If you go out to the bars a lot and can’t get laid, what does it mean?

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DrunkAss Yoda
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You have a poor ability to adapt and sense social minutia or a stubborn resistance to change/improvement.
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- DrunkAss
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  Also maybe poor and ugly? Bad style, smell bed, things of this sort. But I would generally put a higher priority on my original answer for most people.
- DrunkAss
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  Or maybe just an utterly worthless human being -- stanky, worthless, incompetent, socially inept, mentaly inept, physically indept, poor, bad genes -- all of the above. That's the extreme case though. I think 99% of the time, people aren't in this category.
- Asker
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  Maybe I’m in the last comment you’re talking about
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- DrunkAss
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  Maybe you walk into the bar already looking to fail. Maybe you're the type who sees a pretty girl and instead of asking her how it's going, sits several seats away from her.
- Asker
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  No I asked about 50 girls already
- Asker
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  I also have no job
- DrunkAss
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  Maybe you gotta reflect each time you ask 3 or 4 and sorta change something. You gotta have some ability to recognize what is working and what isn't... just like excelling in sports. I mean you aren't gonna get anywhere improving your 100m dash skills if you have a habit of running in the opposite direction from the finish line. You gotta evaluate in between your efforts and adjust. Try and adjust. Try and adjust. Not just try try try try try try try try try try. Is there anything else in life where we expect success without adjusting in between our tries?
- Asker
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  Yeah I don’t know how to adjust sometimes some girls already hanging out with some guys or being hit on so I walk past them
- DrunkAss
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  I think it's all right for you to put up a bit of a show and learn how to do this. I give you permission. Don't be "your genuine self". Be impressive. Be charming. If you fail, learn how to do better next time. You are not in danger of losing yourself in this in my opinion. You bait a girl the right way and probably you can love her for the rest of your life very nobly. But you practice. And practice everywhere -- and including with guys. If you have a vibe where guys wanna get to know you, it usually halfway means that girls wanna do the same. Practice this.

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purplepoppy Master
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Lots of possibilities. Wrong bars, approaching the wrong girls, you're not attractive, their not drunk enough.
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Anonymous
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It could be that you're going about it all wrong. How do you try to get laid? Explain the process.
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Shdzi211 Xper 5
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Maybe you get too drunk
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- Asker
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  I don’t drink
- Shdzi211
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  Then you too boring and/or shy
Analize Xper 1
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I don't go
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Anonymous
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You’re giving up too soon? I think anyone can get laid if they put the effort in and keep trying. It’s just a numbers game too don’t forget.
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