Does this make me a slut?

[Anonymous]

I’m 23 and have slept with 26 men. Most were one night stands and I didn’t speak to again. When I went through rejection and I started having casual sex, now I am embarrassed of my number. I can go long periods without sex, last year only had sex with one guy I was talking to for a year and I stopped talking to him when I saw it wasn’t going anywhere. It’s been almost a year that I’m celibate. I don’t want to partake in casual sex anymore, but I feel ashamed. I became curious about sex from a young age when a family member had sex in front of me. I lost my virginity at 13 with my crush since elementary school but I hated him after that and didn’t talk to him again. I didn’t start having sex until 16. And it wasn’t always consistent. I had no one speak to me about marriage or talk to me about how important your virginity is.

[AbsolutePeppar]

i have seen plenty of questions like this, past is past, be who you are, when you ask a question like this you get good comments and bad comments too, and then again you will be worrying about the bad comments. how people think of you. don't think about the past

[Asker]

Thank you for being mature and kind hearted.

[AbsolutePeppar]

don't let the world know your story, getup and move on

[Asker]

You are right

[AbsolutePeppar]

Cool :)

[Asker]

I know it’s ridiculous to share online but no one who knows me personally knows my story so I had to let it out lol

[AbsolutePeppar]

yeah it is better to let it go off, but dont feel down by seeing the bad comments, whole point of this question should be leave your past and move on

[Asker]

Yeah every time I feel like I’ve moved on I come across something that makes me remember what I went through. It’s hard when dealing with the reality of my past but I need to learn the past is the past and has no control over anything if I don’t let it.

[AbsolutePeppar]

yes, always focus on the thinks you can control, there is no point of thinking about the past, for me also i am having real hard time, money problems, my passed away, girl friend broke up. so what matters is how we get up and move on

[Asker]

I must tell you that. God gives his strongest battles to the ones he loves most and with every hardship indeed comes ease. You may be going through something but you are wise enough to know that it is something to be moved on from because things will get better for you, without a doubt. As long as you have faith. Every prophet has delt with the worst trials of life that none of us would bear to go through, but they were chosen by God and received the best blessings in the end. Every successful person I know had went through their own tribulations until they finally got to their happy place.

[AbsolutePeppar]

yeah i know, when storm rips you to pieces you got to decide how to put yourself back together, i really like problems. actually those are experiences. where we can tell to other people, about the life i had. it kinda make me happy sharing my experiences with other on how to move on with life

[Asker]

In all honesty me too. I get down about what I went through but other times I feel really grateful because sadly there are some people who never learn, and I’m grateful for what I learned. If I never went through these things I doubt I would’ve cared to even learn more about God. This had to happen. And I could potentially help someone and save their life. Sometimes these kind of things are what turn people into the best version of themselves, that’s really what it’s supposed to do.

[AbsolutePeppar]

hell yeah, h5, when these things happen in life we become stronger. people who are not strong are the people who commit suicide when they can't deal with life problems

[Asker]

So true. Nobody said life would be easy. But they turn to such thing cause they don’t know any better. There are times I wanted to give up and felt suicidal but what gives me strength is hope for the future. I also really like to help people and feel that it’s my calling. It’s crazy but if you think about it, everyone is getting tested, even when we are not taking an exam, life is a test in itself. No one lives a perfect life, I feel like people point out the flaws or mistakes of others to take the focus off of themselves. When they have a few skeletons of their own, in their closet. These are the ones mostly who always look in the faults of others.

[AbsolutePeppar]

for me also the same, there were so many instances where i felt commuting suicide, what i want to tell you is when you have a problem, always talk to someone, don't keep that inside. talk to someone and let it go

[AbsolutePeppar]

OMG i just realized we had a long chat here :)

[Asker]

This did it for me. I’ve been wanting to ask this question for some time but felt too ashamed. I was just deep enough in thought and would rather ask for advice from strangers than people I know. I used to ask people for advice over other things and some of them I don’t talk to anymore, the advice they’ve given may have helped but not entirely. I would still feel unfulfilled. It’s like over time I’ll eventually forget. Someone in here suggested me to go to a therapist but the reason why I haven’t went is because I will be going to another person, who makes mistakes of their own, who’s going to know my business, who’s also not a perfect person, who may not have the answer to everything. The almighty is the only one who can heal me, after all. He is the one who has showed me all that I know now when I’ve spent my time in solitude. I didn’t realize what I was doing wrong in my life until I heard certain words, read certain books, and thought about what I went through, that’s when I noticed God is real. That he is the one who showed me what others have failed to tell me.

