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By share I mean have a MFM (two straight guys/no bi action) threesome together. If it is a one night thing or something that happens every now and then a difference maker?
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One or two have been confused so I should clarify that I am the boyfriend. My girlfriend and I have spoken and we are into experinenting with a 3rd guy or girl. Right now we have my friend in mind so I am wondering how you as that 3rd person would best react to it assuming you are attracted to her / us.
2 d
Just to clarify it is my girlfriend and our friend and I who I'm trying to set up for a threesome.
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321But still the fact she sent him to call you sounds weird to me, like if something is not working in their relationship. I mean, watch out to not be a trigger to make their relationship explode and so to destroy the friendship with him and be accused of something, just because they can't manage by themselves.
Unless you're implying that your friend is "offering" you the girlfriend's body by HIS initiative and not even counting if she is attracted to you or not. That would be very, very, very creepy. As if he "owns" her body and she has no decisional power. If I was a male I would feel repulsed by that and to be doing something abusive, I mean I would never take part in a relationship which has already abusive dynamics inside.
You have it confused. I am the boyfriend. I am asking guys this because I'm wondering how my friend would react and how the best way to make a threesome happen and in a healthy way. I just am ok with my girlfriend playing with other guys as long as there is no emotional attachment. I was the one who suggested it to my girlfriend and she said there is only one she would fuck. It is this guy who I dont see very often but is a trustworthy friend of mine. I would prefer a threesome but she thinks that it guys usually dont want that and that it would be easier for her to fuck him one on one in my house while I listen. But still we are not sure how to even go about making that happen.
We have been hanging out a lot recently. He even came to stay for like 5 days in a row
I thought there was maybe the tiniest bit of sexual tension but maybe I'm just imagining it.
If its a 'once an done' invitation, YOU. ve become an animate 'sex toy'
if you can pragmatically accept this emotionally, SO BE IT.
SOMETIMES 'getting yours' is pruriently, salaciously vicariously watching them, 'getting their's"
OR, if to become an 'every now and then' "friends with benefits" arrangement
ALL must become comfortable with growing understanding of each's preferences
and forsake the "Me for myself and the Devil takes the hindmost" mindset.
While EACH is responsible for THEIR OWN reaching climax,
the 'party' ain't over, until its OVER for ALL participants.
As Larry the Cable Guy sez: "Get 'er done!"
If all you're looking for is a guy, you can find one easy on that swinger site. You won't usually be able to find girls there, but you can find some couples and tons of guys. But you really have to pay for a couple of months in order to make it work.
she doesn't want to do it with someone random. I also like the idea of being friends with the person in a way because it allows us to all chill together have a nice time and then at the end of the night have some fun. This question is asking more about how a guy would best prefer to have a threesome with their friend and his girlfriend. How best to be introduced to the idea and how receptive people in general would be to that.
. I was the one who suggested it to my girlfriend and she said there is only one she would fuck. It is this guy who I dont see very often due to living location but we are nearby for the next few weeks so this should happen soon. He is trustworthy enough friend of mine. I would prefer a threesome but she thinks that it guys usually dont want that and that it would be easier for her to fuck him one on one in my house while I listen. But still we are not sure how to even go about making that happen.
Oh, OK. I gotcha. I'm a firm believer that talking is overrated in some things in life, and this is one of them. I wouldn't tell him anything. If your girlfriend is really sure about this, invite him over for pizza and drinks. At some point have your girlfriend sit on the floor in front of you while you're on the couch. Give her a shoulder massage. Then after a bit, say, "Tony, I need you to take over, I need to go to the bathroom." And have your girlfriend onboard with this plan. If he's nervous about taking over, then have your girlfriend say: "Well, Tony, I'm waiting." He'll do it.
Take you time and when you get back, don't take over for Tony. Instead, you start massing her feet. Later tell her to lie down on the carpet so you both can give her a proper massage.
Just keep this going up and up, and you'll be there in no time.
Have you done this before?
@Andres77 I followed you, can we direct message about this?
Damn, this is a really really good idea actually. Extremely helpful. Not heard anyone say anything like this one before. Its creative and casual. I am stressed about saying anything directly because it can go wrong. I would rather ease thing in naturally as you proposed.
@Andres77
No, but this question has been asked many times on here and other sites, so I took the time to put some thought into it. I think baby steps is the answer to a lot of things in life.
