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Am I wrong for being like this?

I don’t wear bras at home and I don’t put them on even when we have visitors. When my brother’s best friend comes to our house, I never have a bra on. I’m just wearing huge shirts which my nipples always kind of pebble through. I have small boobs so i always think I can get away with it, but there are a couple of times that I’ve caught him staring. I don’t really care if he looks or not, I don’t really get embarrassed by stuff like this. But is this considered inappropriate behavior?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think as long as its not toally obvious and the shirt color isn't light its okay. I live with my parents and hardly wear a bra but wear big hoodies or dark shirts and its not obvious and im in my room all day and by the time i do come out is to go outside and i have my sports bra on so yeah and i dont sleep with a bra. I think you're fine as long as its not really obvious now if you continuously get unwanted attention with visitors get a comfortable lounge bra thats what i do lol

    • Thanks for such a thoughtful response and suggestion!

  • nah, it's your house. you're just being comfy in it. it's not like you're actually showing him them or anything.. i think itd only be inappropriate if someone asked you not to do thag while they were arounf but you didn't listen (even though it shouldn't be an issue)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Some people will think so. Even in your own home, when visitors are there some people think you need to dress a certain way. But I disagree. It is your house - do what you are comfortable with. What you described can even be worn outside. Many will think it wrong, but you are covered. Too many people always have their undies in a bundle!

    • Thank you for such a thoughtful response ☺️☺️

  • Not at all. Bras aren't exactly the best for your boobs (especially if you have small ones), and when you are at home, you do whatever you want - it is your home.

    And if staring doesn't bother you, then even better. It is not inappropriate that you don't want to cage things up without a good reason.

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  • By our societies moral compass, yeah you are a little inappropriate.
    However, I know woman who have not worn bras in 40 years. I have no idea what their boobs look like. I do know that they are always wearing baggy shirts.

  • Would need you to swing by my house and let me see to know for sure.

    • Lol😂

  • Could be seen as your teasing him but if thats not your intention and u are just comftble that way then meh

    • I hope he doesn’t think I’m teasing him 😳

    • If he stairs he probably does

  • You don't have to wear a bra ever. Is you don't like wearing one them just don't.

  • I think that if you're in your own home, you should wear whatever you feel comfortable in. Tye visitor might think it's attractive, but so can women be who are wearing bras. So it's up to him to control himself

    • True!!! And he is a perfect gentleman in every way, I’ve never felt uncomfortable around him. Thank you for your response

  • Nah, it's fine tbh.

  • If you have to ask then yes.

  • Even if you cover yourself with huge blanket even then he will see as if you are naked🙄

  • I would call in inappropriate but it is a bit suggestive.

    • Correction. I wouldn't call it inappropriate but it is a bit suggestive.

  • If you caught someone staring they're not small

  • My view is your house and your rules so dont stress about it. It might surprise or catch a guys eyes if your nipples are visible but as long as they are respectful it's not a major issue.

  • I don't see a problem.

  • No its your home just as much as his. we all need to comfortable at home.

  • Not all. Be comfortable it’s your home!

  • Lucky friends

  • Oh. Hello. I consider myself a respectable young man in public but when I'm home, I love and welcome all the possibilities of being naked every chance I get.

    So do your think my friend. I paint nothing to be embarrassed about

    • Aw thanks so much ! ☺️☺️

    • So do your thing my friend. There is nothing to be embarrassed about Go naked when you want too. Woo-hoo Your welcome my friend

  • No. That's totally fine. Forcing women to wear bras because we *might* see a tad bid of nipple while men can run around completely shirtless is sexist.

  • Normal at home

  • It's completely okay baby

  • I think it hot

    • It’s not wrong at all

    • I don’t think it’s wrong either😅

    • Good you shouldn’t

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