Is it normal my parents spanked me?

[emma1886]

when my parents spanked me they always pulled down my pants and underwear. is that common?

[Citizenkirk]

Why would it matter if it's common? Your parents aren't concerned with the discipline of every kid on Earth, just you, because you are the only child (unless he you have siblings you neglected too mention in your be question. Then your the only children) they are tasked with the responsibility of administering corrective action for. Since this is a family matter, and not a community awareness matter, there is no relevance too normal behavior amongst total strangers like myself, since I'm not your parent, and if you're asking if this is normal behavior for your parents, than too that, the correct answer should be--"HOW IN FRIGGIN 🌎🌍 SHOULD WE KNOW!!!😒🙄🙃
If you have concerns about this type of behavior modification being appropriate for a healthy family environment, than if there is nothing going on that is hurting you emotionally or physically, than yes. It's normal, and your parents do this because they live you enough too discourage you from doing stupid, self destructive things.
If there is something harmful happening too you, talk too a school counselor, or call Department of Social Services, Child Protection Investigation Division ASAP.

[N192K001]

Back in the Philippines, physical-discipline is the traditional method of enforcing order with a misbehaving child. But parents removing lower-garments (incl. underwear) for spanking isn't the predominant norm. In fact, I only heard of such a thing when I got here in the U. S. Until then, I thought all parents who spank just grabbed a belt or stick and smacked the misbehaving child in the rear with no regard to the child's clothing. Realizing otherwise was a shock to me.

The age for spanking is generally the younger years. As the children grow older, their maturity & conduct is expected to rise together with their age, so such disciplinary-measures are supposed to disappear over the years.

That aid, what age

[Bee-Hatch]

Spanking isn't necessarily right. But at your age pants down is very humiliating. And could be seen as a form of abuse in a lot of countries

[emma1886]

abuse? really?

[Bee-Hatch]

Depends on the society. But if your lower half is fully naked as I believe you're describing then yeah. That's not seen as appropriate in certain places

[Red_Arrow]

Asker stated in another reply that it was up to age 8.

[Agape93]

Yeah that’s pretty normal. Spanking through pants doesn’t exactly have the same impact, so to speak.

[Agape93]

Also welcome to G@G

[emma1886]

yeah it hurts more on our bare bum

[Agape93]

Yeap, that’s the point. Pain is a good teacher.

[emma1886]

yeah, it made me behave but i was so embarrassed my bum was showing

[Agape93]

Eh you’ll live. At least you didn’t have to cut your own switch lol I remember that being a thing some folks did back when I was growing up.

[emma1886]

whats a switch?

[Agape93]

It’s generally a stick one uses to beat a child

[Novacane]

No, that is very weird, my parents would spank me with all my clothes on, they would even advise me to put in more clothes cause it was going to hurt

[ohshee]

Hey be happy it was a spanking I had pull my pants down and get hit 8 to 12 times with a belt

[Newhead]

Very weird.

[raven6933]

This question is very vague. Spanking through clothes does not have the same effect. Then again what exactly are you doing to have this done at 16? If this was going on when you were younger, why have you not learned to not keep doing stuff maybe cause said effect?

[AndyOh]

I got spanked too, except it did not matter what i was wearing, the wooden spoon knows no boundaries! It hurt.
As far as what happened to you, it is common.

[0112358]

I think it’s uncommon among white Canadians outside of certain areas. It’s common in some other places or some other groups.

[emma1886]

is it good parenting?

[0112358]

I would suggest it’s rarely necessary or ideal but perhaps in some cases it’s the best option. Most people use it because “that’s how they were raised”. I’d certainly suggest other approaches first.

[emma1886]

i was really really embarrased because my privates were showing

[Bananaman177]

Do your parents have a patreon?

[mike5150]

My parents used a belt

[bowenw]

Mine did up until I was about 5 years old.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

no is not normal and they juld end in jail for such a actions. You have kids protection organization. Is ilegal to beat childrens

[chriscdi]

lol.

[Danny_dan92]

When you were how old?

[bulletson]

yeah? That’s when it hurts the most

[NorthwestRider]

a lot parents do and my fiancée spanks me as well lol

[Lottifan]

It is fairly common. My father often used to pull down my trousers and underwear to.

[Wiredone]

My parents did it to me too when I did something wrong. I also got hit with my dad's belt and a big wooden spoon. Obviously that was a long time ago. It's not ok to do it now, it's considered child abuse now. How old were you the last time you got spanked?

[emma1886]

i was 8. it really made my bum hurt

[Wiredone]

Yes it does hurt. Did you learn your lesson?

[Gedaria]

A little ott, is it your dad that does it..
My oldest daughter I use to smack her on her ass, when she was naughty. But she never cried just smiled
Later on she actually admitted she enjoyed it , she was naughty knowing I would spank her.
But taking your panties off , I would find it was pleasurable for the one doing the spanking.

[Dsg1193]

You were clearly naughty

[Daniel3035]

Depends on your country usa yes uk no.
It's normal even some 20+ year olds get spanked.

[Meldrum]

For many, it was the norm. It's not a sexual thing, it was to be more to the point, punishment taken to extremes.