How long does the average man last in bed?

[UnknownGagsUser]

[hellionthesagereborn]

Statistically the average time for penetrative sex is seven minutes. For me, that depends entirely on the situation. It could be seven minutes (a quicky, just to get "it" down, so to speak. Also certain positions, her lying on her stomach and me behind for some reason caused me to last a very short time. Meanwhile missionary I could last quite some time (wasn't as stimulating I guess)), in one case it was over an hour (she was very engaged and that actually, and quite suprising to me, made me last longer (I would have thought the opposite)).

However if we are talking about sex over all i. e. with foreplay and such, then I don't really know. I once played with my ex's nipples (sucking teasing etc.) for nearly two hours (almost got her to orgasm from it but couldn't quite get her over the edge), then oral sex which for her could last damn near forever (I got friction burns on my tongue. She had what she called "wandering clitoris syndrome" some times the spot would be the spot, until it was not. Other times it would be quick and easy (but not as often)). So all in all could be a couple hours if we count all of that, but I would say in general, twenty minutes to 45 minutes or so (though again, I am not sure because I was not timing myself).

[Hotboy_booblover]

If I m too excited it takes less than a minute.. or else average 5 to 10 minutes.. anything longer takes conscious effort.. not very enjoyable if it lasts too long and if pussy lubrication reduces the skin hurts

[Hotboy_booblover]

Thanks for MHO😘

[DizzyDesii]

I've only been with 2 guys in terms of sex/oral. I've only jerked off two other guys aside from those 2. I've had phone sex with a lot of exes. I had cam sex with only my longest term ex. If we were basing it off of all those mixed together... They last around 15 mins lol. Longest one to hold out went all day. But the majority couldnt go longer than 20 mins. Shortest came in 2 mins lol

[CurlyGirl42]

Ask google, not guys not guys on the internet xD

[UnknownGagsUser]

Yes thank you 😂

[S5ARR0W]

5 minutes is understandable. Otherwise I don't think we would be able to survive as a species with the environment we lived years ago. Now it's not sex, it is having pleasure.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Wow that's the average? That is way less than I would guess.

[6RareBit9]

That's just 60 men there's porn stars who can give a better understanding of that lol

[CurlyGirl42]

@6RareBit9 No, it is like 500 hundred, and pornstars are obviously not like the average man when it comes to for example endurance and penis size

[6RareBit9]

I looks like it says 60 and I don't belive minutes is all men can do lol but pathetic 🤪

[CurlyGirl42]

Ah 500 men in the survey, and like 150 around 5 min. Believe it or not. I doubt you have been with 500 men in order to tell the average yourself xD

[AlienParasite]

In my experience with ex and my boyfriend, sex would last between 20 minutes and 1h. That's counting everything. Penetrative sex probably lasted between 10 and 20 minutes.

That's my experience. I don't know if it's average or not.

[TheLittleBuggy]

My boyfriend usually lasts around 20-40 minutes
There are OCCASIONAL times it's been over an hour, but so for HIM I'd say an average of 30, 40 max.

Which works well for me. Up to 40 seems good, by then usually I've already hit my climax a few times, but any longer mostly just starts to hurt and make you sore

[Daniela1982]

Half can't even clear their shorts before they fire their round.

Oh God! That was fast!!

[Madladd]

😋😋😋😋

[Rixon]

@daniela1982: Come on this is just brute insult lol

[bklynbadboy1]

@Daniela1982 That was down right mean 😂

[Daniela1982]

@Rixon :)

[Daniela1982]

@bklynbadboy1 Wooo hoooo

[SystemOfTheMachine]

You're right. I saw Selena and nearly lost it. 😂😂

[bklynbadboy1]

@Daniela1982 Your to much

[Madladd]

Honestly never been a fan of salena but in this gif, she looks like a cute happy Chihuahua lol

[katiesmuff]

For each guy it is a variable depending on each situation. They can last anywhere from say 5 min to maybe an hour depending on how they are doing the deed.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'm still going strong after 50 years!

[OlderAndWiser]

"How long does the average man last in bed?" You asked an ambiguous question. "Last" means start timing when and stop timing when? Start from the time a guy gets an erection? From the time she starts touching him? From the time he penetrates her? From the time she says, "Okay, I'm in the mood tonight?" You asked an ambiguous question, got answers that you didn't expect, and immediately accused guys of lying. I think you owe others an apology for your knee-jerk reaction, and I am not lol!

[Daniela1982]

The time starts when you pop that Viagra pill and ends when you drag yourself out of bed to your walker. J/K

[OlderAndWiser]

@Daniela1982 I have never taken viagra or anything similar. I don't use a walker, wheelchair, cane or any other device for assistance with ambulation and as recently as yesterday, hiked about 5 miles on a nature trail. You must have me confused with some old guy.

[Daniela1982]

Like I said, J/K - just kidding. :(

[MCheetah]

The "average" man? 20 minutes, at the most.

[Hangry22]

The smallest i have heard was 20 secs
The largest i have heard was 50 mins
The most common i have heard was 15-20 mins

[aieeazumui]

How has your experience been?

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui never had one

[aieeazumui]

So much self control. Wow. Celibacy for life?

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui Well i am not a sexually frustrated virgin. But i am a volcel for life😌

[aieeazumui]

Volcel for life means?

