Would you end it with someone that doesn’t fulfill your sexual desire?

So the person treats you good but they lack the sex drive would you stick with them or end it and find someone else that fulfills you more
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Ok thanks for the answers , but say you were with this partner for a long time and in the beginning they had a very high sex drive that fulfilled you but then all of a sudden it started fading out , you address the issue to them and nothing changes , they are barely in the mood anymond and barely wanting it , would you stay with them or would you be more prone to cheating or leaving them for someone else? This happens to a lot of married couples, husband or wife not being fulfilled
+1 y
I just don’t get how people can go back to a partner that cheated on them, or why the cheating partner would even want to be back with the person they cheated on , they obviously don’t love you anymore if they can do that , I understand people cheat but if you’re going To cheat end the fucking relationship don’t go back to your partner like nothing happened and pretend that you love them and it was a mistake , you honestly don’t love them if you can screw someone else , my ex that cheated
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Most Helpful Girls

  • This is why i like to “talk” for 1-3 months before agreeing to be in a relationship. If we discuss sexual things and we’re not on the same level and i can't “train” them to get on that same level within month 1 then yea i dont wanna continue on with them

    • As for the update, i’d stay if we’re married. At the same time, i dont want to have sex with anyone else after the next/last person. So i’ll prob stick around if he's good at foreplay

    • I am just wondering why married women are attracted to me , sadly they lie that they aren’t married , so I end up sleeping with them and then find out after the fact that they are married , when I bust them or they get busted , notice how I say they , this has happened to me a handful of times , why I am a magnet to married women is beyond me but they always say their husbands don’t fulfill their sexual desires , so I always say why do you stay with him then? You don’t love him if you are cheating on him , So your answer pretty much just answered my question the fact that you said you would stay with him , you just claim not to cheat on him lol So why would you honestly stay in a marriage you really aren’t being fulfilled in? Is it because you are established? Financial security? Why do most people choose that over true love?

    • How long do you know em before you jump into the sack? I say give it 3-6 months to get to know em and do social media research if necessary. But i think they stay for financial security and for security in general. They know he's locked in with them. he's prob cheating as well but at the end of the day they come home to eachother

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  • Not at all. That's a deep conversation but I know professional swings club near me where clean couples join. More BDSM style lol but I'd allow that than him just fucking random chicks. Besides, I'd get to watch ;)

    • I'd have them seek medical help bc there are all sorts of stages in life where a person's desires fade. Relationships are not about how often u fuck. If ur in it for the sex alone then u don't love them enough

Most Helpful Guys

  • It depends on the situation/relationship. Like if we just started dating and we're not having as much sex as I'd like I'd probably end it. If we've been dating for a while then I'd talk to her about it and see what's happened to her sex drive.

  • Is there a compromise possible? Maybe one of you is being selfish sexually.

    • The relationship had a lot of sex in the beginning but then it faded because the 1 partner decided they didn’t want sex that often anymore leaving the other partner with the same sex drive unfulfilled , you talked to your partner about how you are feeling and they don’t really care , so would you stay with them or make plans to leave and find it elsewhere

    • It sounds like you have an emotional investment here. I'd try a good couple's therapist first.

    • I am speaking on behalf of a married girl I been sleeping with that I didn’t know was married, I asked her why she was cheating on her husband and she said she isn’t sexually fulfilled so she found me to fulfill her , I told her she needs to leave her husband if not then stop calling me

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  • Depends how lacking the sex drive is and how everything else is going in the relationship.

  • Nope I tried that once and it doesn’t work

  • The solution is to encourage the person

  • I’d be sick as hell lmao, if I communicated to them that I’d like to be more active and no change happened, anddd they didn’t specify a reason why we couldn’t be more active, I’d have to go. But if they were trying and I still wasn’t fulfilled I’d try and stick it out if I loved them.