They say that the journey of 1000 miles begins with one footstep. So don't think about the 1000 mile journey, just focus on the first footstep.
Now if your girlfriend didn't want this, then I don't know what you could do. But she is, so this shouldn't be all that hard to make happen.
However, when she lies down on the carpet, Where would that imply my friend to massage?
Also I do not understand this bit
'Just keep this going up and up, and you'll be there in no time.' what does this mean more specifically?
you're the best, I wish you'd let me follow you because you are very wise but i understand.
OK. So keep in mind that your girl is totally onboard with this, and she's fully aware of the plan. So just let your friend start massaging her legs, and then you take the arms and shoulders.
Then stop and say: "Sally, this would be much easier if you took off your jeans and shirt. You can leave your panties and bra on. Then without hesitation, she'd do it. (I'm picturing her lying face down)
Then you ask Tony, don't you love Sally's ass? He'll say something positive. Then say: "Tony, feel how nice her ass is. She loves to have it massaged."
Once Tony does this, and hears no complaints from you or your girlfriend, he'll get really relaxed with what's happening.
Then at some point tell Sally to flip over on her back. Than ask Tony if he likes her boobs.
That's what I mean. Do you think Tony isn't going to follow your lead? LOL
Oh yeah, I understand much better now. I guess the only tricky bit is being brave enough to tell her to take off her clothes.
Yeah she's all on board, the only thing is she seems to think it would be better to do it one on one. With me listening. she thinks it's less risky because we won't know if he will be into an MFM.
Are you willing to do it that way?
If that is the only thing that can happen then yes I would very much be up for it. This is really where my dilemma is though, should I risk going for the threesome, should I just go for her and him on one one.
But how would you setup the one on one?
I sleep close enough that i would be able to hear it. Another option would be for us to both sneak down to where he sleeps. She would probably have to get into his bed wake him up.
We also thought about playing some games just to get used to things and make sure we are ok with what we are going to do. My girlfriend and I have thought my girlfriend should strip in front of him while he sleeps.
My girlfriend just insists that it's more realistic that they fuck 1 on 1 and I'm not sure why.
Well, I talked to a girl on the Internet, who told me she tried to arrange her own gangbang on Craigslist, back when it was OK to do that. She said not one guy would do it, but they all said they would fuck her one on one. So maybe your girlfriend is right about that one on one thing. But if this is your friend, I don't see how he'll do it without your blessings. You're going to have to work that one out.
Yeah she (my girlfriend) said something similar as you did about the blessing thing. My girlfriend said the biggest problem is convincing him that it's actually ok to go through with it. This is because she gets the feeling that he is genuinely a good friend and won't do anything without some persuading
I am 23 she is 22 and my friend is 22 by the way
My wife thought he was cute so afterwards, my wife started to confide in this guy.
And she slipped out and went behind my back to go to bed with him.
So things exploded and even after years, she had a relapse a couple of years back and started messaging him again and i caught her in time before something happened. She's got childhood issues that's being treated professionally.
The moral of the story is, if you end up doing it with a friend, there's no way to be sure that they won't get together behind your back.
Invite for a weekend of movies and drinking. Pick some racy movies and get buzzed, she flirts with him, play cards and strip poker is mentioned or truth or dare... go to the bathroom and she flirts more openly... there's lots of options...
Strip poker is a bit forward is it not? What if she isn't that good at assertively flirting?
I appreciate these ideas. This is kind of what we have been trying. I was trying to think of some racy films to put on. We have been hanging out a lot and drinking together a lot.
Good luck and tell us how things work out
If you're buzzed it won't seem like it's forward. It can be written off as drunk flirtatious behavior that she can act all embarrassed about later on.
How can you go further than DP and swapping around to give her lots of pleasure? Curious
I was asking how far you wanted to go. Some men don't like dp because you get so close to another guy and some women aren't into anal. So sometimes a mmf in my experience has just been a lot of messing around and taking turns. And then another was straight into hardcore dp and then she asked for double anal but we couldn't fit.
Oh I understand. My girlfriend likes anal but she said she thinks DP might break her lmao. As much as I do want to do it to her.
How is it best to go about those taking turns ones more? What are some good positions?
Do you mean good positions for dp? Or in general. It's best not to plan to much and just let the fun happen and see where it goes.
How was the experience? I am considering it
It was good, we had a blast. The funny thing is we’ve never told anyone about it lol
That's the kind of thing I'm looking for lmao
How was it initiated? How did it happen?