[Asker]

Yes we did lol

[Asker]

Lots of good answers on here but yours is for sure one of my favorite

[AbsolutePeppar]

i don't know who you are but you know who i am, so you can drop me a message anytime if you want to talk. make yourself busy, then those unwanted thoughts won't come to your mind

[AbsolutePeppar]

haha thanks a lot :)

[Asker]

No doubt! 🙂 I will keep you in mind. Your comment was super helpful👏🏼👏🏼

[AbsolutePeppar]

if i knew you i could have followed you :)

[AbsolutePeppar]

Hey thanks for the MHO

[Asker]

No problem love

[AbsolutePeppar]

How are you doing?

[AbsolutePeppar]

I remembered you yesterday night ☺

[Asker]

I’m feeling great, thank you:) feeling a lot better since our convo.

[AbsolutePeppar]

Wow that is great, dont forget i am here for you anytime if you wanna talk

[Asker]

Thank you 🙏🏼 I really appreciate it

[AbsolutePeppar]

No worries love

[AbsolutePeppar]

Hi how are you?

[Asker]

Hello, I am good, how are you?

[AbsolutePeppar]

Good, how was your day? Justed started or end?

[AbsolutePeppar]

hey how are you?

[Gedaria]

Nothing makes you a slut. It's more a derogatory remark.
No one can tell how many guys you have been with.
Only you know that,

[Cassie94]

As long as you learn from your mistakes, the experience is not wasted. Now you know better and your sense of shame is recognition of this - so get checked out at the doctors (for STDs) and then move on with your life with a much more positive outlook! 🙂

[RemoErdosain]

It's the past. It sounds like your mind's in the right place now. I believe you are different now

[Asker]

Thank you. Because I don’t have consistent sex, I can easily lie about my number. Every guy I’ve ever slept with said they always feel like they’re my first. Lol

[RemoErdosain]

You shouldn't lie, but you also don't have to say anything if they don't ask. If they ask, just say the truth, or say that it's a personal question that you don't intend to ask. Always be honest

[RemoErdosain]

*that you don't intend to answer. Of course you shouldn't ask the question either if you don't intend to answer it yourself though

[Asker]

The number is just tooo embarrassing and after seeing women getting slut shamed makes me too afraid to ever be truthful. I wish such a thing as casual sex never existed. Now that I am more in tune with God, I realize that it’s a spiritual thing. Should only be between husband and wife.

[bobalife]

You were just exploring. Don’t be ashamed of it. Even if you are a slut, own it Lol. But if you’re not and that’s okay too. We are allow to do whatever we want with our body as long we know what we are doing.

[Yourman89]

Yep! Nothing wrong with being a slut! Lol

[Asker]

I’ve never felt like one til I got called one this last year. I’ve always thought “sluts” were girls who cheat, or girls who were addicted to sex. I’ve always valued commitment and a intimate connection. I knew a girl who was addicted to sex and didn’t care that she was a slut at all. She was even able to sleep with men she wasn’t into which I couldn’t understand until I experienced heart break and stopped caring. Before 19 I only slept with 4 guys that I really wanted to be with, who played me. It really wasn’t my fault cause I didn’t know any better. A lot of females have fell to men’s shitty tactics as well.

[Asker]

I met a guy who I liked and he told me he liked sluts, and that he couldn’t be with me cause I’m not one lmaoo, he had me fooooled.

[bobalife]

@yourman89 you do you booboo 💁🏻‍♀️

[Yourman89]

Follow me. Lets chat.

[bobalife]

@asker omg your story with that guy who liked sluts and couldn’t be with you cuz of it got me weak LOOOOOLLL! SMH. Forget him and his lame excuses Lol. I’m sure someday you’ll find someone who will like you for you including your past :) we all have a past we may not always be proud of, but what’s more important is accepting it and becoming the person we wanna be tomorrow. And aww I’m sorry, I hate when girls put other girls down about terms like “sluts” as it’s taken into a negative context or it’s shameful if we have a body count more than 3+ 🙄😅😂 Like you’re only human and what’s wrong with enjoying/exploring your sexuality? Why do people make it into sexism that only guys can be fuck boys and girls ain’t okay to be fuck girls LOL. Just saying. Plus even if people are “sluts” in a good way where you’re just exploring a ton and all... but I mean if people are “sluts” in hurting others and other means... I think it’s a diff story. You should do what you want and what you think is what you’re looking for rather it may be casual or serious 🙂 I think it’s common for girls who value meaningful relationships and sex where guys messed them over where they don’t care anymore and tried something new like having casual sex. I’ve done it before too. Mainly as a void to move on from an ex and exploring. It’s not wrong. We are adults, we are allow to make mistakes (if you see it as mistakes), and we learn from it.

