If your partner got raped but he/she liked it, would that be cheating?

Aiko_E_Lara Master

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I meant raped by someone else

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I really mean what i said. What do you call the act of forcefully sexually harassing someone? That is what i am talking about and theoretically i am asking what if he or she turned out who actually like it? Don't tell me i don't know what rape really is.

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Apple1996 Master
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Not cheating since they didn't choose to have sex with that person. I don't think if they like it or not really matters.
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- Apple1996
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  Thanks for mho!
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  *hugs*
sweetbree Xper 1
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kinda haha
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  And someone gets it. Unlike smart alecks in here
- sweetbree
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  lots of them here girl

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MrNameless Guru
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your body can physically get turned on by the physical sensation of sex, and that is beyond your control. Rape is rape. It's forced and without consent, and it's a fucking scary scenario.
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- MrNameless
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  cheating would be having sex behind your partner's back with consent.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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Bratsondanielle Yoda
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Lol I love it
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- Bratsondanielle
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  Regarding the update then no. I meant I love it when he rapes me. Not just anybody. Which I would actually advise against cuz I always carry
jshm2 Master
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It couldn't be "rape" then, could it?

It's like saying you "accidentally stole" something. You did one or the other, you can't do both.
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If they like it then technically it's not going to be raped anymore but i'm still talking about the act at first being raped
Alpha09 Explorer
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For it to be rape it can't be wanted or enjoyed. Rape is the absence of consent.
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Read the update
- Alpha09
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  The update is just the same explanation with extra steps lol
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  it doesn't take a genius really
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  The word force is still applied though and if i have to say what if she is a stranger?
- Alpha09
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  If your talking about someone's fantasy you should say that.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  No. Im still talking about someone who don't fantasize that but "turns out" to actually like it. So I guess you also don't understand what "turns out" means.
- Alpha09
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  I guess your trying to somehow make rape not rape by suggesting some sort of hypothetical situation. If it wasn't consented to from the beginning it's rape. Makes me wonder what your into...
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  That's what i'm talking about. There's no consent at the very beginning but then it turns out she likes it that's why i am asking if that is considered cheating or not.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  So yes it's still counts of rape because there is no consent at the beginning
- Alpha09
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  In that case no I wouldn't say it's cheating since it wasn't wanted to begin with. How is this a question lol.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If you are asking how it a question, i can ask the same thing about your posts. After all we all just want people's perspectives
- Alpha09
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  The difference is this particular one has a no brainier answer. Any other answer would imply lack of sanity.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If that is true then why do you think there are still people who votes yes? That's what i also wanted to see. how many people who are going to vote yes or no. If you think this question is all stupid the nobody is forcing you to be here
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If i'm not one sided, i can see both perspectives and i understand why people can say yes because they enjoyed it and not resist so that will basically mean we just had sex with someone else while on a relationship despite it being rape from the start. But i respect people's opinions unlike you not respecting people's questions.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  *they
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  So example would be if your partner got raped and that rapist got arrested, and he is going to admit saying like "TBH i had better sex than you" despite it was rape from the start. But if you still don't think so then i respect that one that is still your opinion.
- Alpha09
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  If that happened I wouldn't change my mind about it being rape. The rapist can rot in prison or be put down and my "partner" would hopefully be getting some help. Also I'm not currently speaking to the other people who voted, I'm specifically addressing you because from the beginning your explanation was vauge and I wasn't sure where you where trying to go with it. My point about it being a no brainier answer wasn't to say "don't ask" I was trying to see what your answer would be personally. It sounds like you just don't like being questioned.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  There you have it that is your answer and i don't care if you don't change your mind because i respect your opinion. If you think i don't like to be questioned then you questioned me and i gave you an answer. like what i said the reason why i ask is i like to see people's perspective because i can see both side of the story and it's not that hard to understand or so it's a no brainer. But you didn't really question you what my answer to my question personally is if you are really trying to see what my answer to my question is. And it's not that hard to just ask that question directly.
- Alpha09
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  My statement was made. And then I made sense of what I could gather from your run on sentences and vauge responses, what can I say. I had to phrase it a few ways and clarify more than one thing to get any sense of a stance🤷
