Men, do you think you’re “easy” when it comes to sex or do you hold off a good while?

Since forever, many men (not all, but many) have considered a lot of women “easy”... an easy score. But are you easy as well? Do you jump into bed sooner than you probably honestly should? Or are you the type to not put a time constraint on when you should “give it up” because it makes you feel less “easy” 🤣
#FeelFreeToList #AnEasyScore
Yea, im probably easy as hell
Vote A
Nah, i have too much self respect to be so easy
Vote B
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
1 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm straight but it's rare that I'm ever attracted to a girl to the point that I'd actually wanna hook up with them (I've been told numerous times that I have high standards).

    For me there's 3 levels to attraction...

    Level 1: I find her unattractive (40% of girls r in this category)

    Level 2: I find her attractive but not attractive enough that I'd actually wanna hook up with her (55% of girls r in this category)

    Level 3: I find her attractive enough to the point where I'd actually wanna hook up with her (5% of girls r in this category)

    And obviously a great personality can move a level 2 to a level 3 and a shitty personality can move a level 3 to a level 2 or 1.

    • Love this

    • If I found the girl attractive enough and I liked her personality I'd fuck in an instant

  • This is just my personal opinion I'm not easy because I want to respect myself better in some of these women and men out there who go around being manwhores and she horse having all kinds of crazy sex risking their sexual parts getting it all infected

    • Exactly

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

9 78
  • I hold off until we both feel we have a strong emotional connection.

    • Thats good

  • I'm not a man, but I'm not easy either lol got the invite, so here to see if there's easy men out there 👀🤣

    • Yea i just figured we could sit back and laugh at the comments 😂

  • I was never one to screw anything in a skirt. But I wasn't interested in holding off for a "good while", either. If, after a couple of dates, I decided that she seemed to be a good person and have good character, I'd be ready for sex if she was.
    I never considered sex to be something sacred, but more of a full contact recreational sport. If two people are attracted to each other and want to have sex, I think why not? We'll see how things go from there.

    • A few dates isn't considered easy. Its not like its the first date lol

    • I agree.

  • When I was younger, my answer would have been much different. Now, I do not have one night stands or sex on a first date. I don't have a rule about when to have sex other than not to have sex before it feels right for both of us. I have waited four months of dating every weekend, and I have had sex on a sixth or seventh date. Whenever it happens, it is not just about me feeling good but it is also about making my partner feel good and feeling closer to her.

    • At least you wait

  • I doubt any guy has an arbitrary time limit. More like some guys want to know/think that she is interested in more than sex. She could seem like she's into him by default if she keeps her mouth shut. The more she talks the more he realizes she's not and that's that.

    Agree with the guy who mentioned std tests tho.

    • Some guys wait til marriage tho

    • The other thing is that tons of women will act reserved/hard to get with the guy she things is a great catch... at the exact same time she's being easy with another dude who she'd never take seriously. Typical guy focuses on one woman at a time if he wants serious. He's not mixing & matching.

    • *thinks

    • Show All
  • *Reading Comments*...

    • Lol same

  • So 2 things

    1 yes im easy to get in bed ill admit it. No shame... BUT

    2 I have with held sex from a girl before. When that ex comes crawling back I tell them no and do not give into a horny ex. I did that once and it ended up being a huge mess of drama and gossip and unnecessary stress. So I do have lines and deal breakers for sex.

    I may be easy, but I know how to be hard to get.

    • Hahaha well good then

  • I'm as easy, easy like Sunday morning.

    • Lmaoo

  • I have sex when I feel the time is right.
    It's not about "waiting" or enforcing arbitrary time periods.
    Frankly, if someone thinks that way, I would just chalk them off as promiscuous and pretending they are not.

    For me the time was right 2 years into an exclusive, committed relationship.
    I don't know what the right time will be like in my future relationships (if any), definitely won't be the first date, or anything less than 3 months of a commitment, though.

