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Guys, Is he actually cumming every time?

My boyfriend cums in me almost every time we have sex but it always looks different. Most of the time, it's a watery white liquid that drips down my legs and leaves a pretty big spot on the bed. But sometimes it's watery and clearish and leaves smaller spots on the bed. And sometimes it's very thick and white and doesn't drip down my legs as much as it does when it's more watery. Also, his cum has an almost bleachy smell which I've heard is normal for cum. But that smell isn't always there? If his cum doesn't always have a smell, does that mean that he isn't actually cumming every time? And if his cum is watery and thin instead of thick and white, does that mean he's not getting off? Please help. This is confusing me. He always says that he cums but I don't know.
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  • Semen can vary a lot from the same guy, and there are also variations from man to man. Every guy has his own "normal", but even then, things are going to vary from that "normal" from time to time. His diet, his recent health, his hydration, hormone levels, his stress, and his recent frequency of orgasms all play a part, and are all things that vary over time. Cum tends to be thicker and whiter if you haven't cum in a while (24 hours or more), and it tends to be thinner and clearer if you've cum more recently (masturbating, etc.), but, again, all of those other factors also play a part. A guy under a lot of stress may have prostate production fall off to very low levels, which means a small volume of clearer semen compared to normal. Same if you're sick - things will often vary from the norm.

    So, yeah, this all seems fairly typical.

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  • I agree with the two guys before me and hence I'll try not to repeat.

    If your concern is mainly about his pleasure and if he really cum, then i assure you, all the instances you wrote showed that he cummed and are pleasured.

    Yes, us guys rarely fake orgasm and as long as we are inside a vagina, we're almost always assured of an orgasm. And we usually take much shorter time than girls would.

    Hence, no worries as long as you have "something dripping out". Even if nothing drips out, but as long as his penis restored to flaccid state upon exiting your vagina, then he had cum.

    Finally, since you allow raw fuck, please make sure you have other protection to avoid pregnancy and insists on monogamy to avoid STD.

    • Yes I am on the pill and we are monogamous. Can I ask you something? Most of the time, after he cums, his penis goes soft within a few minutes. But sometimes, it stays hard for about 5 to 10 minutes after sex. Does that mean he didn't cum if his penis takes a lot longer than usual to go back down after sex? It doesn't happen very often, but occasionally it does. I always notice something drip back out of me even when this happens but I don't know why he stays hard for awhile if I satisfied him.

    • It happened to me rarely too. And I liked it because when it happened, my partner will SURE get her orgasm as we could continue after I am "done" 😁

    • PS: pills may have long term side effects as your body kept "thinking" you're pregnant. Do consider IUD. Its another effective contraceptive without chemicals.

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  • He always cums. Cum tastes and has different consistency depending on what he's eating or if he had a wank before or sex.

  • If he says he came, then he came.
    Stop overthinking wether or not he did and think about the sex you just had.

  • I think that fresher sperm is thinner and has less of a scent.

  • Only reason a guy would fake it... wait there no reason. . RELAX HE CAME...

  • I cum a lot and white thick always so I think he fakes sometimes

  • cum is think and white like soap

  • Excessive orgasm can make the cum watery. Dont let him cum for some days and it will be white densed liquid again

  • The more watery it is the less sperm there is

    • Is he still having an orgasm even though it is really watery and less sperm?

    • Sperm and semen are 2 different things

  • It depends somewhat on what he is eating, but also, how often he masturbates, or fucks someone else. If he is drained, fucking another girl, or getting off to videos, it will be weak, and watery.

  • The consistency and volume of it is dependent upon how much he has stored up. If he's cum recently, then the next time he cums, it will be of a lower volume and more thin consistency. If it's been a while, it'll be more volume and thick consistency. Just depends on how much he has stored up in the ol' ballsack.

    • So if his cum that drips out of me is sometimes clear, that's normal and he still came? It just means he's masturbated during the day or something?

    • And if his cum doesn't have a smell sometimes, does that mean he's still actually cumming? I usually notice that if it's more thin and watery, it doesn't have a smell. But if it's thicker and whiter, it smells like cum.

    • Exactly. Whether he's been eating or drinking properly through the day can have an effect too, but usually that's what it is.

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