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Guys, how would you react if your male friend wanted to share his girlfriend with you?

By share I mean have a MFM (two straight guys/no bi action) threesome together. If it is a one night thing or something that happens every now and then a difference maker?
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One or two have been confused so I should clarify that I am the boyfriend. My girlfriend and I have spoken and we are into experinenting with a 3rd guy or girl. Right now we have my friend in mind so I am wondering how you as that 3rd person would best react to it assuming you are attracted to her / us.
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Just to clarify it is my girlfriend and our friend and I who I'm trying to set up for a threesome.
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  • So basically the girlfriend is bored of him and is very attracted to you but doesn't want to break the story with him so they decided to go for a threesome? I don't know, this scenario seems a bit risky because if they have problems in the couple, if it was me I wouldn't like to be part of their problems, I prefer they face their things together and I don't want their situation to carry. The question is why is she requesting his boyfriend to call you? And how much is he ok with that? If he doesn't feel humiliated by that, neither jealous, then ok, but you have to be sure of that...
    But still the fact she sent him to call you sounds weird to me, like if something is not working in their relationship. I mean, watch out to not be a trigger to make their relationship explode and so to destroy the friendship with him and be accused of something, just because they can't manage by themselves.

    Unless you're implying that your friend is "offering" you the girlfriend's body by HIS initiative and not even counting if she is attracted to you or not. That would be very, very, very creepy. As if he "owns" her body and she has no decisional power. If I was a male I would feel repulsed by that and to be doing something abusive, I mean I would never take part in a relationship which has already abusive dynamics inside.

    • You have it confused. I am the boyfriend. I am asking guys this because I'm wondering how my friend would react and how the best way to make a threesome happen and in a healthy way. I just am ok with my girlfriend playing with other guys as long as there is no emotional attachment. I was the one who suggested it to my girlfriend and she said there is only one she would fuck. It is this guy who I dont see very often but is a trustworthy friend of mine. I would prefer a threesome but she thinks that it guys usually dont want that and that it would be easier for her to fuck him one on one in my house while I listen. But still we are not sure how to even go about making that happen.

    • We have been hanging out a lot recently. He even came to stay for like 5 days in a row

    • I thought there was maybe the tiniest bit of sexual tension but maybe I'm just imagining it.

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    If all you're looking for is a guy, you can find one easy on that swinger site. You won't usually be able to find girls there, but you can find some couples and tons of guys. But you really have to pay for a couple of months in order to make it work.

    • she doesn't want to do it with someone random. I also like the idea of being friends with the person in a way because it allows us to all chill together have a nice time and then at the end of the night have some fun. This question is asking more about how a guy would best prefer to have a threesome with their friend and his girlfriend. How best to be introduced to the idea and how receptive people in general would be to that. . I was the one who suggested it to my girlfriend and she said there is only one she would fuck. It is this guy who I dont see very often due to living location but we are nearby for the next few weeks so this should happen soon. He is trustworthy enough friend of mine. I would prefer a threesome but she thinks that it guys usually dont want that and that it would be easier for her to fuck him one on one in my house while I listen. But still we are not sure how to even go about making that happen.

    • Oh, OK. I gotcha. I'm a firm believer that talking is overrated in some things in life, and this is one of them. I wouldn't tell him anything. If your girlfriend is really sure about this, invite him over for pizza and drinks. At some point have your girlfriend sit on the floor in front of you while you're on the couch. Give her a shoulder massage. Then after a bit, say, "Tony, I need you to take over, I need to go to the bathroom." And have your girlfriend onboard with this plan. If he's nervous about taking over, then have your girlfriend say: "Well, Tony, I'm waiting." He'll do it. Take you time and when you get back, don't take over for Tony. Instead, you start massing her feet. Later tell her to lie down on the carpet so you both can give her a proper massage. Just keep this going up and up, and you'll be there in no time.

    • Have you done this before?

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  • Oddly there are two diametrically-opposed considerations.

    If its a 'once an done' invitation, YOU. ve become an animate 'sex toy'
    if you can pragmatically accept this emotionally, SO BE IT.
    SOMETIMES 'getting yours' is pruriently, salaciously vicariously watching them, 'getting their's"

    OR, if to become an 'every now and then' "friends with benefits" arrangement
    ALL must become comfortable with growing understanding of each's preferences
    and forsake the "Me for myself and the Devil takes the hindmost" mindset.
    While EACH is responsible for THEIR OWN reaching climax,
    the 'party' ain't over, until its OVER for ALL participants.

    As Larry the Cable Guy sez: "Get 'er done!"

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  • Depends on the friend but I’m likely open to that

  • I'm married so it would have to be a foursome. If I was single and she was hot then why not as long as they were strong in their relationship. Otherwise it could cause problems

  • A trusted friend that she likes and sorta flirty with.
    Invite for a weekend of movies and drinking. Pick some racy movies and get buzzed, she flirts with him, play cards and strip poker is mentioned or truth or dare... go to the bathroom and she flirts more openly... there's lots of options...

