- I wonder who's the person who thumbs down Opinions that suggest mutual approval?
If its the Asker then I think you agenda for asking a question like this is not right.
Sometimes I equate sexual relationships to business relationships.
On the outset, some "agreement" may appear single-sided from an outsider point of view. (Example the Sales making more money than the developer who did all the complicated work.)
But hey, its between them. If they agree, who are we to say its bad?
Hence my Opinion is anal is perfectly ok and respectable as long as both agrees and enjoys it.
(Hope I don't get a down vote for this answer.)0|20|1Is this still revelant?@Shuttlebus78 i think my Opinion is objective hence don't deserve a down vote.
Hence the person doing it is the Asker. His agenda is thus to voice his disapproval on anal sex.
Come on Asker, don't be a chicken. Show your courage to stand by what you think is right, openly.
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- well for sure if you dont get asked to or ask them. that would be shitty0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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725- Anything is disrespectful if it is forced on your partner. If it is done by mutual consent, how is it disrespectful?1|10|1
- Not if you have the approval from her. Even normal sex would be disrespecting if she hasn't said yes.1|10|2
It’s disrespectful because you’d rather stick your dick someplace that she shits and won’t get as much pleasure in it. Her brothers need to find the guy and beat the shit out of him.
- Doing it even if she didn't want it would be, and incredibly wrong.
If she likes it and is asking for it, then it is not.1|10|1Someone actually thumbed you down for saying it’s wrong to force someone into sex. Wow.
- Personally, I dont get the attraction to anal period. Thats just me tho? 🤷🏻♂️
To answer your question, as long as she consents I guess its cool?0|20|0 - Yes. The only women who like are gross. A lot of guys will swear up and down how much women like it. The vast majority do not. Mainly only pornstars and women who are loose like one.0|10|2
- Not at all. My girlfriend and I both wanted to try anal. It was a choice. She loves it.0|10|2
- So, when two gay men have anal sex, they're disrespecting women? Makes sense.0|00|2
- No at least not to me anyway. Great way to avoid getting her pregnant0|00|3
- Not if she likes it but it depends on the female I'm sure not all of them like it in the butt hole always should ask though1|00|0
- Anonymous3 dNo more than anything else. It just depends on how it's done. Anal sex can be very intimate and passionate or raw and nasty. Totally depends on how it's done, and how my girlfriend wants it at any given time.0|00|1
- Mmm yes but not if your surprise rape her ass then its ok.0|10|1
Rape is never okay. You’re full of shit. In another thread you were talking about how much you like it. You’re a pick me sort of drag.
@Shuttlebus78 Do you realize women are biologically programmed to have rape fantasies, which is extremely common for women?
Throughout the ages, women who were raped passed their genes to their offspring. Those genes of experiencing rape is distributed throughout the wider population and so most women like rape which is why they like aggressive guys.- Show All Show Less
@Shuttlebus78 Emotionally, women are devastated after rape, which is why it's wrong and not to mention the myriad health effects it brings.
But sexually speaking, women like rape. It's an extremely common fantasy.@Shuttlebus78 People start insulting when they lack an argument.
You can call me a pig, I think you're a mule because you're stubborn.@Shuttlebus78 What difference does it make if a woman likes anal or has rape fantasies? What harm does that do?
There are people with weird habits. Are they immoral?@cnhinton I don’t believe in pretending to rape women. I don’t believe in taking advantage of women who are so messed up they think it’s okay. I don’t do anal because only women who fuck like porn stars like it. I don’t want a dirty porn star, I have a lady. yes I do pity those who think it’s okay to be rape or rape.
I insult because you deserve to be insulted for taking advantage of women who have been abused. You deserve to be insulted because you are too dumb to see the consequences of indulging in rape fantasies with unstable women. You’re an idiot.
@Shuttlebus78 Oh brother.
If you like vanilla sex, that's fine.
But most people, even women, like variety.