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui Voluntary celibate

[aieeazumui]

Okay whatever be the reason. I just asked celibate for life?

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui ya i ama volcel. Are you asking why?

[aieeazumui]

Ya yea

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui Combined with my commitment phobia and coitophobia, it's not easy to lose it. I am not sexually frustrated and don't really care for virginity. I find the act of sex disgusting and gross🙃

[aieeazumui]

What's coitophobia? And yeah many people have commitment phobia. But being a female am sure you already have lot of offers and available options to choose from without taking any risk or doing any effort. I do agree sexual activities are gross and even nude bodies are creepy & gross in general unless you are in love with someone , then sex is more comforting and makes the relationship more stronger. You obviously won't be sexually frustrated at this age since you are really young and at this age no one feels lonely and sexually frustrated

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui coitophobia is fear of sex. The only offers i have are from players because i am hard to get🙄 All the good guys are behind sluts. I don't need those closet sub anyways Anyway sex requires a deep, emotional connection for me and i can only do it with one person

[aieeazumui]

What type of guys are _ players" and what type are " good guys"? You are okay and willing to be sexually connected by only one person, which means you're ok and would like sexual activities in a long term relationship with your husband?

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui Players are the bad boy fuckbois. The leader of their gang. Always surrounded by a group of guys or girls Good guys are cute with glasses , nerds, quiet and reserved☺️. Some are hot too Ya i mean obviously who wouldn't have sex with their spouse?

[aieeazumui]

A leader of a gang , strong and loud kind of a man isn't " nice"? 🤔 Guys with glasses are always nice? Lol So basically you prefer the shy, silent / quiet type of guys... but wouldn't they lack the courage to pursue and ask a girl? Wouldn't he be termed as a follower and not a manly leader, an alpha man?

[aieeazumui]

You expect and are absolutely ok and even want regular sex with a spouse/husband?

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui i mean those player guys are guys who flirt with every single girl and are fuckbois. I don't want such a man slut And no. Guys without glasses are good too. And not they aren't the shy ones. They are actually smart with looks. So even they have girls cheering for them😒 Anyway it's not about options. I just don't date anyone-players or nice guys. I don't want any guy

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui if i am with a guy, obviously i love him. When my heart is in love, my body will obviously follow duh

[aieeazumui]

Means you are open to getting married at some point later in life and even ok having sex with him?

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui Ya if it's the right guy but that's an impossible scenario because i am way too much to handle

[aieeazumui]

Way too much to handle...🤔 In what way? Just wondering

[Hangry22]

@aieeazumui lots of issues. I am technically a broken person. That's all you need to know

[aieeazumui]

Oh okay @Hangry22

[lilyanony1]

Honestly my ex and I would have marathon sessions. When we were happy, and relaxed rested etc.
During busy stressful working periods it was quickies. 10 yo 30 mins maybe. Depending if he went for round two. But it was dependant on him

[CometoMee]

Like 15 minutes

[ohshee]

It depends on so many things like if your making love then anywhere from 1 hour to 3 hrs and if you just doing a quickly. One to 2 to hrs now all the above is if the guys is making it about her,,

Then there's the guys who are only thinking about themselves then it's from 3 . Min. To 3 1/2 min

[ohshee]

I like your last comment. But like I said it depends on everything else that's going on but like I always say you have to experience it to under stand it

[rachel776]

haha sometimes too long and sometimes 30 seconds

[KatherineJ]

@rachel776 yep, sometimes it’s like will he just cum and get off of me!

[Worldstream]

@KatherineJ really? I am a virgin i have no idea how long i could last

[KatherineJ]

@Worldstream you’ll find out eventually

[godfatherfan]

If I ever lasted more then 3 to 5 minutes, any woman I was with would start to ask "is there something wrong?". So all these 15 min people are full of shit. sure it can last longer at times, but do you want it to last longer then that? Of course that is when I have already taken care of her orally.

[Apple1996]

Less then 10 mintues

[scarlett774]

30 seconds

[malik_yashvardhan]

My condolences to you.

[scarlett774]

Twas a joke

[sleeplessinskyrim]

I'd say 15-30 minutes

[pierre7i]

Do you mean for penetrative sexual lovemaking @sleeplessinskyrim? How about with foreplay beforehand?

[AndyOh]

Anywhere from 30 seconds to 45 minutes or longer.
Average is about 5 minutes though.
The long ones are when I am feeling good, my vitamins are kicking in, the Viagra is working wonders, my partner is turning me on, the moon is Full, Jupiter is in conjunction with Saturn, Mars and Venus are visible, the Stock market is up, there is Peace on Earth, and Good Will Toward Men!

[pierre7i]

After nicely prolonged foreplay with s girl, during which she will hopefully orgasm, around 8-10 or perhaps 12 mins of penetrative sex would be the norm for me.. and often the sexual excitement carrying over from foreplay, together with pleasurable p-v lovemaking, crescendoes in that time to bring her to a 2nd orgasm.

[Darcia]

2 hours straight I’ve experienced

[eljor723]

Wow that’s a long time how you feel after?

[imjustadude]

Were you able to walk the next day?

[Darcia]

No I stayed in all day in bed.

[Rixon]

Usually 5 to 10 minutes

[Sevenpointfive]

i last until she does. only once has a girl ridden me to climax before she did herself