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Would you have a sexless relationship?

I think in a lot of relationships now, having sex is like a given. Would you date a person who you know is a virgin and is choosing to remain one until marriage?
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  • Yes of course if i wanted to date that person to begin with. Been married for 30. Great marriage. Last couple years its been tough for us as we have had a lot of changes in our lifes. Health, kids grown, family passed away, grandkids moved away , cancer, etc. So for last couple years we have bonded more ways then you could imagine. So sex hasn't been a issue for either of us. Been there, done that, but to have a relationship that continues to grow every day for you both and its a growth from connecting on all levels. from reverse roles after 30 years, she now manages bills, and outside issues from the home., I cook , clean, care for our home. we both stay home, we both have our alone time. we enjoy time together, we both are learning new things, then we learn from the other on what they learned, the support is great, the love is strong. Sex has its place, and its good when its good, but when you get to a certain point you just dont see it being the number one thing you share together anymore. Instead its 2 people being themselves and allowing the other to share it. As for 28 years we were like one. Hard to explain. But its more important to us to have time to talk then to dim the lights to " Lets get it on" . Song. I get on here and joke but questions like this i try and keep it real. and yes times i answer just as real when i say im in the mood. but takes two in the mood and right now the alignment of the mood isn't whats best for us. Hope that makes sense. so if i could date without it i would, make it stronger. Ill end with she has been a perfect wife 30 years and i wish i could take her health issues from her. I can't so ill just stay on this path as its what i have and she is my everything.

    • Thank you for such a beautiful response. I hope to have a marriage and partnership like you and your wife one day. It sounds like a very strong relationship with a deep rooted foundation of love, faith and support., thank you again,

Most Helpful Guy

  • I have zero interest in being in a sexless relationship. I'd much rather be single. Being in a sexless relationship is like a starving person being forced to work in a kitchen, but not being allowed to eat anything: it's just torturous. If I can't eat, I'd rather be far away from the food, so I don't have to think about it every second of the day...

Most Helpful Girl

  • I would find that very difficult so I doubt I would date that person.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I will because i'm a virgin and i want to be untill i get married.

  • Not now or ever. Sexual compatibility isn't automatic. I would be wondering about her libido. Waiting does not appeal to most people. If it's for some religious reason then b we aren't compatible.

  • no, i will not accept.

  • nothing before marriage, "bye felicia".

  • Hell no!

  • Yes of course

  • No hell no.!! I just don't see the point.

  • It would be difficult, but I believe it would be worth it if she was just right for me. I’d want to at least adopt, though.

    • It would be until marriage lol

    • You know those people who want to wait until marriage..

    • Ohhh... lol ^_^; I’ve heard “sexless relationships” having both meanings.

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  • If it were my decision hell no in my case right now it is not my decision still still haven't had sex in 16 years it's actually God's decision I couldn't get a girl sleep with me unless I drugged her and that's if I'm really desperate

  • Relationship without sex is friendship

  • Never! Such a numb minded person is not going to survive in today's world!

  • Not once I knew

  • Definitely yes, i did before.

  • Until marriage yes

  • If I really loved her, then sure.

  • Yeah but she gotta at least blow me

  • No I respect the right to wait but no if in a months time we are having regular and frequent orgasims together I'm going to go find some one that will ⁹

  • I had many of sexless relationships, all good

  • Yes I would. Actually when I started dating I never thought about having sex. Personality was more important to me and there was always masturbation.

  • YES I CAN WAIT FOR THE GIRL.

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