    • Strip poker is a bit forward is it not? What if she isn't that good at assertively flirting?

    • I appreciate these ideas. This is kind of what we have been trying. I was trying to think of some racy films to put on. We have been hanging out a lot and drinking together a lot.

    • Good luck and tell us how things work out

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  • As long as I thought your girl was cute I'd ask when and where, I'll be there.

  • That would depend on what type of woman she is.

    • What do you mean?

    • What her character is like on the inside.

    • would you be ok with explaining in depth? No worries if not

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  • Since you're about 18-24 I would say go for it but there will be some complications if the girl likes you better

    • I am the boyfriend and I am asking the best way to approach the 3rd person and in this case a guy. The relationship is 5 years old and solid we just want to have fun.

    • I would still say go for it but keep both parties safe and be safe about it

    • Would you have sex with your friends girlfriend with your friend in a threesome?

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  • I think it would be great and can be a lot of fun depending on how far you want to go. Maybe a bit of dp or just swapping around and giving her lots of pleasure? Either way would be epic fun.

    • How can you go further than DP and swapping around to give her lots of pleasure? Curious

    • I was asking how far you wanted to go. Some men don't like dp because you get so close to another guy and some women aren't into anal. So sometimes a mmf in my experience has just been a lot of messing around and taking turns. And then another was straight into hardcore dp and then she asked for double anal but we couldn't fit.

    • Oh I understand. My girlfriend likes anal but she said she thinks DP might break her lmao. As much as I do want to do it to her.

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  • I would consider it if I was single

  • Did once with two friends in college, no MM action just two guys with one girl. It was almost like we all just thought it sounded cool to give it a try... sure not a porn plot 😀

    • How was the experience? I am considering it

    • It was good, we had a blast. The funny thing is we’ve never told anyone about it lol

    • That's the kind of thing I'm looking for lmao

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  • Be flattered but no thanks. That would definitely cause friction between us.

  • Id be up for it

    • What would be the most comfortable way for you to be approached about?

  • I’d beat his ass and take his woman. What he deserves.

  • threesomes are fun

    • What are the difficulties in picking the other guy?

    • he has to be willing, and not afraid

    • This guy is our friend. Do you think we should just ask him directly or be more sneaky/ have my girlfriend be seductive?

  • I tried this and it ruined my friendship with the guy. He was a colleague and we had some kinda trust between us.
    My wife thought he was cute so afterwards, my wife started to confide in this guy.
    And she slipped out and went behind my back to go to bed with him.

    So things exploded and even after years, she had a relapse a couple of years back and started messaging him again and i caught her in time before something happened. She's got childhood issues that's being treated professionally.

    The moral of the story is, if you end up doing it with a friend, there's no way to be sure that they won't get together behind your back.

  • I've done it. If you're going to do it, I suggest a stranger for the first time just so it doesn't ruin a friendship. After that, if you invite a friend, youd better be sure you can trust them.

    • We already tried it with a semi stranger. Someone who was more like an acquaintance but lives in another country and came to visit. I was not there however. I only got some videos but never of them fucking and got her to tell me the details. It was fine and we enjoyed it however she got infatuated with him and said to me that she doesn't know how she feels about me and him anymore. Anyway I told her she had to cut him off otherwise we were finished. She did, then said she realized that it was infatuation and she doesn't love him. So I think that in this case it will be easier to avoid that because she knows the friend for like 5 years now and she thinks she would fuck him but she knows his personality already and knows she doesn't find him emotionally attractive.

    • Yes the only thing that worries me about this guy is the trust thing. I trust him more than my average friend but its not 100% yet.

  • His girl-maybe-if there is no male contact. Spitroast her

    • It is my girl and my friend who she knows well

  • I'd go and fuck his girlfriend, Fuck as hard as I can with some Hard spanking and slapping, If she sucks my dick I'll force it down her throat and make sure i cum in her mouth.

    • Sounds good.. I wish you were my friend so you could do that to her. Would you be opposed to having a threesome with him? Like nothing between the guys but just like she sucks both of your and my dick and then we take turns with her. How would you feel about that?

    • Id prefer 1 dick in puaay and one in mouth and swap from there.

    • Oh yeah that's very hot. What would be your preferred way to be introduced to the idea? Like how would you want to be told by the friend previously? How would you want it to happen etc.

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  • I've done that before, on both sides too

    • Nice, would you be ok to talk about it with me?

  • Haven't done that but I have shared my girlfriend before

    • How was it? I have a lot of questions

    • Was good I enjoy seeing her get pleased

    • How did you pick the person?

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  • I would love it, we would have so much fun

    • How would be the best and most natural way to suggest it to my friend?

    • Maybe yo could ask him if he has ever spoken with his girlfriend about having a threesome and if he would prefer to do it with someone unknown or with a trusted friend

    • I am the guy with the girlfriend and I want to share her with him or someone else.

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