Boyfriend wants sex but I’m self conscious about my body, what should I do?

Question

I been teasing my boyfriend a lot when he’s on his phone. I grind on top of him on his lap and he smiles really big and gets off his phone. Then he’s just there smiling wanting to do some more. I’m a virgin and I’ve never had sex. I want to have sex with him but I’m afraid he won’t like my body. I have a nice body with clothes on but underneath I’m worried. I believe I look good about certain parts about my body when I look in the mirror and I’m afraid of what he’ll think. He’s so judge mental with everything.

Answer 1

AustinMan | 39.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Let it go. He'll be so glad to just get laid he won't care.

Answer 2

DiegoO | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Not sure what to say hun. Your boyfriend can bring you down the moon, but if you are not ready to have sex, only accept it. Been ready to have it, means been sure about your sexuality, your self image, and relationship (formal or casual). Do not tease him if you can't feel comfortable with going further, he will get annoyed and confused.
Source: personal experience.

Answer 3

Cassie94

Xper 3

Use candlelight. One or two candles. It’ll be light enough to see what you’re doing, but dull enough to hide all those blemishes and imperfections - and if you have none, then it will at least give you the confidence to display your body. Oh, and candlelight can be super romantic too! 😉 Good luck.

Answer 4

Zeke98 | 51 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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So your last sentence about him being judgmental about everything maybe he's not the right guy to give it up for. Up until that point i was just going to tell you that he legit will not care about what your body looks like if he's about to get some from you for the first time so go for it. But if he's a judgey douche about shit dont let him be the lucky man you give it up for. Find someone who deserves you.

Answer 5

Skankhunt | 505 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Just wait until you're ready to have sex. Wait until you feel safe with him to have sex with.

Answer 6

Anonymous

If your boyfriend is so judgmental you should think about weather or not he's right for you

Answer 7

Anonymous

You’re young so I don’t think you’ll have any issues that he will be worried about

Answer 8

Anonymous

Don't have sex at this time.

Answer 9

Twalli | 12.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Guys like naked girls.

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Yourman89 | 228 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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What parts of you worried about?

Answer 11

David7825

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Don't think too much
Just go and eat your cake

Answer 12

Anonymous

my guess is that he had to ask you out first

Boyfriend wants sex but I’m self conscious about my body, what should I do?

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