Am I a virgin😅? Sex with a coat hanger💀?

[Anonymous]

Im 22, I broke my virginity... to a coat hanger😅... let me explain... I come from a strict upbringing so no sexual education but when I was 10 someone blasted porn by accident in IT class... I memorised the site (pornhub) in fascination and became obsessed. I think I broke my hymen before I even knew wtf it was or its "value as proof i havnt been around" because I bled like a water fall scared shitless and soaked a whole damn towel that I hid - I thought I was going to die (this was before I started periods). I was scared off since and only played with clit since then when horny, when I try to finger myself it hurts/doesn't feel good I can bearly put 1 finger in even when aroused does that mean im still a virgin?

Thing is... I know its really pleasurable up there... maybe more because in past years when i hold in pee it just feels so damn good same with anus. Will buying a dildo make virginity claim less believable - I have urges for sex now and then but I'm saving myself for some intelligent mythical virgin man who won't laugh at my inexperience and is looking for marriage and is a deep thinker like I am... when I'm not horny that is😅 im just afraid this person won't believe this shit because im being deadly serious 😂 its actually embarrassing no one knows.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Breaking the hymen has nothing to do with virginity. Most hymens break and stretch long before someone has sex. Even riding a bike can do it. You wouldn't be able to menstruate if it was still fully intact. No one will be able to tell just by looking if you are a virgin or not

[Massageman]

Forget about what others will think about you. This concept gets people into too many problems. but I digress - - - - -

Yes, you are still a PIV virgin.

Since the hymen can rupture or be torn in a variety of ways- overstretching, horseback riding, etc. and not bleed- your coat hanger most likely scraped some of the mucosal membrane of the vagina, causing the bleeding.

[JayisI]

You're still a virgin the only way to lose it is to have sex.

[Gafgorkion]

If you lose your virginity from masturbation, then I lost my virginity when I was 11.

[boggboss]

Sex is required for u to not be a virgin so that should be the answer

[chriscdi]

hm interesting story

[Makeushiver]

If you are really concerned then you can fake it pretty well by pretending top be in a little pain when you first fuck. Maybe have a pair of panties that have a little blood from your period or something to offer as proof though I can't think of any guy who is a big enough cad to want any kind of "proof"

[Danish87]

Yes you are virgin. Doing with hanger is just consider as masturbation.

[s2firestar]

Yes, you are.

[Gedaria]

Sexually no it needs to be a penis
But being a virgin you have not experienced a certain thing. It could be a cigarette.
Anal , riding a horse.
Anything..

[Farmer_Phil]

Your a virgin till you have sex. That's kind of the end of it. If you have played and had fun and understand your body and what pleases you that doesn't make you less of a virgin your just an educated one.

[Twalli]

Technically you are still a virgin. Girls can break their hymen by riding a horse. So you might not be physically a virgin, but you are in every other way.

[AFellowWeeb]

IN MY OPINION EVERYONE:
No, you can't lose your virginity to an object or yourself. Virginity means you haven't had ANY sexual encounter with ANYONE else, this includes if you gave or received a blowjob or engaged on anal sex. If losing virginity was just penis on vagina, all homosexuals were still virgins.

[EaterPeter]

I don't know. You may want to try with toy and lube. It should not be painful that may be more of psychological. Try 2 3 times with toy and lube. May be cucumber and Vaseline. Make sure pain is no more than tolerable. If it is painful find a way to see the doctor please. Lady doctor in your case probably. You may want to buy small toynto start with if you take that route.

[Yourman89]

Still a virgin. But that doesn't mean you have to wait

[Anonymous]

My definition of virginity isn't whether or not you have broken your hymen, but if you have performed ANY sexual act with another person. So I think you are still a virgin.

[Anonymous]

You can't lose your virginity on your own, thats masturbation, not sex, it doesn't matter how incompetant you are at it. (You shouldn't be putting coat hangers inside yourself, that sounds dangerous)

If your potential partner doesn't trust you and therefore believe the things you say then you shouldn't marry them so you dont need to worry about that being a problem.

[Anonymous]

LOL. That's not howit works