[Asker]

The thing is as I’m looking more into it online I see men are saying that a women’s sexual history can impact her bonding with her mate and they can’t hold long lasting relationships and I experience a lot of short term relationships so now I’m wondering if that’s why? Or it could be their just not the one? I seem to lose interest once the guy becomes interested in me, but I guess it’s because deep down I was longing over another person.

[Asker]

A lot of stuff they say aren’t true though like a woman can’t be loyal to her partner if she has a past, cause I could def be loyal I’ve only liked one guy for so many years if things worked out between us I wouldn’t have been adding bodies to myself, he’s a big part of the reason I became insecure and slept around. To forget about him. And it still didn’t work lollllll

[bobalife]

@yourman89 haha I’ll think about it

[Yourman89]

I sure hope :)

[Asker]

It’s poppin in here tonight 👀

[Yourman89]

Lol whats poppin?

[bobalife]

@asker nuh I think those are just all myths, don’t listen to it. But I think it’s true mossssst men and women don’t like to hear that their partners may have slept around a lot, it also depends on age and experiences. When I was younger, I would be turned off and have a hard time accepting it as well. But age and experiences change that for me. Those are probably wrong guys. At the end of the day, we want and need someone who can accept our past, love us for who we are, and who we will become 😊 it goes both ways and have more space to grow. And oh girl, oh no, we both did the same thing 😭😂 sadly it does the OPPOSITE! Sure it may be fun and a temporary fix, but it will become an unhealthy way to try to move on, takes longer to move on fully, and not enjoy casual sex as a whole as it should be Lol. I think you should do casual sex in the future if that’s what you really want and in a way you’ll enjoy w/o it being a void. Like I stopped doing it since that’s not what I’m looking for right now and I usually don’t do it for the right reasons, it started to feel like a bad habit instead of 100% fun. Also, be careful who (friends wise) you share your sexual history with since not everyone is gonna be open minded and respectful about it. One of my friends think I’d sleep with any guy and always ask for D pics cuz of my body count, used to explore, and I just have a lot of guys hitting me up. That’s when I realized some friends judge you over it and use it in the wrong way.

[Asker]

I’m not into casual sex at alll lol especially now that I got a sex toy. I only wanna have sex with someone I realllly like and if were committed to each other, problem is I never use to express that cause I’d fear a man leaving if I was honest. I was so insecure smh. So when you get into a relationship are you gonna be honest about your past? Cause it seems like most if the men these days judge.

[Asker]

I take it pretty serious cause the guy I like wants a woman with morals and mind you, he’s a fuck boy himself.

[Asker]

Yes I know some girls are fake and will ur past against u I would say don’t tell them unless u know they got a past too,, 85% of the time they do but even they won’t be honest. Almost every girl in these days have gotten played so I highly doubt any female doesn’t have a past, it’s extremely rare

[bobalife]

@asker I understand, it is kind of scary because you don’t want the person you like to not dislike you, judge you, or not be with you due to your body count. I have also felt that fear before... BUT you must know relationships is about honesty🙏🏻 you have to accept yourself for someone to also learn to accept and love you for you. I’m a pretty honest person esp to guys I’m getting to know, dating, or going to be with lol. I almost got into a relationship recently - from the very beginning when I first started talking to him, I told him I was talking/seeing others, I told him when I no longer care about other guys and just wanna focus on him since he was also focus on just me from the beginning, and I told him my sexual history as well. I wasn’t ashamed of it. I did low key felt scare to open up about having a high body count (and I advice do it when you’re ready unless you’re blunt like me from the get go), but I wanted him to know me for me and like me for me. I wanted an authentic relationship and so I must be my authentic self. He was surprised each time by all those answers I just shared, but he was open and accepting. Plus, realistically, we can’t always like everything about someone.. but it’s not necessarily a bad thing cuz when you really care for someone, you like them as a whole and wanna be with them. However, if a body count scares someone away or as a reason they don’t wanna be with you... he’s just not the right guy. Because you know you’ll still be loyal. The guy you like is a fuck guy but he wants a girl with morals and brains? Sorry I’m a little confuse lol. Unless he means he’s a fuck boy until you find someone who’s girlfriend material?

