How do you feel and what you do when you started to like your friend with benefits?

would you stop having sex with her? would you try to be distance?
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  • explain to her that your feelings for her traveled through your sexy organs and went straight to your heart. you dont know what that means, but want to tell her anyways because you hope that you aren't the only one feelings this way.

    if that doesn't work, pack your bags and move across the country

Most Helpful Guys

  • Depending on my state of mind at the time, id either just cut contact without even telling her (yes i know, its a consequence of struggling to connect with emotions in myself or other people)

    Or id tell her im catching feelings

    • if you cut contact, what would you do if she reached you out?

    • Again depending on my state of mind. If im really struggling as aforementioned my defence mechanisim kicks in and they are for all intense and purposes dead to me. I dont even acknowledge them I actively try to not let that happen though. Its the main reason im in counselling/therapy

    • means she has no chance to talk to you?

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  • I’d probably try and fight off the feelings for a while

    • and does it work to not fall in love?

    • Sometimes. Other times no

    • what did you do when it you failed to fight the feeling? stopped seeing her?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I would confess my feelings to her and stop doing sex as a friends with benefits

  • Tell him and decide what to do

  • it has happened

    • what did you do when you started to like him?

    • we ended up together

    • how come?

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  • Time to end it.