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  My question was made and so is the description and update for people like you cannot comprehend which actually made sense. So if you really claim that i am vague while you yourself can just freely say it's a no brainer, i can also say the same thing about my update which is a no brainer.
- Alpha09
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  The update wasn't your personal opinion dude... that's what I was talking about. I understand the question, your specific view on wether it was still rape was what I was getting at. Does it make sense now? My personal answer to the question was that it was rape regardless and not cheating. Your question and your personal opinion are two different things. The latter is what I was asking for.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Of course it wasn't a personal opinion but you never asked what my personal opinion is and i would have answer it if you did ask. The update was actually just for people who are confused what the situation really is. Just like how confused you are based on your first answer. It's simple. Also i give you an answer saying it's either also because i can see both side of the story while you are being confused how that is a question. It's not that hard to understand.
- Alpha09
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  First and foremost if you read back when I mentioned this possibly being a fantasy that was me seeing in what context this is. I'm not confused on how this is a question, I'm aware that it is. By "how is this a question" I was saying how are there any other answer options lol. My first answer was nowhere near confusion. I basically just explained that there's no possible way it could be anything but rape therefore, cheating would never even be a factor. I'm getting the sense that your not quite catching what I'm throwing...
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  And you think you weren't really being vague. And as for you calling my question vague, action speaks louder than words before you say you weren't confused. Like what i said before i don't care if you think it's cheating or not that is your opinion. What i'm still talking about is how confused you were with the situation as you called my question vague. Asking how there were any other options? Like how i explained i can see both sides how people can see it's cheating which is still vague according to you.
- Alpha09
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  Clearly you haven't been referring back to past comments so I understand why you would think that, so whatever you say dude😂
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  And you think you have been referring to anything? You know i could also say the same thing though. All i gave were still answers to your questions but now turns out you don't like it since you cannot eat your words really.
douride2 Master
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I can't for the life of me ever see anyone like being raped.
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UnknownGagsUser Guru
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Lol that sick
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- UnknownGagsUser
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  It would be cheating of course and mentality sick too
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Read the update
msc545 Master
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Not exactly, but a matter of great concern.
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jjj101010 Guru
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If she likes it how is it rape? That’s consensual sex
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Girlshe33 Xper 4
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Your question is sick 🤢 reporting right now
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  And your answer is irrelevant. I'm letting the grown ups talk here.
- Girlshe33
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  You figuring asshole how's anyone going to enjoy rape? You fucking bastard
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  This is theoretical because people are different and the world is a big place so it's impossible to say out of all the population, no one actually fantasizes and enjoys being raped. If you don't then you are not the kind if person im talking about. It's simple
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- Girlshe33
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  You are even inciting here to rape. I don't know how they haven't erased your question You should be in jail for this
- Bratsondanielle
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  Oh take a chill pill. It's just for fun. If you get this easily offended go watch cartoons
- Girlshe33
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  @Bratsondanielle another sick bitch
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  For pete's sake this is just a question. A yes or no question. And jeez i wonder why it's not a erased. Maybe it's because G@G is not a snowflake like you
- Bratsondanielle
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  @girlshe33 @aiko_e_lara noone gonna care. It's an innocent question posted for fun. It's just fun. Anyone get super triggered by this should just stay out of it and chill
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  You don't tell me to chill i am not the one who is being a Karen posting a question nor being a Karen over a post. If you think i need to, you should start with yourself for over analyzing things
- Bratsondanielle
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  Ok ok sorry sorry. Chill.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If you still think i'm not chill, you should chill. That just means what i said just hurt your feelings tho
- Bratsondanielle
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  Uhm you do see above... I'm the one on your side lol... chill (I'm chilling currently we're in front of the fireplace with a glass of wine laughing at this site gag)
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Well if you claim so then so am i chilling. So you're not really have to assume really. Can you seriously tell the tone of my voice through text? What are you a psychic? lol (let me just put lol just in case you're going to get triggered thinking i'm mad again)
- Bratsondanielle
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  Lol ok ok never mind
nads1935 Xper 2
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Having been there... oh my god... what a stupid question away grow up
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If it's so stupid why are you even here? It's not that hard to understand what theoretical is. And it doesn't take a genius if you are not stupid
Anonymous
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Go learn the meaning of that word.