[Asker]

I guess that’s what he means he’s had the wrong idea of me from the day he first met me. I think his Intention the whole time was just to fuck.. one of the first things he asked me was how many bodies I got. That’s good you were able to be honest, i highly doubt I would be. I’m not proud of it and it doesn’t have to exist if I don’t acknowledge it, if it comes up I’ll tell him I cared about him too much to lose him. I’ll prob only tell him if I know he has a past too.

[Asker]

Men these days become depressed over their girls past too so I don’t think it’s worth it for the sake of his mental health as well.

[Asker]

He’s such a fuck boy he told me I should move out of state and said no guy will want me cause of my past

[bobalife]

I hope someday you are able to let yourself heal from your past and feel better. Well, if that is your choice to not share is up to you. I don't think anyone needs to know your business esp if its just someone from a hook up and isn't your boyfriend. I'm not sure why you like him, but he doesn't sound like a nice fella... time to drop him. I hope you meet a better guy who will be respectful and accepting of you :) I think it is always good in the beginning to find out what is someone's intentions and make clear what is your intentions no matter how it started rather from casual or romantically getting to know each other.

[Asker]

I’m definitely healing, I’m glad to see that most people were caring and didn’t see it as a big deal as I thought. Especially after seeing there’s other women who have three times as much as body counts or they’ve done worse and they don’t even mind it lol. They’re still happy and living their life. Some are not even trying to change their ways.

[bobalife]

Glad you’re healing, and it’s going to take some time. But it’s good you seem to feel better getting the support you need on here. Well I don’t think it would be nice to shame/judge those girls just as I’m sure you wouldn’t like and want people to shame/judge you. It will become a cycle. We gotta be open minded that everyone are looking for different things and they all have their own choices as long as they’re not hurting others and themselves. Or at least that’s how I would like to think of it to give respect for everyone and their choices.

[Paolaa988]

I've given bjs to 3 guys, never had a dick in me but still it's made me question myself a lot, feel guilty, and wonder if im slutty. That is a lot of people but what matters is you've owned up to your mistakes and realizing what you truly what and your self respect and worth. It's nice to be able to have someone to relate to because i know the judgment even though my situation is kind of different. I don't believe you're a slut as long as you own up to those actions and build yourself up.

[Paolaa988]

I can also say i wasn't talked about the importance either except my mom.. i had a stupid mindset at the time that its" just a blowjob" but i wanted more out of it and didn't realize what i was doing to myself

[Asker]

When I was younger I would think that to get a relationship out of a guy you’d have to have sex with him first lol. But since you haven’t experienced penetration you don’t have to worry about being a slut.

[Hangry22]

You were a slut. Not a slut presently

[Peanut127]

Yes, what uve done was "slutty" but that's like a bad habit. U never cheated. But in ur future? Don't mention that part of ur past UNLESS HE Asks. Then ur best answer if full honesty. Yes u fucked around for experience. But now go after a guy who cares more about YOU than sex in general.

I'm old school here, yes I've had one night stands but only after talking to the guy two weeks before meeting. Some became bfs some didn't. But at least I investigated first.

BC of virus, if u meet guy on dating site, or even here on gag lol communication is everything. :)

[dwcl99]

No, it doesn't make you a slut.

If you're looking for someone to talk to, then you might want to consider seeing a psychologist or therapist, and they should be able to help you work through some of the difficult emotions and relational issues you are having, so that you can feel more confident about yourself.

Its perfectly normal for people to seek out some help from a professional, and isn't anything to be afraid or ashamed or. I have a feeling that it will help you feel much better about yourself and will help you develop more meaningful and satisfying relationships.

If you need any more advice, don't hesitate to reach out, and I'll do my best.

[AndyOh]

Well here you are at 23. You have learned a lot about sex, men, and yourself along the way. So now you probably want to find a good guy to date and have sex with for a while; maybe even make it permanent.
I would let the past go. It happened and what is done is done. So best to move on, know that you have a lot of experience and you might want to keep that to yourself for a while. A good guy won't care if he looks at you as the wonderful woman you are...
Jerks on the other hand will judge you.
Good luck.

