Should I allow my boyfriend to lick vagina? Or it should be done after marriage only?

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I hv denied him of having sex before marriage and he agrees too.. he never asks me about sex.. he just want to do other things.. he truly loves do really care for me.. and he asked me about licking vagina i said yes during chatting... somewhere i was also excited for this thing.. to explore it..(except sex) , but now I m thinking that.. is it right to do that thing before marriage or it should also be done after marriage.. what js right pls suggest me what should i do?

anewme · Accepted Answer

To me its too much of a teaser... i would want it all... or cuddle... wait... my cock would be way too anxious especially after i seen it smelled tasted etc... i rather you have me wait... but overall I rather us be monogamous for a year maybe 2 before even getting married... it seems... sex puts such pressure on the friendship part of the relationship one always gets less.. but all the time or balance it out... i would rather work that out into a fine tune bond after 2 maybe 3 years rather than pressure everything after marriage.. to me seems why so many divorce... hs sweetheart etc... im not sure here... i never married...

Gedaria · Accepted Answer

I can be classed as having sex , but it keeps him interested. It's great fun.. But make sure it's not getting on a slippery slope. It starts as oral or foreplay, it could end in full sex..

rachel776 · Accepted Answer

why would you not want him to? does he want you to suck his dick?

UnknownGagsUser · Accepted Answer

It's ok it just oral sex

PrudentGuy · Answer

Asking this question here shows that you already desires physical intimacy.

So why hold back?

We already pass 2020, a century of open sexual promiscuity. Not that you should follow, but no one makes it a "death penalty" anymore.

But one point is assured, a great intimate relationship consists of sex that makes both feel great.

Final note: be safe and safer. Get tested, use IUDs and remain monogamous. These are good guidelines even for married couples.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Do what you will not later regret having done.

Billlewis · Answer

If you're considering only letting him service you orally, and denying him intercourse, I think you'll find that a very effective way to keep him obsessed with you, and very easy to be married to. This is what my relationships are based on, and I wouldn't change anything about that.

EmmaMary · Answer

Only you know the answer to this.

Dargil · Answer

Looking back, I could have delayed intercourse until marriage if we had a satisfying sexual relationship with mutual oral and 69. I would not hesitate.

helva · Answer

No problem.

bowenw · Answer

It depends on your personal values. If you do other things such as him touching your boobs and vagina, and you have seen each other naked, it is likely not too much of a stretch to let him lick you. If he does this he will likely enjoy it if you suck his penis.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Assuming you want to wait to have sex till after marriage. I will tell you right now, once this happens you’re gonna wanna fuck

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

It's fine doing before marriage

okeydoke · Answer

DO NOT WAIT UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE. I know multiple people who did and they all, all, regret it. Sexual conpatibility is super important in a relationship and a lack thereof can cause problems later.

Twalli · Answer

Oral is usually allowed by people who are waiting for marriage.

Diversity_Hire · Answer

Well, I would let him, but that's me.

Valnac · Answer

Do it as often as you can, you won’t believe how good it feels.

msc545 · Answer

Let him. You will love it.

EaterPeter · Answer

What's your religious belief says. It depends on how do you feel about it. I say you should. Be careful though it might leads to more than just licking.