Is a persons body count (aka number of past sexual partners) important?

[Anonymous]

If yes why? And if it matters how many? what’s the cut off?

[Spalliger]

Yes, it is. Here you have a short explanation of my thought:

- Did you have sex?: No (a), Yes (b)

a. Fine⭐

b. Was it with someone you loved and had/planned a serious relationship?: No (c), Yes (d).

c. That shows you don't give sex the value I do and you offer your body way too easily to someone who doesn't emotionally deserve it through love. I don't like that one bit. 💔

d. Fine. How many people did you have sex with?: 1, 2 or 3 on a year (e), more than 3 a year (f).

e. Okay, that's s believable time to develop established feelings for someone, fine ⭐

f. I think you fall in "love" quite fast, so I don't believe those are actual well developed and serious feelings. 💔

Numbers are not always that exact, but I think the idea is clear, haha.

[Hal2002]

Asking someone about the number of sexual partners they had in the past is never a good idea, as long as they have no STD's the past does not matter. It is not the past that is important, if you connect with someone and they want to be with you. That is all that is important.

[Asker]

Preach

[Girther10]

Why does there have to be some kind of a cut off? I stopped counting long ago, at 63... but it’s not any kind of a cutoff... lol

[SarahP080102]

Doesn't matter

[MikeTheBartender]

Great question about what is the cutoff comma I have slept with over 200 women, while I can be someone monogamous I know that I'm really not a good guy to date. Even in relationships when I'm monogamous I know deep down that I have the ability to go and fuck another girl. and on the other hand I've dated girls that have really high body counts and none of them were really good relationships compared to the girls with lower body counts. It's biological and I can't exactly explain it, modern day sociology wants to say it doesn't matter we can all do whatever we want and have no regrets at the end. But personal experience in life just doesn't dictate that.

[TeeBar]

Unusual frequency suggests deep-seated emotions problems. Variety is nice but too much of anything is dangerous to health and mind.

[Not_Average]

It definitely comes into play on how I judge you as a long term partner. It’s not a deal breaker, but does raise concern which would need to be addressed

[chriscdi]

yes.

[Twalli]

I look for long term relationships. If a girl has a lot of sexual partners and hasn't been sexually active very long it's not a good sign.

[andy530]

Nah no big deal

[Valnac]

No I’m just concerned from this day forth.

[Asker]

Period lol

[AFellowWeeb]

Rule of the 3 if she's inbetween 25-30

[Zeke98]

To a certain degree in that practice makes perfect and we can all use more practice. I have learned something new from every partner I have had and used that to help me be better for my next partner.

[Anonymous]

Are you talking about the real world, or on GAG?

[Asker]

Real world!

[Opinion Owner]

I've never once been asked in the real world. It's more of a GAG thing.