[JPrez]

I wouldn’t say so. It just took you a bit longer than most to figure what sex is about. Congrats on discovering it. I am curious, did you ever have a pregnancy scare after that many times?

[Asker]

I know it seems like I’ve had a lot of sex but I really haven’t lol. I haven’t had a serious relationship. Only had unprotected sex with one and we probably had sex about 15-20 times. He was the most I had sex with. And that was a few years ago when I was likely about 19. I’m not addicted to sex at all and I don’t have a disease. I just get horny at times and I’m single but I got a toy to deal with that now, until I meet the right person.

[Asker]

A lot of the times I was horny I pleasured myself. It was rare I ever met up with a guy to have fun, and whenever I did I was always peer pressured by a friend who said I wasn't “living my life enough” because I was so hurt over some guy and she suggested that me sleeping with others would help me move on.. by the way it didn’t. Still trying to move on.

[JPrez]

Very interesting. I had a friend/co-worker about the same age and she confided in me and kinda had the same issues. I think she histrionic disorder and struggled with it. What you said just reminded me of her and I’m glad you’re getting better.

[Asker]

What did she struggle with? Because I’m not addicted to sex. I was just single and lonely tbh,

[JPrez]

She had attention seeking issues and she had no real Dad in her life to teach her how to be a lady and respect herself. So she always thought that to get men she should lead with sex first. Her mom was on drugs so she never helped. I tried to help her and I think I did to a point but she still has a ways to go.

[JPrez]

She lacked maturity and self awareness and that was an issue. Then she turned her charms on me and got in my head but fortunately I was able to tell her no and then she quit. I still talk to her regularly and check in on her.

[Asker]

I lost my father when I was 3. I was playing with my dolls while he was dying. Didn’t know what was going on. My mom isn’t American and went through an arranged marriage so she too doesn’t know anything about dating. When I spent my time with God, and in isolation I’ve came to terms what I’ve been doing wrong. All I’ve ever wanted was to be in a relationship but I felt unworthy, and insecure. Dating today has become very difficult. My dad became depressed because he knew he was going to die and wasn’t going to see me grow up. That’s why I don’t pay mind to the men slut shaming me, they don’t know how life and how karma is. Overall unpredictable and scary.

[Asker]

Yeah I suffered from immaturity and self awareness as well. If she takes the time to get to know God, then by his will he may change her for the better. No woman deserves to be used like an object and neither should any man.

[JPrez]

Wow. It sounds like you have come a long way. It’s great to hear stories like yours and kudos for ignoring the haters. They throw stones while living in glass houses.

[JPrez]

I gave her a religious book that she reads regularly so I think she is making the right turn in her life.

[Asker]

Pray for her. In time God will show and guide her. And yes it does hurt, I do get depressed, quite often actually. But I leave it to God. My father was a womanizer.. so what happened to me could be his karma. He was perfectly fine when I was born, but things changed suddenly. As for the pregnancy scare, I did get pregnant at 19. and was forced to get an abortion. He told me that if I was already his girlfriend he wouldn’t mind staying with me to help me with the baby. I went along with the abortion because it spiraled me into a worse depression.

[JPrez]

Sorry to hear that. It’s great you’ve found God and I do pray for her. It was great talking with you and I wish you well on your journey. 👍🙏

[Asker]

Same here, thank you

[SphynxUK]

I’m tired of hearing this word.
You did what you wanted at the time. It’s perfectly normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Men do this just the same.
Deal with it.

[LeeannaDD]

I get a lot of crap over my body count too.

[bowenw]

Just move on with your live and keep your body count to yourself. You are better off without guys that ask. You can't change the past so don't feel ashamed. Be proud of who you are now.

[Asker]

I am disgusted with my past and kind of mad with my “loved ones” who weren’t there for me the way I needed them

[bowenw]

I can understand why you are upset with things that happened in the past. If you are having trouble getting over everything, you may want to talk to your doctor about counselling.

[Asker]

Lol if I can see a therapist anonymously with a fake name and a bag over my head then yeah why not.

