Guys- would you be weirded out if a girl wanted to keep her shirt on during sex?

If a girl wanted to keep her shirt/dress on during sex, or turn off the lights, would that be weird? I’m a little chubby so I’m kind of insecure. Or would you rather a girl just is completely naked even though she’s chubby? Do guys care a lot about what a girls body looks like during sex? I wish I wasn’t insecure about my stomach but I am lol
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  • If a guy agrees to be intimate with you it is because he does not really care about the looks.

    Guys are like animals and as long as they can get intimate, they don't mind if a girl is chubby or not, whether she is good looking or less. What is important to them is to be able to get into her pants.

    However, there is absolutely nothing wrong by turning the lights off and by keeping clothing on during intimacy. You would certainly not be the first one to do that. If a guy cannot understand that, he is the wrong one for you anyway.

    • thank you love ❤️

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  • I could see it if her boobs looked like this, but I'm sure that the way guys love boobs even that they wouldn't want covered.

    Guys- would you be weirded out if a girl wanted to keep her shirt on during sex?Guys- would you be weirded out if a girl wanted to keep her shirt on during sex?

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  • Its silly.
    Shirt or no shirt we can already see your body shape. Its not some big secret that gets revealed when you strip down. So if a guy is in bed with you it means he wants you to begin with. Taking your shirt off won't change that.

    If you aren't ready to be naked thats fine. But that means you aren't mentally ready to have an intimate relationship.

    I would have trouble bonding with a girl who didn't trust me enough to get naked.

  • If I'm dating a girl who is a little chubby, I'm WELL AWARE that she's a little chubby, so it's hardly going to be a surprise when her shirt comes off. And if I'm dating her, I obviously don't care that she's a little chubby.

    However, as a "breast man", you'd better believe I'd have her shirt off. Not taking off her shirt would be a deal-breaker for me, though some men would probably be fine with it.

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  • I don't care if she has a shirt on or not. I would prefer both of us to be naked, I do not care if she is chubby... we are having sex after all and that is the important thing.

  • If a man is already willing to have sex with you, it should be obvious that he is fine with what you look like.

    A man who has an issue with a woman being chubby (such as me) simply wouldn't date such a woman in the first place, much less have sex with her.

  • I like chubby girls so I prefer the girls shirt is off

  • Would find it vary annoying yes if I was having sex with her I would already know she was chubby and it wouldn't be a issue because I have decided to have sex

    • thank u

  • It's a difficult one. Off course I'd rather see the person and body I'm having sex with. But if you're more comfortable with a shirt on or lights off, that's your choice. Maybe you should try to be more confident. If a guy wants to have sex with you, then he's obviously attracted to you. So then I don't think you should be feeling uncomfortable with him

    • you seem like such a sweet person, thanks for your answer!

  • I wouldn't be weirded out but I would at least like to see, touch, and lick the boobs. You can probably find a top that can be pulled down to expose your boobs while covering your tummy.

  • i wouldn't be weirded out. i'd be offended xD

    • lol why? it has nothing to do with u, it’s just cuz a girl is insecure about herself

    • well you think guys are super confident? you could not like what they have. they still got naket for you. not returning that favor seems like an insult to me :P

  • No but not every time

    • So, like every other time. Once the light is on but the clothes are off and the other time, the clothes are on but the lights off, right?

    • @SueShe i’m celibate I’m just saying I wouldn’t mind But not every time

  • I wouldn’t be weirded out, but I’d definitely be curious why. If it’s was due to feeling insecure I’d agree as I try to help her with that.

  • Very weird and it would be off putting for you to wear a shirt.

  • If I'm having sex with her I already know she's chubby but that didn't stop me from wanting to be with her. I'd want her to be completely naked. I would make her comfortable with her body since I already will be.

  • I wouldn't say weird it out but I would be concerned I would prefer be completely naked with my girl while having sex but socks may be the only exception cuz it keeps her feet warm

  • Yeah I would find that kinda weird

  • I think it's cute.

  • Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Will be curious as to why and will ask. 9 times out of 10 we already have an idea of your shape.

  • No, not at all actually many times I asked that from women, I like clothed sex a lot and it is very hot and exciting.

  • Highly creepy and deal breaker.

  • I'd had situations like that, when we start i let her keep it on, once she's overly horney i take her everything off.

  • Is it normal to keep wearing a bra during? Asking for a friend