Incest molestations in family? Shall I cut off?

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My 2 sister have molested my younger brothers when they were kids. These sisters are 1-2 years difference between. Were all adults now 21,22,23(me) and my brothers are teenagers. This hits home because when I was 11 a teacher perved on me but I reported it to dad. It didn't affect as a teen he kept working there but it came to haunt me when I became an adult and it can to them? Growing up and visiting my family I've noticed my brothers 13,15,17 and 19 adored me. We argue but 5 sec later we share our secrets/troubles with each other and laugh a lot. I've noticed none of my other 2 sisters have a relationship with my brothers and my 15 yr old has an intense hate for them. 17,19 point blank speaks to them like strangers and 19yr doesn't talk to them. I feel terrible about this information because all my brothers I took care of them as if they were my own children. I can't help thinking the times when some of them would crawl into my bed for a cuddle when I was a teen was maybe because of this fucked up shit none of them told me. Im there favourite sister one even says (19) that school became shit after I left. Im sick and angry and frankly I'm not suprised im the only sibling who has a relationship with these two. The 19 yr old one says its at back of his psyche when he speaks to 22yr one. Its highly hypocritical that 22yr even went on a rant to my 15yr old when he was 11 about feminism and men are trash of course I defended him. He and 13 yr old even told me im one of the reasons he thinks "wamen" are not so terrible. My mum even called when I was away that this one threatened to stab my 15 yr old. The 21yr is a pathological liar and manipulative my brothers dislike her less but the 13 and 15 yr old have "pedo" memories of her only. I always was confused why she would call THEM pedo when they would see my 2yr old sister having a shower or toilet. I would tell her fuk of with that sexist shit with no idea she was pushing her past to them.
What shall I do?

Yes, cut off your sisters (explain why pls)

No, its not a big deal (explain why pls)

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Answer 1

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Your sisters deserve to be cut off, but realize this. Its quite possible they were molested by somebody else, because that's how molestation works. It can stay in families for many generations.

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Thing is, I protected my 22 yr old sis from perv teacher. When she admitted to mum she said "its not my fault i watched porn" "for allah's sake, im coming clean of this". The 21 yr old is manipulative and somehow convinces people she's not that bad and has never exposed herself. We live in a society, both my culture and west, were males can't talk of this and sisters feminazi ways uses as protection. Making me angry because she knows she's "safe". I can't take that as an excuse anon I had horrible experiences and watched porn but NONE of that past made me take it out on innoccent kids? I just took it out on myself.
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Her saying "I was young" is unacceptable we have a less than 1 year gap between us, she thinks she's innocent. Zero accountability at all for why they all hate her as for other one they all think she's an airhead. Im close to both but have the worst relationship with them in comparison. I want my brothers to know I don't support this and want them to know what they told me in confidence matters and will never be ok, they know how im like I've been always protective of them and got in fights as kids defending them despite how reserved I am. This rubs me the wrong way and I dont want to make it seem like its ok like my parents have.
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Talk to your brothers in private and let them know how much you care.

Answer 2

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Thing is, I protected my 22 yr old sis from perv teacher. When she admitted to mum she said "its not my fault i watched porn" "for allah's sake, im coming clean of this". The 21 yr old is manipulative and somehow convinces people she's not that bad and has never exposed herself. We live in a society, both my culture and west, were males can't talk of this and sisters feminazi ways uses as protection. Making me angry because she knows she's "safe". I can't take that as an excuse anon I had horrible experiences and watched porn but NONE of that past made me take it out on innoccent kids? I just took it out on myself.

Answer 3

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Her saying "I was young" is unacceptable we have a less than 1 year gap between us, she thinks she's innocent. Zero accountability at all for why they all hate her as for other one they all think she's an airhead. Im close to both but have the worst relationship with them in comparison. I want my brothers to know I don't support this and want them to know what they told me in confidence matters and will never be ok, they know how im like I've been always protective of them and got in fights as kids defending them despite how reserved I am. This rubs me the wrong way and I dont want to make it seem like its ok like my parents have.

Answer 4

Opinion Owner

Talk to your brothers in private and let them know how much you care.

Answer 5

Avicenna | 5.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Yeah, but that sordid stuff also needs a police investigation

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Iron_Man | 10.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Take it to professional family counseling

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