Men, do you think you’re “easy” when it comes to sex or do you hold off a good while?

[Anonymous]

I'm straight but it's rare that I'm ever attracted to a girl to the point that I'd actually wanna hook up with them (I've been told numerous times that I have high standards).

For me there's 3 levels to attraction...

Level 1: I find her unattractive (40% of girls r in this category)

Level 2: I find her attractive but not attractive enough that I'd actually wanna hook up with her (55% of girls r in this category)

Level 3: I find her attractive enough to the point where I'd actually wanna hook up with her (5% of girls r in this category)

And obviously a great personality can move a level 2 to a level 3 and a shitty personality can move a level 3 to a level 2 or 1.

[chHaynes]

This is just my personal opinion I'm not easy because I want to respect myself better in some of these women and men out there who go around being manwhores and she horse having all kinds of crazy sex risking their sexual parts getting it all infected

[AustinMan]

I hold off until we both feel we have a strong emotional connection.

[Dongtai]

This is a weird question. It might be different for men and women. I believe there are more women who use sex to get things from men than the other way around. It’s used like currency. An exchange. Girls will use sex to keep guys interested in them or seduce them into giving up material things. But for guys it’s different for the most part. Some guys might use sex to get things from women but usually they use material things and words. It would probably be better to ask something like “How long do you wait to buy a woman gifts or spend money on her”. If you replace money with sex for guys you’ll find that a lot of guys are financial sluts. If she’s attractive and charming she can make him throw money her way even if they aren’t dating. Check out FansOnly. That’s the male version of being easy. Quick to pour money for a woman. I don’t buy gifts or anything extravagant for girls outside of a relationship. Meaning we’re having sex, we’ve committed to eachother, etc. I don’t count dates. Anyway. This should answer your question. I’ll sleep with most attractive women at any moment if I don’t think she has a disease and know she’s single. But I’m extremely picky about who I get into a relationship with and if you’re not my girlfriend I’m not going to treat you like one and showering you with money.

[Fwb4u]

Personally I don't think of it as being easy i would say that I'm just a very fun loving free spirited. openmided and spontaneous but im definitely going to guess that I personally fall into the extremely easy manwhore slut boy category lol... just being honest but now I'm not saying that I don't have any standards or that I will just sleep with any and every one because I have truthfully turned down multiple advances from more than one person... however on the other hand I've also walked in to someone house that I was meeting for the first time to find my host naked horny and stretched out on the çouch looking so incredibly 🔥 ... And In this case I didn't even stop to say hello before undressing and burying my face in her and she didn't want me to come up for air long enough for introductions until nearly 2 hours later when she had a hand stroking my cock a finger in my ass and she couldn't control her legs shaking to the point that she eventually collapsed on my face... so yeah and we dated for nearly 6 months after that... and yes if a similar situation presented itself right now I would definitely game so yeah no regrets

[Kurαȷ]

I have sex when I feel the time is right.
It's not about "waiting" or enforcing arbitrary time periods.
Frankly, if someone thinks that way, I would just chalk them off as promiscuous and pretending they are not.

For me the time was right 2 years into an exclusive, committed relationship.
I don't know what the right time will be like in my future relationships (if any), definitely won't be the first date, or anything less than 3 months of a commitment, though.

And, yes.
I know it's super conservative.
Most of my relationships ended because of sexual incompatibility, in the sense that I was the much more conservative one.

[MannMitAntworten]

Neither actually applies. For me, I know immediately if I wish to sleep with someone. Equally, I know immediately if I do not. Time itself has influence to change this one way or another so when it comes to the one I desire to sleep with... opportunity only need present itself. Further I should point out, a desire to sleep with someone for me does not equate a romantic interest. Nor that the possibility will ever exist either. Relationship wise, even there I know pretty immediate whether or nor it is someone I would risk involvement with.

[Finchie40]

I wouldn’t consider myself easy because the only way I can have sex with a girl is if I feel her and I have a connection a good chemistry , I can’t just have sex to get off on a girl , inner beauty is important to me , outter beauty isn’t everything to me , Now if I see a girl that is beautiful on the outside there is a chance I could be attracted to her and hook up with her by hooking up I mean kissing and touching each other , kissing and touching. to me is an indicator that ok cool we are both attracted to each other so there is potential here, but I honestly won’t have sex with her if i find out she is a bitch or a slut and realize we don’t really have good chemistry , that sorta thing usually happens when alcohol is involved at a party or a concert or a bar or club. So for me to have sex I have to feel it’s going somewhere , not just being used as a convenience

[Anonymous]

Same as @AustinMan
I should have my time loving her as person for any reason. For example love her pretty and sexy style.