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  I really mean what i said. What do you call the act of forcefully sexually harassing someone? That is what i am talking about and theoretically i am asking what if he or she turned out who actually like it. Go learn the meaning of theoretical
- Opinion Owner
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  Accept that you're wrong.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  No one is forcing you to be right tho.
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- Opinion Owner
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  Still you're wrong and do not know what rape means.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Just because you said so yeah? That's not even an argument anymore and that's not how the world works. If I have to argue at your level, i can just say no and magically im right. Smh
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  *I can just say you're wrong and magically I'm right
- Opinion Owner
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  I'm not arguing just stating facts.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Oh ok if you're gonna be like that, I can also say i'm right and it's a fact. Sounds familiar?
- Opinion Owner
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  You could say that yes, still won't erase the fact that you've made a mistake and you're wrong for not seeing it.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  It won't also erase the fact that you're just saying so and does not make you truthful. It won't also erase the fact that you have no argument and facts.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Also you're not seeing it. As i've already explained, you haven't explained anything
- Opinion Owner
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  It has been explained why you are wrong here. However I can't understand it for you.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If you think so then neither are you being right here since you haven't even bothered giving your own reasoning. If you can't understand simple logic, it doesn't take a genius
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  And people who don't give any reasonings are already wrong by default because that's a logical fallacy. Perhaps that's also something you need to learn
- Opinion Owner
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  Perhaps that's something I need to learn indeed. But unlike you, I would have the basic decency to recognize a mistake and take a step back.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  And you see, if you're so ignorant about the situation, there's not much point of you being here now is there? I thought you'd step back. But you say you're not wrong? I can say the same thing. And if it doesn't "remove that fact that im wrong'', it doesn't remove the fact that you're just losing credibility.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  You're still not explaining how i'm wrong. No explanation just means you're not factual by default which is also what you've been dodging. And also you have no reason to hide yourself if you're correct.
- Opinion Owner
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  I'm wrong for what? For advising you to go look up the meaning of the word rape? For not agreeing with your statement because it is unrealistic? Oh ok.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  I can ask you the same thing. Im wrong for what? I already said, if you're not giving any reasonings, you're wrong by default because it's a fallacy to just make claims. Just like your claim "unrealistic"
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Anyways, you're the one who's calling me wrong first so you should prove it first
- Opinion Owner
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  "If your partner got raped but he/she liked it" you're wrong for that. How can it be rape if you enjoy it? That's to show how dense you are that you can't even recognize your own mistakes. But go ahead, I'm wrong for what?
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Then you didn't read the update and my reply to yours which is basically the update which is also your mistake. I still mean what I said and it doesn't take a genius to comprehend that
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If it becomes a consent, technically it would be rape anymore but i'm still talking about the act at first which is considered rape because it's a force. Perhaps you're just deliberately ignoring what i said to give yourself an excuse to be a smart aleck
- Opinion Owner
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  The more you explain the less sense you make.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  It still doesn't take a genius. And the more you claim, the more wrong you are.
- Opinion Owner
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  I'm wrong for what?
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  If you don't like explanations then fine. You're wrong. No explanation but you're wrong and it's a fact
- Opinion Owner
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  I am wrong for what?
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  You're just wrong and it's a fact. You failed to understand simple logic. Im not gonna explain anymore because morons don;t get it
- Opinion Owner
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  You can't explain something you don't comprehend yourself. I never called you names during this conversation so I'd appreciate if you could keep the same energy.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  However I just did. And that's definitely the reason why you just make a bunch of claims without any explanation
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Oh that wasn't a name call. That was a fact. Like how you said im wrong. I'm just gonna argue at your level at this point
- Opinion Owner
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  You're not going to argue because we are done here. You called me moron when I not once called you any negative names. We can have a discussion about our different perspectives sure but the second you disrespect me it is over.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  You mean to say you're done here because you can't eat your words now that you realize how you sound? The classic excuse. I'll just be offended and I'll magically be right like that's how it works
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Since when was that even a perspective? Acting like one but don't wanna be called one. Then there's a simple solution for that. I said no one's forcing you to be right
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  I mean *I can't force you to be right
Anonymous
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Raped = no choice which means they didn't make the decision, meaning didn't cheat.
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Read the update. If it becomes a consent, technically it would be rape anymore but i'm still talking about the act at first