How can I initiate sex with my boyfriend?

I know this may be a stupid question but I‘m sooo happy to see him tonight and I really want to sleep with him lol. We‘ve had sex many times but he‘s usually the one initiating and I‘m a bit shy and I feel awkward and like I‘m annoying him maybe when I do it. How can I make it less awkward for me?
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  • "see him tonight" inside or outside a house?

    Inside should be easy. Do whatever you want, just make sure the end result is lights on clothes off. He will follow through to sex.

    Outside is a little more tricky.

    But you can always prepare him with a less awkward message like "I'm choosing my clothes now, any preference?"

    Then if he doesn't mention, lead him "what color bra?" "What color panty?"

    Of course, if he replies skin or none, you've got him. But whatever the case, he knows you're initiating.

    Finally make sure you have a dinner together. And if he still so "blurr" (ya, some guys are really that slow), tell him you need to go to the ladies. And return telling him you soiled your panty and no choice but to wash and keep it in your handbag. The rest should be history.

    Wish you a great night! Have great fun!

Most Helpful Guy

  • Keep things playful and light. Laugh and joke with him. Then sorta cuddle and sit next to him. Slowly you can either start massaging his biceps (if he is built), or just take his hand in palm and sorta play with it. You can then make him lie on his back, and lie on top of him and give him slow kisses. Keep joking and keep laughing. Play with his nose, ears, hairs. Make funny faces with his cheeks. Take your time. No need to rush (although I don't know if he would be able to keep up with this slow teasing).

    Overall, have fun. After all, he is your boyfriend.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I normally initiate it by holding him tight and starting kissing him. He will get it and kissing me back, and on and on and on, engine start 😎

  • Whisper in his ear "I want you to fuck me". Should get the result you want.

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  • By coming out off your shell more and being yourself

  • Maybe you should walk around half-naked or mostly naked and say you want to have some fun tonight don't make a big pizzazz about it just be blunt

  • He shouldn't be annoyed if you ask for sex

  • Ease into cuddling and making out. Make it clear that u want him physically and start touching him in special places if you need to. He should get the hint

  • Be a sexual tease.