How can I turn my boyfriend on?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now but we haven't done much more than make out. We're both virgins but I want to start doing more with him that will lead to sex. My first question is: what can I wear/do/say to get him turned on? And my next one is: where do I go from there? (Fingering, BJ's, oral, real sex etc.)
Thank you in advance
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  • OK, two virgins getting intimate. My suggestions (not in particular order):

    1) bring him to a shopping center that has an adult shop. Then "accidentally" pass by and enter it. "Innocently" ask "What's this?". Then buy some condoms and lube.

    2) tell him you have a neck ache. Ask him to massage it. Keep saying "lower" until he has to rub through clothes. Then say "let me remove it".

    After massage wear back. This will create a powerful desire in him for sex. (He will volunteer to massage you the next few days).

    3) go for a swim and of course, wears the most sexy bikini you own. If you don't have one, go buy with him and let him choose.

    4) eventually you or him will start "that talk". Depending on you both, set a date and place.

    If you want the First Time to be more special, suggest to save up for a hotel/resort. Then countdown to that day. Anticipation is great aphrodisiac.

    To conclude, there are many ways to initiate intimacy. Just be creative and stop worrying about whether he'll like it. He will.

    The trick is to bring him to a hard-on, then stop and possibly depart. This will make him think about you until he next masturbated.

    Very soon, he will ask for sex.

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  • He's a virgin, so you've got a man who knows nothing on sex, except some occasional erections. You don't need to be a seductress like the heroine of basic instincts, no matter how ordinarily you perform, he'll regard you like a sexual angel. Looks like he is already turned on, and might be too embarassed to reveal it openly.
    I think you could play a game on him, by seducing him more and more, so he gets more desired on you. Present yourself completely only after he has gone mad over you. Use your natural coquettish tactics (infact all women are natural coquettes). Throw occasional sexual glances, play some turn on games like when you both are together;discussing some non sexual matters, suddenly place your hands inside your top, rub it through your belly, while talking usual to him. He will feel like in porn, heat him up like this and not give easily (wear a completely covered cloth at these times, men likes to build expectations, instead if you choose to wear a bikini and then you hardly have anything to open up)
    Watch Basic Instinct for some tips.

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  • I think you should just go with the flow when you get turned on and there is some tension. He's your boyfriend, after all. Don't do something ridiculous like taking him to a sex shop: He'll get the weirdest ideas about you if you do that instead of just letting it happen naturally. From making out to doing more there's only one step if everyone's willing

  • Lingerie is a good start and some dry humping. Then try fingering and BJ's. Strip for him and do some dirty dancing. Slow stuff by a fireplace is fun. Mix in some dirty board games or card games. Play truth or dare with each other. Go for a nature walk and make out under a tree. Throw in some whipped cream and strawberries when you play around. Mutual mastur... is good too in front of each other. Play around in the shower. Chair sex with someone tied up is fun too.

  • Take off your clothes.

  • Put on some lingerie, do roleplay

  • If it's cold there, go on a sleigh ride and bring a blanket for your laps. Explore from there. (It worked for me when I was 16!)
    What can I wear? lol What can you remove might be more helpful in warming him up - share body heat with long hugs under that blanket.
    Whisper in his ear - verrry sloooooolwy - while working your hand up his thigh- - - - - - - - "I want you in - side me. "

  • I get horny when a girl compliments me

    • In short, I never get horny.

    • The question asker if you don’t agree to what she says she deletes your post

  • Knee high socks.
    Go lingerie shopping!

  • It depends was into but I would say for the typical guy put on a schoolgirl outfit and bend over and then spray yourself with the hose or something I just enough to kind of wet your self-insure specially

  • A top that shows your cleavage, wear a short skirt not too short and wear no underwear and pretend to bend over to pick something up and he will see your bum and knickers but do it subtly so its like by accident, same with the cleavage, show it but not too much popping out.

    Just enough to get his engine running

  • Make out and use your hand to feel for his cock outside of his pants. See how he reacts, if he likes it and you're ready to take it to the next level give him a bj or take his hand and guide it to your pussy while making out.
    Whichever way it goes it's a good way to transition towards intercourse.
    Practice safe sex and remember to have adequate amount of lubrication before letting him penetrate you for the first time. I think it's best for a virgin girl to get on top so she can control the depth and speed as it's usually uncomfortable or painful the first time.(Painful mainly cause most guys are so caught up in the moment that they just jam it in and try to pound away even though it's her first time.)

  • What are his fantasies?

    • I don't know

    • Maybe start out by asking him

    • Ok maybe I'll try that

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  • Let him finger you.

  • Massage his prostate.

  • Orals exam

  • we males are always turned on.
    you have to do nothing special, just give him a signal.

  • Touch his penis

  • i bet he had to talk to you first or ask you out first.

  • Like a thong and bra, you first get down and suck his dick.

  • Lick his ass xD

  • Rub his groin area with your knees.

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