Would letting my boyfriend to lick me down there and doing other stuff lead him to crave for having sex?

- Yes, absolutely.
You should be able to keep him satisfied with hands and mouth stuff, but I don't see anyone not craving sex after doing that.
But that's no a bad thing. Being horny and in love can be fun as hell.
Just make sure you trust him, he knows where the line is, and he's cool with that.1|00|0Is this still revelant?i want to have penetrative sex only after marriage...
And my boyfriend asks me about these things. And somewhere i am also excited for the same a li'l bit... but rather than this excitement.. i am more concerned about the results this act could lead to... so i am confused dear... he says that he is never gonna force me for having sex before marriage... but can these things make him change his mind?Is he pressuring you into trying oral?
Do you trust him?
I'd be willing to bet he already wants to sleep with you and he's just waiting till you're ready.
So if he's not pressuring you now I think it's safe to assume he's telling the truth that he won't in the future.
- Letting him lick...
Means he already has sex cravings if he wants to lick you down there1|00|0Is this still revelant?I am afraid once he is licking u and you get involved, you might change your mind and then regret later
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He assures me that he is never gonna ask and force me about having sex... he just want these other intimate things... should i allow him or not...
Well licking your pussy is indeed a sexual act and you can by no means mellow it down by calling it intimate
Instead you can go with say just hugs, kisses and stuffI trust him and he assures me that he will never ask for it... but i am confused that whether he would be able to control himself or not?
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635- by licking you down there he is already thinking about sex. a statement like that we are all thinking abut it with him now. but yes once he does he will want and need more. Its like having chef ramsey make you the perfect meal, but only smell it, can't eat it, how long before someone takes a bite anyway.0|00|0
- It totally depends on what he likes. If he loves sex, he is going to crave it when he eats you out. But if he is a guy who dont like sex, he is just going to crave to go down on you all the time. Be careful, guys can easily get addicted to pleasuring pussy 😅0|00|0
- There is no right or wrong answer to this question as people react differently. If you reciprocate and give him a bj or hj after he licks your pussy he may be fully satisfied with that for now. There are other guys that it might make them thirst for more!1|00|0
- If you're not doing something where he actually has an orgasm... yes, a lot. Basically if you set up a scenario where 'only sex leads to orgasm' you're doubling down on his craving for sex.
If you're both getting each other off with hands/mouth, its mixed, on one hand he wants sex a lot, on the other he's getting a fair bit of satisfaction already. I'd say overall it would make it 'easier' and better, but depends how much he's focused on intercourse vs focused on being sexual with you.1|00|0 - It will likely lead to sex. We did oral and didn't do sex til 6 months later. But it almost happened that same night1|00|0
- Um yeah, I think it would get his hormones buzzing and probably give him the idea that he has the Green light to go for it.
What would you expect?0|00|0 - May I ask why you don't want to?
You want to wait until marriage?
Do you think you might be asexual?
Do you actually want to do these things with him, or is it just to keep him with you?0|00|0Yes i want to wait until marriage.. i want to have penetrative sex only after marriage...
And my boyfriend asks me about these things. And somewhere i am also excited for the same a li'l bit... but rather than having pleasure.. i am more concerned about the results this act could lead to... so i am confused dear... he says that he is never gonna force me for having sex before marriage... but can these things make hum change his mind in future?
- As long as you're willing to suck his dick, yes, he's going to want to fuck you but fair is fair. I'm glad he's willing to eat ur pussy but you gotta give something back.0|00|0
- I think if you do that it could be seen as cock teasing. Unless you're doing stuff for him in return.0|00|0
- Agar kuva khudega to pyasa pani ki pyas to bujayega na.
Mean: if you open legs than ofcourse he will crave for sex. Above that if he is licking you than even you won't be able to control.0|00|0But i have to control and i want him to control it also... i have denied him of having sex.. and he agreed too... he says that he will never ask me and force me for hving sex... but he want these other things...
If i let him do.. can thes things change his mind about not having sex... would he be able to control himself?Well can't say about his control. But surely when involved in one act with time there will be urge to have something more.
Also how long you will be able to control. If he is licking you at some point you too will get urge.- Show All Show Less
It's a long period, many things can happen in such a long time.
You don't know what life brings to you.
Just do what your heart says in this, if it says No don't agree for sex, if it say you want it tell Yes.
Keep it as open option without telling your boyfriend. This might make you enjoy in whatever other things you do. (Here licking)
- Not necessarily, he could be very content having oral or other sexual contact without having penetrative sex1|00|0
I want to have penetrative sex only after marriage.. i have denied him of having sex.. and he agreed too... he says that he will never ask me and force me for hving sex... but he want these other things...
If i let him do.. can these things change his mind about not having sex...
Would he be able to control himself after this?I cannot speak to his level of self control. It will be challenged if he is able to give you oral or receive oral from you. But he may or may not be able to handle it. It could be very connecting for the two of you though.
- I think you will even start craving if you're being licked0|00|0
- If he wants to lick you down there , then he is already thinking about sex.
Licking will probably make you feel more aroused.0|00|0 - The craving is already there as its a natural impuls. Giving him a " taste" will only intensify the craving.1|00|0
- Maybe, but I personally enjoy going down and eating a woman more than penetration sex.0|00|0
- I’d say so... unless strict ground rules were laid out before0|00|0
- If you explain that to him, it shouldn’t be a problem.0|00|0
- it is definitely exciting for him and will provoke him to sex but if he really likes you then would understand your sentiment.0|00|0
- Of course! Give him an inch and he'll want to move into your yard!1|00|0
- why haven't you? sex is great! I told my girlfriend's parents when we were going to start0|00|0
- You obviously know the answer... play checkers or whatever instead... till ready... serious...0|00|0
- Of course he'd want it. Otherwise it's like preparing a cake and throwing it into the trash before eating it.0|10|0
- Anonymous3 dIt surely would lead to sex and nudity... as long as he AND you both have self control once you BOTH get highly sexually aroused.
Is it possible?0|00|0 - Unless you have a really bad smell down there, yes0|00|0
- It probably excite him and give him wood, yes.0|00|0
- That will only make him want more.1|00|0
- yeah, that would lead him to wanting to have sex.0|00|0
- If you don't want it. Why lead him on?0|00|0
- Maybe, but it might tempt you too.0|00|0
- Yes once he gets a taste he’s going to want in0|00|0
- It might make YOU
crave for sex0|10|0 - Anonymous4 dI'd say there's a 90% probability that it WOULD0|00|0
- Anonymous4 dYes, it would.0|00|0
- Anonymous4 dYeah definitely0|00|0
- Anonymous4 dYup he would want it more and more1|00|0
- Anonymous4 dYes, it would.1|00|0
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