Do I go or not?

[Anonymous]

This guy i met during lockdown through a friend wants me to visit him tonight, we are definitely going to have sex cause he sends me dickpics, i never reply with nudes. Anyway should i go and have sex and feel shit tomorrow or should i just ignore h and stay at home?

[Anonymous]

I say since you are asking a bunch of strangers if you should go or not that should be a clear indication for you not to go because if you were a 100% sure you wanted to go you wouldn’t be here asking us

[Anonymous]

Why isn't there a third option of taking it slow?

Like, you guys can flirt and sext but still wait and actually go on some dates to get physical right?

[Asker]

He said i must come over cause i have a hangover and hel make it better. I am attracted and it does sound nice but how do you tell a guy like this to take it slow

[Opinion Owner]

Well, simple. Take it on yourself. Like "I wouldn't be able to resist myself if I come over. But i feel we have not experienced a lot of things. We have not experienced going on a date. Going to a movie, getting worked up in sex scene. Moments leading upto sex. I mean we are gonna have sex. But I just feel like we will miss out on many amazing experiences if we rush into it".

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO.

[boggboss]

Why would u go if u know u will feel like shit tommorw

[boggboss]

If u wanted somthing serious why is the conversation already based sexually

[Asker]

He made it sexually

[AustinMan]

Why would you feel badly tomorrow.

[Wiredone]

Do you want to have sex with him or is he pressuring you into it? How do you fuck up meeting with guys?

[dudeinohio]

Just go for it.

[Shamalien]

if you wanna respect yourself... START RESPECTING YOURSELF. Self respecting women don't put out without serious commitment in return

[Happy7777]

First, do you want the dick pics? Second, if you no you will feel bad tomorrow, then absolutely not.
It isn’t worth it, your feelings about yourself are more important than few minutes and a lockdown guy.

[Happy7777]

No don’t go

[andy530]

Why will you feel like shit tomorrow?

[Asker]

What if i like him and he doesn't

[andy530]

There are a lot of what if’s... what if he likes you and you don’t?

[Asker]

Im paranoid

[andy530]

Why’s that?

[Asker]

Cause i mess up everything its like I've lost my touch

[andy530]

How do you mess up everything?

[Asker]

I dont know i overthink it and i wonder why he's taking long to reply to my messages and shit like that afterwards i get awkward

[andy530]

How do you get awkward?

[Asker]

Im used to a feeling that people leave me so i get scared of that

[andy530]

But what do you do that makes things awkward?

[Asker]

Sit and wait for messages that dont come

[andy530]

And what do you do when they don’t come?

[Asker]

I overthink like a morger fucker and it breaks my confidence

[andy530]

How does that cause you to act when your confidence is broken and you’re over thinking?

[Asker]

I either dont message first or send short lessages

[andy530]

So then it seems like you’re not very interested?

[Asker]

Yes i dont want to give too much and get ignored but i get ignored anyway

[andy530]

Perhaps by not messaging first and sending short messages due to the fear you have about your feelings not being matched is in a way fulfilling that fear by making guys think that you must not be interested...

[Valnac]

Why not have sex with him and fell great that you got cock tomorrow.

[Board_Tennis77]

İf you want 🤷‍♂️