Sex issues, need some help?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve gave my boyfriend a long blow job, but he didn’t last for long in bed? Have I don’t anything wrong for him to cum so quick? Or? Maybe he just got excited to quickly? Any ideas?

[AustinMan]

He just didn't control himself. Some men don't cum easily from BJs but sex is different. It's on him to control himself and I urge you to tell him that.

[bowenw]

If he takes a long time to cum during a blow job but he cums quickly in bed it could be you need to try something different when you blow him. Try tighter lips and squeeze harder with your hand while you hold the skin tight at the base of the shaft. Also use y our tongue more. If he cums too quickly in bed, try to decrease the friction. If you can open your legs wider or use some lube it may help.

[Anonymous]

the fact u feel u have to ask us and not him, u can't ask him, isn't a good sign about yal first off, 2nd, u didn't do wrong... u did it too long... so he finished... if u want to get him hard enough but have sex... then dont do it so long... if u keep on an on long... course he will cum... and sex won't be happening...

[Asker]

I did ask him, but wanted to find out different option from someone else. Thanks for a reply

[Opinion Owner]

i get it just sayin, his words would matter most really on it... and its all as i said...

[AbsolutePeppar]

How to last long in bed

Exercise (specific)

it's not about going to the gym and doing thousands of reps of the arms, legs and back, experts say you should exercise your pelvic floor muscles , do contraction exercises while holding tension for about 10 seconds, says Dr. Sandra. Hilton, PT, DPT, PhD in Entropy Physiotherapy. Dr. Hilton states that in order to feel those muscles, you should try to "stop the flow of urine when you are in the bathroom," they are the same muscles you have to work with.

Restrict movement

This does not mean that you should remain as if you were sitting at the table, but that you should have more controlled and slow movements , this will delay the moment you arrive at the organism and help you to last longer.

Change position

Like in exercise , your body can be used to the same movements as ever, so you should try to alternate a few different positions to last longer during sex, says licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin to Bustle. Changing your position allows your body to take a little break and this helps you to last longer. Another recommendation is to try more acrobatic positions as, by focusing on maintaining balance, the brain takes a little longer to feel pleasure and this prevents you from finishing too quickly. Click here to read more

[Wise4myage]

You didn't do anything wrong, lol. He just cums too fast. Ask him to tell you when he's about to cum, then stop for a few minutes or ask him to go down on you. Then continue.

[skittles2017]

When a guy cums too quick either he likes you very much or has a ejaculation problem.

[xxwx3]

Maybe you need another man

[Zeke98]

|----------------BJ---------|--sex--|
|---BJ---|-------------sex----------|
Make one shorter if you want the other one longer.

[eljor723]

Well he’s just someone that can’t last your doing it all right tho.

[Anonymous]

Could be lots of things, if it's a new relationship then excitement is the most likely explanation. You didn't do anything wrong. It will likely get better over time. If not there's a few things he can try to improve his stamina. You'll probably find lots of tips online.