Otherwise I would hate myself being creepy/deseprate. I want to bang a girl where she is happy or accepting me banging her. Not me forcing her or myself.

Otherwise thanks for masturbation -though it kills health- I would ejaculate fantasizing her as a means of appreciation for her teasing my instinct making me wishing banging her. And maybe I would not even wish banging her after masturbation.
Maybe guys can relate.

So I would be pretty easy if we have a relationship. Be it acquaintances, colleauges, friends or so. But there has to be some connection. And maybe that connection neutralizes after one or two times if I were not into her personality. Usually mastrubating myself clears all that. So I do quite masturbate a lot to save me from needing the actual event.

[pajamasam]

So 2 things

1 yes im easy to get in bed ill admit it. No shame... BUT

2 I have with held sex from a girl before. When that ex comes crawling back I tell them no and do not give into a horny ex. I did that once and it ended up being a huge mess of drama and gossip and unnecessary stress. So I do have lines and deal breakers for sex.

I may be easy, but I know how to be hard to get.

[Lliam]

I was never one to screw anything in a skirt. But I wasn't interested in holding off for a "good while", either. If, after a couple of dates, I decided that she seemed to be a good person and have good character, I'd be ready for sex if she was.
I never considered sex to be something sacred, but more of a full contact recreational sport. If two people are attracted to each other and want to have sex, I think why not? We'll see how things go from there.

[hahahmm]

I doubt any guy has an arbitrary time limit. More like some guys want to know/think that she is interested in more than sex. She could seem like she's into him by default if she keeps her mouth shut. The more she talks the more he realizes she's not and that's that.

Agree with the guy who mentioned std tests tho.

[OlderAndWiser]

When I was younger, my answer would have been much different. Now, I do not have one night stands or sex on a first date. I don't have a rule about when to have sex other than not to have sex before it feels right for both of us. I have waited four months of dating every weekend, and I have had sex on a sixth or seventh date. Whenever it happens, it is not just about me feeling good but it is also about making my partner feel good and feeling closer to her.

[Jjpayne]

I'd say it's tough 😅 although I've never be strongly challenged or tempted before... I think we are much easier than girls though, I think girls have a greater form of self control. But that's just me talking 😂

[anewme]

Picky... I have a dozens.. stories... alil critical too... one bit advice spooked me lol... it said whoever you have sex with first... y'all exchange souls? I was like what? at 15 when I heard that... then I was like nah... not you... then her... but she dont want it... then nah... not her there lol...

[DJB72]

I've never considered myself to be "easy". I've only had a fully physical relationship with women I truly expected to be with for the rest of my life (or theirs).

[CaptainLegal]

Nah, I think I'm not that easy. I mean if I wanna date a girl I'm not gonna try to have sex from the first night, I like it take my time and get to know her. Even if it's a one night stand i like to get know her more.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Honestly I am Quite Easiest person, but I have certain skillets that piss of women.
And I can't stop using those skills 😂.

So you know nothing happens..

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I'm not a man, but I'm not easy either lol got the invite, so here to see if there's easy men out there 👀🤣

[boxcarjoe]

I am easier than 1 1. My nickname in the marine corps other than the crimson chin (because of my massive jawline) was dirty dick because I fucked any and every female that offered. I did wear protection and got the checks regularly. But yea I have negative self respect.

[Chris_u006]

Im not easy at all. I've turned down many opportunities for one night stand in my life, I rather die single than from an std.
And I rather wait for the woman with the same mindset as me, it ain't fun without some challenge.

[AdithyaR]

Considering my need for an emotional connection first and my insecurity about my body, I'd probably wait a while until I can trust her.

[Jerre]

I realize I am easy, but I do enjoy my lifestyle. It is probably me being Hyperspermia. My balls get so full of cum each day that I feel the need to get rid of it and I find fucking the easiest and most pleasurable way of doing it.