Again, anal sex and role play is harmless as long as it's consensual.
Do you realize people have always been extremely sexual and rough in sex?
BDSM, spanking hitting slapping and even origins predates modern pornography?
Pornography existed during Ancient Rome.
Tiberius had an entire collection of porn.@Shuttlebus78 I am very kind to women and treat them nice.
I have never harmed any person I dated,
But I am just letting you know, most sane women like it rough.
They weren't molested as kids or abused like you say.@Shuttlebus78 I'm sorry that it upsets you that Victorian morality is declining and Roman ethics is making a come back.
@cnhinton yeah I don't know a single woman who didn't like or at least want to try this stuff at all. he's just some cuck white knighting and jerking off. Its how he gers turned on.
@cnhinton you’re also stupid for thinking women like being raped. That sounds like you’re a rapist trying to justify it. Hell if you indulge unstable women in rape fantasies you may even legally be called one some day. Very stupid.
@cnhinton I like all kinds of sex. If you think because I don’t like sticking my dick in someone’s shit hole instead of their vagina, then that makes you a loser. My girlfriend and I do stuff we both like. Most women who have had anal said they did it because men like you pressured them into it or suggested it. Legally it is stupid to get involved in role play that can send you to prison. You’re stupid.
@Shuttlebus78 I guess the majority of women are abused victims.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/@cnhinton they probably are because men like you say it’s okay. by the way everyone on gag hates you now and strongly disagree w it h you. Lol haha! Rapist.
@Shuttlebus78 I don't care if they disagree with me. I'm not a sucker for Idiocracy.
I have other links I can provide.@Shuttlebus78 And I strongly doubt you have sex with your girlfriend.
I bet you can't even get it up and are morbidly obese.@cnhinton whatever you say. She and I can’t get enough of eachother. We are both healthy and fit. Bye
- No she may wint u ti think so but UT ain't.
God Bless0|00|1 - If she is interested no I don't think so1|10|1
- Only without her consent.0|10|2
@Shuttlebus78 Many women like anal and double penetration. So how is it disrespectful?
What if your wife asked for anal one night? Would you deny her that because you say it's disrespectful?@Shuttlebus78 Bonobos and chimpanzees do anal.
It doesn't harm anyone unless done excessively.- Show All Show Less
We only do what each other likes. No a lot of women outside of porn hate it. I’m a professor- I teach human sexuality.‘I also know a great deal about the porn industry and how the industry effects sexual trends.
Double penetration is very very dangerous unless you’re built like a used up porn star. Start attracting better women.
@Shuttlebus78 sexuality evolves.
You're a professor and still to Victorian ethics?
Bahahahaha.
Hopefully you're smart enough to realize most mores around sexuality is culturally constructed.
Many societies around the world shun Victorian ethics.@Shuttlebus78 My ethics regarding sex relies on the harm principle.
If it doesn't hurt anyone and parties consent, then there is no problem.@Shuttlebus78 Rape harms because it is shown to negatively impact women.
Same for child abuse and bestiality.
Consent is the main thing needed to make sex enjoyable for everyone.
Not manufactured or coerced consent, but consent where both parties really want it.@Shuttlebus78 That's why we have laws against rape, child abuse and bestiality (except red states)
@Shuttlebus78 And there are women who actually agree to be raped by their partners at unsuspecting times,
And there are women who consent to being raped by their partners at unsuspecting times.
Everyone is different with different wants and needs.
So stop comparing humans to unevolved monkeys. I had to write a report about sexuality in animals and how it compares to human sexuality.
Part of it was going to the zoo and watching how animals interact with one another. Monkeys will literally fuck anything that moves. Humans have evolved enough they know how to discriminate and understand those around them. Oh also- oversexed animals like rabbits don’t even do anal. Attract better quality women. Don’t even get me started with all the bad things anal says about women who like it. Even a lot of gay guys don’t like anal.Exact out it evolves. So just because monkeys do it doesn’t mean humans have to. There’s also coercion that often goes along with straight anal.