[Questionsweask]

No your not a slut. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, you know what you like, dont feel shame, who business is it anyway Dont like your number go out today and get one more and Pow new number. LOL just kidding. never be ashamed just be you, and stay safe.. If you want to change how you proceed going forward do that then, if you dont , dont. Just as long as your safe, healthy, not hurting you or another, then its just a number. some have none, or one, some have more, but dont make the person better or worse from either amount they have been with. I heard a comedian say , excuse me sir, was your wife any good first time you two had sex, he sad well yes , she was great, he said well how in the hell do you think she got that way.

[Kabluie]

Number count doesn't matter, as long as you were having fun and are safe. Experience isn't bad either.

But for-example if I dated you tomorrow, I'd never ask about "the count", because sex is really just between us.

[chriscdi]

i guess you can say you were a slut but you matured out of that phase

[Asker]

What erks me is when they say “once a hoe always a hoe” lmaoooo

[chriscdi]

well yea this is why i tell younger girls and girls in general here that ask about losing their virginity, i tell them to lose it carefully because the choices they make with their body can ruin their face, you for example you went down that path and now its gonna haunt you, im not even sure how hard its gonna be for you to find someone thats gonna accept all those bodies, you know

[Asker]

Clearly I won’t be able to be truthful, a lot of girls aren’t. So many other females have been used for sex in this book up cultures, why would any girl be honest to her man about that.

[Asker]

Hookup*

[chriscdi]

because a lie will eventually collapse, and if he somehow finds out, then theirs no hope for what y'all had and at that point you'll be more attached to the guy than him just simply rejecting you in the beginning

[chriscdi]

which means the ouchy is gonna be more

[Asker]

Well all I can say is good women are for good men. Most of the good women are good because they can’t get laid, aren’t attractive enough. Unattractive women can be sluts too, if they have a nice body. But a man who has used women in his past should not ever expect to be blessed with a saint, especially if she is considered beautiful according to society’s preference.

[chriscdi]

i totally agree with you on that, if i was a man whore i wouldn't expect nothing more than a whore tbh

[Asker]

Oh the amount of man whores who shame women for being sluts 🤣🤣🤣 the audacityyyyy

[chriscdi]

yea what a bunch of hypocrites lol

[Asker]

Facts !!

[chubbycrow]

yes it does.
not that there's anything wrong w that. if you enjoy sex u enjoy sex. frankly as a christian I'ma say whatevs, lots of my friends are self proclaimed sluts and love it

[Andres77]

Noone needs to know your past.
Obviously you've learned your lesson and you've adjusted your behavior. I needed an intervention and therapy to adjust mine so I applaud you on your self control. Sex is fun and awesome in the right parameters. I was out of control for years and I'm lucky to be alive before someone pulled me out of my reckless behavior.
Don't get stuck on that word (slut) or any titles. Continue to focus on being the best person you can be.
Be patient in your search for love. Guard your heart. You're worthy of love, love yourself (healthy love, not being arrogant) and don't settle for anyone less than you deserve.
Consider urself fortunate that you have the experience you do and use that experience in bed with your future partner.
I hope you find what you need.

[Skankhunt]

To some men you are a slut. Why did you had so much sex in the first place? Also, losing your virginity at the age of 13 is very concerning to me. That's very young. What did happened with you?

[Asker]

My sister had sex with her boyfriend in front of me when I was 9, was curious about sex ever since.

[Asker]

Also was peer pressured by friends, had two other friends same age as me who were already having sex and would tell me that I’m missing out.

[Skankhunt]

That's too bad. You shouldn't feel pressured by others to do things, that's not right. Learn to not care what others think of you or say to you.

[Jamie05rhs]

No one told you? No one at all?

[Asker]

Only one guy and he was the one guy I didn’t have sex with lol

[Wise4myage]

This is probably directed tied to the family member having sex in front of you, that's just not right. Its a good thing you have stopped and congrats on being celibate. Just try to stick with one guy from now on.

[Asker]

That and when I got rejected by someone I really like. I was truly heart broken because I was hoping and thinking I was going to eventually be with him, when I met him I only had slept with 4 guys. I didn’t even have sex with him I tried to make him wait and he gave up on me.

[Wise4myage]

Well that was loss and that’s how you should look at it. When it comes to dating don’t be a big hurry to reveal how many guys you have slept with, because that will scare some guys away.

[Asker]

Every girl lies about it. We know better than that.

[Wise4myage]

Guys do as well. :)