[Anpu23]

When I was single I was quick to sleep with someone even my daughter called me a "man slut" lol. Was I easy? oh hell yes.

[QuestionMark19]

I don't approach girls, because I don't want to be rejected because my dick is too small.

[mimi051998]

🤣🤣 some of the men that I’ve seen will f**k anything. That hints that most men are easy. So I’ll just sit back and have a good laugh at the guy's comments. I’m not an easy girl, I have to wait a little while before I have sex with a guy.

[Dargil]

Its nice to develop fondness before we start swapping body fluids.

[Jamie05rhs]

https://youtu.be/otCpCn0l4Wo

[Davidstarboy]

I'M pretty easy because I'm horny motherfucker lmao. Sometimes intend to hold off but I always fail. If anyone approach me to have fun sex I'll be down for it.

[Ninjazzed]

All men are “easy” but then complain when they find out a woman has had sex with more than one guy.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I can hold off a good while. I find that I give in to sex because she might get angry and think I’m pathetic then not want to be with me lol

[Avicenna]

Nah, I don’t think so. Sometimes you have to go with the flow if she wants it.

[lucas262]

I'd say I'm not easy. Because its not what I'm after, really that just makes it harder to meet people.

[Twalli]

While I don't care when we have oral, I won't put my penis inside below her waist for at least 3 months.

[Anonymous]

As if all men are saying they hold off. I've yet to meet just one man who'd refuse given the first opportunity!

[slatyb]

It's not self respect. I just hate breaking up after having been intimate. So I prefer to wait a few weeks before having sex.

[NYlatefun]

Yeah, I am a bit too easy. I’ve become more selective about intelligence though, nowadays I’d jump to bed in no time with a hot and smart woman, but if she’s stupid or annoying I rather not.

[genericname85]

i'm "easy" when i really like the girl. i'm harder to get, when i'm not so convinced.

[RHK36]

I don't know, never really thought about it like that. I just wait until the time feels right.

[Paul09]

It all depends. I'd rather find a realitionship hip right now. But I'll get into bed if an attractive woman wants me to bang her.

[KyleAbe]

As much as id like to say no i am not easy. I probably would walk right in to that situation and realize it after it way to late.

[ElvenMr]

I don't think men can give up anything, or be easy, we just do it 😀
I personally wouldn't rush sex, i want to get to know the other person first.

[Tstrbrainer]

I'm really easy for sex. All a woman have to do is ask and I won't even judge, I'll be too busy for that 😂😂😂

[pizzalovershouse]

Alwsys wait at least least a month an testing of stds cuz i had ex get a std an it wasn't from me was her ex

[naraku]

I hold off for a while until I feel good about her.

[Syrian_survivor]

As a good virgin boi who's worked hard to stay a virgin till now

Ima say I ain't easy one bit

[tjbyrd39]

I mean easy as such a bad word to describe that I think it should be go getter. Or freaky fun timer. Or any name besides easy because I just said so

[Maspolomas]

I’m easy but my wife isn’t haven’t gotten any since before Halloween

[Blaine999]

I'm not easy, at all lol. Sometimes I think it's a problem

[Paulychicago10]

Definitely B for me. I want someone I can trust more than I need sex

[locutus9999]

I need to feel to be in a sexual relation. so no i cannot jump easy on a bed.

[AkshiJanjua]

I think both men and women are easy but men are a little easier

[bklynbadboy1]

I'm not easy I flirt and play around but I'm definitely not just jumping into bed with someone

[Agape93]

I’m not easy lol but I’m also not a guy nor ruled by my crotch.

[6RareBit9]

Well right now I have to keep myself in cheak if she smart and make a little effort then you know lol

[Atrocity]

Well no I am holding off since I am in a relationship, but I used to be rather easy going, also in sex. You only live ones!

[amazing07]

Im not that easy not that difficult when it comes to sex. Its mostly my girl who knows when to ask me for it.

[jimmy2]

I jot had sex in over 14 years. I would say i dont jump into bed

[MyBigMystery]

I've wanted a year cause apparently Im a addict is that easy?

[msc545]

Maybe. My SO thinks I'm easy for her and she is right!

[rustymopp]

it's not as if I have women throwing themselves at me so I take each opportunity when it comes

[SavageGirl101]

Lmaooo the men I've seen and know are sooo Easy and will fuck anything 😭😭