Well some pornstars are very attractive. Hell some serial killers were attractive. There is also a link to childhood trauma and anal sex. Sexual trauma. It doesn’t have to be rape either. It can be simple over sexualization of children earlier than 13.
@Shuttlebus78 Sodomy laws are stupid because its consensual. Your morality is illogical. 2 men agreeing to screw one another harms nobody. Sodomy laws were repealed in the US in early 2000s.
See I don’t fault gay men because that’s the only way they can have sex. I’m talking about straight guys.
Pick better women. Or maybe you don’t because you’re trash yourself.Yep and women who like being raped should be pitied not enabled. What kind of piece of shit takes advantage of someone like that?
@Shuttlebus78 Rape fantasies are common.
You sound repressed. You might need a girl.
Of if you're asexual, it shouldn't much should it?@Shuttlebus78 Sex does not have to be interwined with romance.
Romance is wonderful and I value the family as essential to society, but couples messing around is what makes each other happy.
Adultery is higher in red states than blue states@Shuttlebus78 I once saw my mom having her hair pulled by my dad during sex, when they thought I was asleep.
I wasn't disturbed by it, I honestly thought they were playing.
But they hurried their clothes on and said it's time for bed once they saw me.
I didn't think much of it, but as I became more educated in life, I realized they were having sex.
My point is society reinforces what's bad and good. Couples who love each other can do whatever floats their boat. It's not disgusting. It's natural.
@Shuttlebus78 Now, if you're referring to porn where they exploit women and men for money, that is sort of wrong and I think the exploitation aspect is immoral
@Shuttlebus78 Hopefully, you realize most women don't reveal those thoughts. Women expect guys to figure it out.
- No lot of women love it. And a lot don't0|20|2
- Anonymous3 dOnly when she doesn't ask for it.0|10|1
- Only of you dont ask first...0|10|2
- It's not disrespecting if she loves anal sex.1|10|0
- no.
but you can't force her to do.1|00|2 - What?
No.
How?0|00|2Because you’d rather stick your nasty dick into her shithole while she’s bent over. You’d rather hurt her than give her pleasure. Most good ladies don’t like it.
Nope sorry. I’m a professor os human sexuality and I also know a lot about porn and what causes trends in society. Anal sex is more popular because of the emergence of the gay community. Their main objective is to get you to start questioning your sexuality. That includes pegging and normal anal.
However, there is much confusion about it because straight women (80%) hate anal and choose not to do it after trying it. I almost think it’s funny when guys try to say what women like too. About 10 years ago a lot of guys thought women could cum just based on vaginal penetration. Nothing could be further from the truth though. Start attracting better women.- Show All Show Less
Oh I see you’re gay. See I don’t see gay anal the same as that’s the only way they can have actual sex. I’m talking more men and women.
@Shuttlebus78
Uh. I’m bisexual, but thanks for the objectification, homophobia, and prudeness.
The only reason I ever had anal in the first place is because I had. FEMALE partner into it.
You clearly have a complex about saving women from other men.No you’re gay. You like dudes you’re gay. You also seem to have loose morals too. That doesn’t have anything to do with being gay though.
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I have a hard time believing a homophobic bigot is a professor of human sexuality.@cnhinton was common in Rome. Rape was as well. I don’t stand for either. Romana were also gay for the most part too.
If I were against
Homosexuality I don’t think I would consider it acceptable for them to have anal either. But that’s okay. Just keep telling yourself I’m not.He stayed up all night trolling me and looking for past answers I gave just to harass me. He's clearly on welfare and I bet he supports the very party that hates welfare.
He doesn't realize sexual mores are cultural artifacts.
If he was truly a professor of sexuality, he would support the harm principle.
- Anonymous2 dYes it is.0|20|1
- Anonymous3 dNo, Why would it be1|00|2
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