[Asker]

Many men do but women tend to get off quicker in cowgirl because of where it hits.

[ND4SPD31]

Yeah that is true

[Happy7777]

Yes it is.

[Valnac]

Sure, I always like that at some point.

[QuietRunner]

yes so she can cum first,

I last longer with her on top

[Lostguuy]

Yes because it’s a lot easier on her

[Lostguuy]

I’m glad you liked my answer

[Asker]

That’s okay. Thanks for sharing.

[Lostguuy]

You are most welcome

[Sampan2017]

Yes that's true form my side

[Board_Tennis77]

So good

[Zsavior20]

Personally i only let the girl on top after she's cum 5 times

[Asker]

5 times at your age? Is someone exaggerating a little? Lol

[Zsavior20]

Nah its not the age its the endurence have sex long enough and a get good pace so you dont nut to quick you can keep it going for awhile

[Anonymous]

I don’t, I’m usually on top

[Asker]

I mean yeah that’s what happens for the most part but some guys prefer to start with her on top and I think it’s because it gets her off pretty quick.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah if I could hold out longer that way I would but some women find it awkward that way

[Asker]

Oh okay. Does it make you cum quicker then?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah sometimes it does

[Asker]

Ahh okay. I wonder if that’s the same for most men or just some. I like that though, it’s almost a fun challenge lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I hope I can try it out again eventually since it’s been so long