Funny enough it started with a simple conversion. 🤷🏼♂️
How simple? Hearing successes is very helpful to making it real because I am close. What did you speak about?
The three of us was watching a movie and chilling... the topic who would cum first came up and it turned into a challenge. Next thing you know...
Damn thats very simple. I dunno if im that ballsy to directly ask that because it would make it seem very obvious. I really want it to happen naturally
I am the boyfriend and I am asking the best way to approach the 3rd person and in this case a guy. The relationship is 5 years old and solid we just want to have fun.
I would still say go for it but keep both parties safe and be safe about it
Would you have sex with your friends girlfriend with your friend in a threesome?
Personally I wouldn't do it that's just not my thing not into that kind of stuff
Sounds good.. I wish you were my friend so you could do that to her. Would you be opposed to having a threesome with him? Like nothing between the guys but just like she sucks both of your and my dick and then we take turns with her. How would you feel about that?
Id prefer 1 dick in puaay and one in mouth and swap from there.
Oh yeah that's very hot. What would be your preferred way to be introduced to the idea? Like how would you want to be told by the friend previously? How would you want it to happen etc.
Bro is your name in real life greg? If it is fuck your friends girl
It is my girl and my friend who she knows well
How was it? I have a lot of questions
Was good I enjoy seeing her get pleased
How did you pick the person?
He had a really big dick
How did you find him though I mean how did you meet
We had been friends for a long time
That's what I'm going for. My friend will be the 3rd. How best for it to start?
We didn't plan it just kinda happened he came over to visit we had a few drinks decided to go nude hot tuping
Sounds really hot. I have a hot tub maybe I will do that. Who suggested going in nude?
I don't even remember but I remember the lock in her eyes when she first seen his dick
What was that look like?
Her eye wide open her jaw droped
Then he tells her you think that's something you should see it hard
We already tried it with a semi stranger. Someone who was more like an acquaintance but lives in another country and came to visit. I was not there however. I only got some videos but never of them fucking and got her to tell me the details. It was fine and we enjoyed it however she got infatuated with him and said to me that she doesn't know how she feels about me and him anymore. Anyway I told her she had to cut him off otherwise we were finished. She did, then said she realized that it was infatuation and she doesn't love him. So I think that in this case it will be easier to avoid that because she knows the friend for like 5 years now and she thinks she would fuck him but she knows his personality already and knows she doesn't find him emotionally attractive.
Yes the only thing that worries me about this guy is the trust thing. I trust him more than my average friend but its not 100% yet.
How would be the best and most natural way to suggest it to my friend?
Maybe yo could ask him if he has ever spoken with his girlfriend about having a threesome and if he would prefer to do it with someone unknown or with a trusted friend
I am the guy with the girlfriend and I want to share her with him or someone else.
Well, the conversation could be more or less the same
You think I should directly ask him if he would like to have a threesome with my girlfriend and I?
No, first ask him what he thinks about threesomes in general, to see if he is open to the idea, then ask him if would prefer to do it with someone who he has confidence or with someone not known at all. And then, if you see he is being receptive, ask him if he wants to do a threesome with you and your girlfriend.
Also, if you invite him to a couple of beers before having the conversation it will probably go much better
Yeah the beers go without saying.
We have been spending time together a lot for the past month. He has been staying for sometimes 5 days at a time. This is my girlfriend the friend and I all hanging out. I feel as though there is the slightest bit of sexual tension but not sure if I'm imagining it. Essentially though I think that if I said 'what do you think of a threesome?' He would understand immediately. This means it could go either way. Do you think there is a more delicate way to do it? by the way you can direct message me about this if you want to talk further. If not then no worries.
Maybe the three of you could play a game of truth and dare. That would give you the possibility of asking him or daring him to kiss your girlfriend or something like this
I think I will get my girlfriend to suggest that. If I do it then it would feel too direct. I want it to naturally happen
What do you mean?
What her character is like on the inside.
would you be ok with explaining in depth? No worries if not
If a woman is very much a looker, but her personality is utterly ugly and we don't click at all, then even a friendship is not likely to happen, and that even goes beyond me.
Nice, would you be ok to talk about it with me?
What would be the most comfortable way for you to be approached about?
What are the difficulties in picking the other guy?
he has to be willing, and not afraid
This guy is our friend. Do you think we should just ask him directly or be more sneaky/ have my girlfriend be seductive?