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Is masturbating every night normal?

I haven't had sex with anyone before but I do masturbate. I just kinda like touch my clit and stuff I tried fingering but it freaking hurts so much. Now im just kinda like addicted to touching my clit. I do it every night i think? I badly wanted to have sex with someone but i don't have a boyfriend yet. I don't want a random hookup from someone too. I feel like my sex drive is really high but i feel frustrated since i don't have anyone to have sex with. I also like the idea of having kinks like being tied but I don't know if my future partner would like that tho. Is masturbating for a girl almost every night normal? If not what should i do?
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I kinda feel weird and embarrassed for having such high sex drive. My family doesn't even know about this. I couldn't ask anyone from my fam since they aren't really open when it comes to masturbating.
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  • There’s no harm in this, just do what makes you feel good and don’t rush into having sex with someone, the right person will come along that will make you happy and satisfy you. Try using sex toys too, I have some and am a single guy, when I feel like it I will use them, depending on how I feel I will use a dildo or vibrator or even a sex doll that I can enter or a silicone vagina. I still get turned on even though I’m in my 30s. Just do what makes you feel comfortable. Also if you try sex toys you can get discreet orders in plain packaging with no reference on it.

  • You sound perfectly normal.

    Have you had an orgasm, yet?

    Most girls like to rub their clitoris in a circular pattern until they orgasm. It's actually like a mini-penis, glans, foreskin (hood), and all. The only differences are that you don't pee through it, it's tinier, yet it has more nerve endings than the penis. You can actually also rub it up and down, rolling your foreskin back & forth until you orgasm. That is much more intense.

    Do your best to wait until marriage for sex. It will be very special, that way.

    • Tbh I don't know if i ever had an orgasm before

    • Okay. Then you haven't yet had one, yet. Try and build a rhythm as you play with your clitoris. Relax and enjoy. You'll have no doubt after it happens.

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  • Yes that’s perfectly normal for a lot of us. Enjoy!

    • And don’t feel embarrassed about something so natural and normal. Just enjoy.

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  • You shouldn't feel weird about it, your high sex drive is totally normal at your age and masturbating your clitoris is too

    And it's good for you health - and sexual health - to orgasm so frequently !

  • Yes, it's perfectly normal and nothing to be ashamed of

  • Absolutely rubbing yourself to orgasm each night is normal. No big deal. If you are pleasing yourself enjoy it and dont feel shame for it.

    The only reason why self masturbation would be bad is if you are doing it so much that it interferes with your job or important activities. Otherwise... have sex with your and cum hard for humanity. okay?

  • LOL No but who is normal. what is normal. nothing says it is un normal either. there is no standard or book to go by, So if thats what you like then its normal for you. If i like it every hour then thats normal to me, Just makes people mad when they can't get in the bathroom. LOL kidding. i hide in the closet.

  • If it's not conflicting in your daily life or becoming an unhealthy habit, it should be fine.

  • yep dont stress it

  • Maybe you should try sex cam.

    Golden rule: never show your face.

    Other rules:
    *Do not give up real information (not a ven your real age)
    *Do not use clothe someone would easily relate to you.
    *Be aware of what areas of your room you're focusing your camera.

  • Yep, quite normal. Most people do it daily or more than once a day.

  • Once a day is perfectly fine and normal. Continue touching yourself if it makes you feel good. Just don't rush out and have sex with a stranger. You will end up regretting it. Save it for someone who you really care about

  • If it makes you feel good then go for it.

  • It's normal and healthy.

    • Lol, your family define your sex drive. You define it. And you do not need to share with them if you aren't comfortable, that's why platforms like this exist. And don't worry, everyone goes through this guilt phase in their life

  • Keep doing what you are doing... it’s better than wasting your first on one night deal.
    It’s normal, changing it up maybe, but enjoy it

  • Yes especially at your age. What you are experiencing is hormones. You are horny all the time.
    It’s natural, every girl goes through this. It woun’t last forever.
    Your best option is to masturbate as much as you need to. It’s safer than going out and fucking some stranger.

  • No its not its healthy you have a very high sex drive and your not depriving yourself sexual release, I love and honor the fact your are patient to wait until you find the right person. because of your unresolved commitment to finding that right partner. I know you will find him in time.

    • Dont feel embarrased. its healty that you have a high drive. it indicates you are wired perfectly. many families are very shy have the sex talk with their children. At least i got the talk from my mom. You will be find. I have a very high sex drive. iMasturbate very regular and won't you believe im a virgin and i dont get tempted into lustful thinking and pornorgraphy as a result of such

  • Totaly normal

  • This is normal and most guys if not all guy would value your virginity. They see that as a prize because of the fact that it is the tightest thatg

    • You will be. You are a prize and when guys know about your virginity that will chase you like mad dogs... just when guys get older they dont value it as much as they are more focused on life and not just sex... as you get older your libido will slow down

    • Why feel weird when it is completely normal?

  • I do it every day so it’s fine especially if you like it

  • Sure. Not hurting anyone. Go for it.

  • Yes it’s pretty normal and healthy

  • I masturbate at a minimum of at least once a day. Sometimes I go up to 3 or 4 times. Having a high sex drive isn't a bad thing even though it can seem that way. Just find a partner with a similar sex drive and go at it like rabbits

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