    And, yes.
    I know it's super conservative.
    Most of my relationships ended because of sexual incompatibility, in the sense that I was the much more conservative one.

    • Yea i wouldn't do anything less than 6 months, but yea not everyone who puts a time constraint is pretending... they’re likely being smarter than the average nut.

  • You know me, I hold off even after a year lol.

    • Hahaha

  • I'd say it's tough 😅 although I've never be strongly challenged or tempted before... I think we are much easier than girls though, I think girls have a greater form of self control. But that's just me talking 😂

    • Lol maybe

  • This is a weird question. It might be different for men and women. I believe there are more women who use sex to get things from men than the other way around. It’s used like currency. An exchange. Girls will use sex to keep guys interested in them or seduce them into giving up material things. But for guys it’s different for the most part. Some guys might use sex to get things from women but usually they use material things and words. It would probably be better to ask something like “How long do you wait to buy a woman gifts or spend money on her”. If you replace money with sex for guys you’ll find that a lot of guys are financial sluts. If she’s attractive and charming she can make him throw money her way even if they aren’t dating. Check out FansOnly. That’s the male version of being easy. Quick to pour money for a woman. I don’t buy gifts or anything extravagant for girls outside of a relationship. Meaning we’re having sex, we’ve committed to eachother, etc. I don’t count dates. Anyway. This should answer your question. I’ll sleep with most attractive women at any moment if I don’t think she has a disease and know she’s single. But I’m extremely picky about who I get into a relationship with and if you’re not my girlfriend I’m not going to treat you like one and showering you with money.

    • I said easy as in... if a girl throws pussy your way, would you just go for it? A lot of desperate dudes would but also a lot of guys fall easily and would

    • “Any” girl?

  • It's not self respect. I just hate breaking up after having been intimate. So I prefer to wait a few weeks before having sex.

    • Lol i can relate. I dont wanna have many partners in life 😂

    • I think it may just be a bit of emotional immaturity on my part. There's no reason I should equate having sex with being in a relationship if my partner doesn't.

  • I wouldn’t consider myself easy because the only way I can have sex with a girl is if I feel her and I have a connection a good chemistry , I can’t just have sex to get off on a girl , inner beauty is important to me , outter beauty isn’t everything to me , Now if I see a girl that is beautiful on the outside there is a chance I could be attracted to her and hook up with her by hooking up I mean kissing and touching each other , kissing and touching. to me is an indicator that ok cool we are both attracted to each other so there is potential here, but I honestly won’t have sex with her if i find out she is a bitch or a slut and realize we don’t really have good chemistry , that sorta thing usually happens when alcohol is involved at a party or a concert or a bar or club. So for me to have sex I have to feel it’s going somewhere , not just being used as a convenience

    • Good good

  • Nah, I don’t think so. Sometimes you have to go with the flow if she wants it.

    • Depends on what you want as well though

  • I don't approach girls, because I don't want to be rejected because my dick is too small.

    • 🙄 small dicks are good for oral

    • Answer my question on this issue on my profile?

  • I’m not easy lol but I’m also not a guy nor ruled by my crotch.

    • Yea i just figured we could sit back and laugh at the comments 😂

    • Lol I am xD

    • We both know like half these guys will lie lol

    • Show All
  • Its nice to develop fondness before we start swapping body fluids.

    • 😂😂😂 that sounded so, ugh 🤣

    • The mood I'm in.

    • That good mornin wood 🤣

    • Show All
  • I've never considered myself to be "easy". I've only had a fully physical relationship with women I truly expected to be with for the rest of my life (or theirs).

    • At least you had a gameplan

  • 🤣🤣 some of the men that I’ve seen will f**k anything. That hints that most men are easy. So I’ll just sit back and have a good laugh at the guy's comments. I’m not an easy girl, I have to wait a little while before I have sex with a guy.

    • Yes like i just came to see the comments 🤣🙏

  • Show More (67)